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CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad?


A very successful, happy, loving, longterm or permanent relationship
  33% (29)
A satisfying, happy shortterm relationship
  12% (11)
Some happy and fun play sessions
  10% (9)
Very neutral results, nothing seriously good or bad
  10% (9)
A few not so happy relationships
  3% (3)
Some bad play sessions
  1% (1)
A seriously bad and traumatic relationship
  1% (1)
Nothing but liars and fakes
  4% (4)
A so bad event that u were ready 2 throw CollarMe and ur Comp away
  1% (1)
No relationships at all so far, or were never looking for one.
  14% (13)
Have found some friendships
  5% (5)
Have found some friendships with benefits
  1% (1)


Total Votes : 87
(last vote on : 9/4/2009 1:00:46 PM)
(Poll ended: 9/5/2009 12:01:00 AM)
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CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 8/31/2009 6:32:15 PM   
RobertCloud


Posts: 2959
Joined: 6/28/2006
Status: offline 		Many complain that no matter how long they have been here all they have found has been worthless. Others have had wonderful stories to tell about those they have met through CollarMe.
If you have had an experience with a relationship that was a result of contact made at CollarMe how did it turn out for you?
Feel free to elaborate...

< Message edited by RobertCloud -- 8/31/2009 6:39:02 PM >

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 12:32:07 AM   
WyldHrt


Posts: 6412
Joined: 6/5/2008
Status: offline 		Couldn't help but notice that you have 5 1/2- 6 negative options, 1- 1 1/2 neutral, and only 3 positives. A mention of good friends would also have rounded out the poll a little better. 

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 2:00:57 AM   
Rule


Posts: 10479
Joined: 12/5/2005
Status: offline 		I am not looking, so I guess I ought to select the last option. I believe that a relationship must be arranged by the Divine - and that one has to take the opportunity when presented. I haven't asked the Divine lately, and earlier opportunities I did not take, due to a lack of guts.

As for CM, I have only met two people face to face and they were a couple visiting my town and I showed them around a bit. Very nice to meet them.

There were two or three slaves that recognized me for what I am. One of them was pretty, she later found a new master and as I understand she is very happy. Haven't heard from her in a long time, but she knows that I am connected to her as a friend.

There is another slave with whom I occasionally correspond.

And of course there are various people whom I do notice when they post, jumping out above the grey, soon forgotten crowd.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 2:35:12 AM   
Cuffkinks


Posts: 1780
Joined: 5/5/2004
Status: offline 		My little girl found me here on CM 3 1/2 years ago and our relationship is nothing short of incredible. I certainly didn't expect to fall in love but that's exactly what happened.
I've recently added another girl to our relationship, and we met here on CM as well. That relationship has had some bumps getting off the ground, but the three of us all really want this to work. My new girl is very new to the lifestyle, full of passion and fire. A bit fiesty at times, but she has the potential to be an amazing submissive.
Needless to say...I'm a very happy man.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 3:48:38 AM   
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Posts: 42360
Joined: 9/7/2007
From: Quietville
Status: offline 		Hubby and i met on the other side. We have been happily married for over 5 years

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 4:35:18 AM   
Rainfire


Posts: 4047
Joined: 1/5/2009
Status: offline 		  Met Lumus right here in Polls & Other Random Stupidity, goofing off on the boards.

  • 30 May, 2008 flew from Boise, Idaho to Niagara Region, Ontario, Canada to move in with Him
  • 4 July 2008 He collared me in an emotional, moving, intensely private session.
  • 31 October , 2008 married on the shores of Lake Ontario, fabulous reception closed the restaurant down and moved to our place where it went to 5 am.
  • 01 September, 2009 most incredibly, gloriously still in love with Him and happily married and serving Him with all my heart and soul.
Our 1 year wedding anniversary is coming up next month and it's been worth everything. I still find Daddy the HAWTEST Man I've ever met and look forward to many many years with Him. He can make me laugh, make me cry, and make me feel like no One else ever has.

Now, the one thing I see missing from the poll is "Friends". I have met some of the most incredible friends, who stick by me through thick and thin, know what we've gone through and are currently going through. And yes, we've met some of them in real life, talked with others on the phone and look forward to meeting many more in person. Bear makes a GREAT maid of honour!!!!  


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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 4:42:11 AM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline 		Master contacted me on the "other side." We immediately hit it off and began chatting and calling daily until six weeks later I drove 800 miles south (from WV to AR) to spend a week of vacation with Him.

Approximately one year later, I moved to Him permanently and, on our second anniversary of knowing each other, we were married with family and friends in attendance in WV.

We still shake our heads at the odds of our meeting and falling in love. I wasn't looking to do so and He wasn't expecting it either. The fact that He was even looking at profiles of someone so far away wasn't typical of Him, either. Hey, you can't fight fate, right?

luci

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 7:32:57 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		I had to choose the very last option.

I haven't even met anyone from here that I can think of. I am not complaining, I lead a busy life and know others do also. Also, I've never seriously considered using the site to find a potential s-type.


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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 7:40:31 AM   
stella41b


Posts: 4258
Joined: 10/16/2007
From: SW London (UK)
Status: offline 		There's not an option for me, as relationships are not my primary focus here (or anywhere else) but I've got to say that when it comes to meeting people generally this is my favourite site of all. Also when it comes to interacting with people online the same conclusion applies. Why, even the mods have been nice to me on occasions.

Still not sure if a relationship will come from this site, it might, it might not, it doesn't really matter that much. You see it's been a positive experience using this site, I've met and had contact with positive people, my attitude is positive, and I feel that's important because if I come here with a positive attitude, encounter positive people then something positive is bound to happen sooner or later.

Right?



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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 7:45:57 AM   
VampiresLair


Posts: 1307
Joined: 9/3/2008
Status: offline 		Fox and I met here, and we are getting married in a few weeks. My former boy Angel is now a dominant, still a very close friend, and he recently married his slave girl who he also met here. So, overall, I'd say I had some very long term very happy relationships :)

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 7:58:24 AM   
AsYouWishhhhh


Posts: 2
Joined: 8/29/2009
Status: offline 		7 month live in bf, not very D/S as we are both new. First one I met from here. It ended well, and I would give him props.
However, my worst nightmare (met without the internet) is also lurking around here.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 8:12:27 AM   
Rainfire


Posts: 4047
Joined: 1/5/2009
Status: offline 		My absolute worst nightmare, the New York incident was met online but thankfully not here......

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 8:30:59 AM   
SassySarijane


Posts: 1558
Joined: 12/20/2007
From: KC Area Missouri
Status: offline 		Got to agree with those who've mentioned the lack of friend options in your poll. None of the choices given fit my experience here. I have met