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Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 4:51:21 PM

MHOO314

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OK, so this may not be the right place for this, but I'm sure the Mods in their infinite wisdome will move it--I've watched the boards today and many posts have spun back around to men think and react through and guided by their hoohoos and women tease with their hooties ( feel free to fill in the blanks here...)-

When I read that, I personally get offended for Me, My Sisters in the life, My sub, male subs I know, Doms I am friends with---yet there are indeed cock teasers out there and the cock focused--My question is:

Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?

Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:06:01 PM

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Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

Since teasing and denial are a huge turn on for me...I know I'm a cock tease and I like it.
But I know that's not what you meant here. I do not promise or make the appearance of promising sex in order to get what I want with no intention of following through.

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and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"

First off to address that, it's far easier for a woman to get laid than a man, commanding it or not. A woman can look like Attila The Hun, stroll down to the local bar and get laid in minutes. She doesn't even have to buy a drink.

I have never heard a man say such a thing about a woman, but I have heard it said about a man. I do have to argue here that I believe there are some (both men and women) in this lifestyle that don't quite have a grasp on wiitwd and what it's all about. And they are attracted to the D/s dynamic because they think it's an easier way to get laid.

I say that about "Dom/mes" and "Subs" alike. I have met people that think that this is simply a way of broadening their sexual horizon and the pool in which to find an easy lay. Or a place that they can offer a little more of themselves in order to make themselves more attractive.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:12:01 PM

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Tress! I so love your responses! Martini?

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:15:00 PM

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ty, but I'm sticking with Diet Pepsi.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:34:11 PM

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refills MHOO's martini... and Misstress's diet pepsi.....

MHOO, I'm not sure really... I've heard the expressions before.. been called a cock teaser myself.. though only in being teased back. I've never flirted (teased or anything else) and not back it up.

From this side of the coin.. I too get tired of hear how men thinking only with their cocks... let's face it.. if that was true.. there would not be any of the semi -intelligent men posting on here that are now... or in other places off line. Hell Master didn't use his cock to get my attention.. he used his brain and figured out how to get my attention non sexually.

Can't answer the last one... not a Domme... hehehehe...... oh hell yes I can...

I do think... that if she's commanding someone.. SHE DID GET IT ON HER OWN!... LOL

enjoy drinks ladies...

jessica

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:42:32 PM

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:45:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

First off to address that, it's far easier for a woman to get laid than a man, commanding it or not. A woman can look like Attila The Hun, stroll down to the local bar and get laid in minutes. She doesn't even have to buy a drink.

i'm obviously doing something wrong here...(just kidding)..lol

quote:

I have never heard a man say such a thing about a woman, but I have heard it said about a man. I do have to argue here that I believe there are some (both men and women) in this lifestyle that don't quite have a grasp on wiitwd and what it's all about. And they are attracted to the D/s dynamic because they think it's an easier way to get laid.

It's so nice to hear someone else say this. i've said it a few times, and was blasted for it -- not that it changed my opinion..lol.

One thing i've "discovered" is that once i'm able to explain to the guy in question that i'm serious, not a player, not interested in a quick lay, or a sugar daddy, they usually flit off pretty quickly.

and..last but (probably not least since i'm in the mood to talk tonight..lol)

truesub (jessica) hit it right on the head...

i have to admit that there were a few times i've mulled over trying to be a Domme for that exact reason, but then figured that didn't live up to my own ethics, so sighed, and stayed a sub..lol

Hope all are enjoying their refreshments...

cheers
jimini

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:45:19 PM

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hmm hopes this was a system error, based on you profile, I'd love to hear your comments.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:46:22 PM

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quote:

Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"

I hate to sound so trite as to say I consider the source...but I am past the point in my life where foolish generalizations offend me. If you do not know me, you probably cannot engage me long enough to offend me.

IF you know me - then you know that general foolishness does not apply. I am a cock tease...I enjoy watching one react because it amuses me to see it react...in whatever form I choose. (Hey mods how am I doing with the keeping it in the boundaries? lol)

As far as an arrogant man stating I can only get it if I command it? Hmmm, I prefer arrogant men on their knees..where they tend to make less sweeping statements. If they cannot hold their tongue..then a clothespin on it generally helps them to focus more appropriately.

Yes, I command "it". It being respect, admiration, longing looks, and probably more late night fantasies than I am aware of. I command it by my presence, my demeanor, my charisma, and my attitude...to name a few attributes.

Just my thoughts...

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:48:12 PM

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quote:

guided by their hoohoos and women tease with their hooties

I know there is a way to work this in to a smart ass post, but it's escaping me...

sux when your out of material

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 5:52:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DelRey

quote:

guided by their hoohoos and women tease with their hooties

I know there is a way to work this in to a smart ass post, but it's escaping me...

sux when your out of material

Mmmm the only thing that comes to mind is the male version requires fewer letters and repetition...but that would indicate that I believe the first part of the quote...and that would make me one of those mean, thoughtless bitches...and oh my...never that! LOL

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:01:46 PM

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Cloudz, You have been away, welcome back!

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:02:55 PM

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dear m who
gaud your name is funny as heck;i always read you !
,in regards to your few questions ,and ,my answers, to the same ;can be found ,below your quotes ,on this post;(keep posting please;i love you! )

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

OK, so this may not be the right place for this, but I'm sure the Mods in their infinite wisdome will move it--I've watched the boards today and many posts have spun back around to men think and react through and guided by their hoohoos and women tease with their hooties ( feel free to fill in the blanks here...)-

When I read that, I personally get offended for Me, My Sisters in the life, My sub, male subs I know, Doms I am friends with---yet there are indeed cock teasers out there and the cock focused--My question is:

Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?

Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"

o.k. : i can definately reply, to ,both sex questions;
gemini....
you ,understand; i'm sure....
if someone says ,as a guy; i think,only, thru my thing;
i immediately think;well;they don't know what they are talking about, at all ,cause, if i WAS ;i would'nt be standin' ; talking; i'd be laying down lookin' up!; wouldnt I?.....BE REAL,
and ,
as a female ;who gets the: you are a below the waistline teaso-
i'd look first,and take it as somewhat of a compliment,
IF it were a standing ovation thing, or ignore it ,as PURE-ignoe;who couldnt get it up anyway,to save his life,thats why he's talkin'.

third:, to say a mistress "HAS TO COMMAND IT" means what?
mr. arrogant says it's o.k.?!
,and, look who's calling who arrogant?!,
both ;any and all tops ,altho, maybe, pure ,and ,virtuous ;ARE plainly =absolute arrogance ,in itself!
lonely at the top in that regard,
so thankgaud, for us appreciative M's who,just
love those arrogant god-like-ways;
such arrogance in a personality, if in the actual room is certainly worth a smirk ; nod;smile; wink; wiggly wag ,or two .....

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:02:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DelRey

quote:

guided by their hoohoos and women tease with their hooties

I know there is a way to work this in to a smart ass post, but it's escaping me...

sux when your out of material

hmm perhaps too much time spent peeing in the wind--<smiles>

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:17:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Cloudz, You have been away, welcome back!

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Cloudz, You have been away, welcome back!

Many thanks...glad to be back.

Mistress Cloudz

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:23:08 PM

slavejali

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The men think with their cocks statement probably comes from the fact men are very visual creatures..and we all know they have 3 eyes not two *grin*.

Women being branded cock teasers..i dont take offense to this, its just we women realise that men are very visual and play it..its a compliment really *grin*

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:23:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?

I look at it as just another woman that doesn't know me... and will not know me! I find the generalization as useful as that all women are prudes! I prefer to judge anyone regardless of sex based on the merits of character, beliefs and actions.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:28:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug

dear m who
gaud your name is funny as heck;i always read you !
,in regards to your few questions ,and ,my answers, to the same ;can be found ,below your quotes ,on this post;(keep posting please;i love you! )

o.k. : i can definately reply, to ,both sex questions;
gemini....
you ,understand; i'm sure....
if someone says ,as a guy; i think,only, thru my thing;
i immediately think;well;they don't know what they are talking about, at all ,cause, if i WAS ;i would'nt be standin' ; talking; i'd be laying down lookin' up!; wouldnt I?.....BE REAL,
and ,
as a female ;who gets the: you are a below the waistline teaso-
i'd look first,and take it as somewhat of a compliment,
IF it were a standing ovation thing, or ignore it ,as PURE-ignoe;who couldnt get it up anyway,to save his life,thats why he's talkin'.

third:, to say a mistress "HAS TO COMMAND IT" means what?
mr. arrogant says it's o.k.?!
,and, look who's calling who arrogant?!,
both ;any and all tops ,altho, maybe pure ,and ,virtuous ;ARE plainly =absolute arrogance ,in itself!
lonely at the top in that regard,
so thankgaud, for us appreciative M's who,just
love those arrogant godlike-ways;
such arrogance in a personality, if in the actual room is certainly worth a smirk ;smile; wink; wiggly wag ,or two .....

james! My boy is a Gemini too! Your response is so on target! Well said--

edited to save space..

< Message edited by MHOO314 -- 2/25/2006 6:31:16 PM >

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:36:17 PM

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quote:

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"

I'm actually at a loss. How is "commanding it" not getting my own? I still have to sort through the little cyber & do me boys that abound. Weed out the whiners, liars, marrieds that somehow think holding onto that information will let them stay after you find out. Then and only then can I get to the nitty gritty of do our expectations and kinks match for long term success.

Men think that I'm a tease when they think that they have a chance. Somehow I become a bitch, whore and cock tease when I tell them that phone sex and cyber so that they can jerk off is not in the program...funny that LOL I was their goddess 2 seconds ago even though we just met.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 6:44:02 PM

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quote:

And they are attracted to the D/s dynamic because they think it's an easier way to get laid.

I say that about "Dom/mes" and "Subs" alike. I have met people that think that this is simply a way of broadening their sexual horizon and the pool in which to find an easy lay. Or a place that they can offer a little more of themselves in order to make themselves more attractive

Funny that you would mention this. On a local meeting site I saw a posting just a few minutes ago that started out sub seeks Doms
open it up and it says learning submissive seeks multiple Doms to use me for their will. I want a gang bang and only groups and not single Doms should apply. Needless to say I was STUNNED.
I'm all for the idea that a girl whether Domme or sub has needs but the idea that something I enjoy is some girls idea of how to get a group thing kind of upset me.

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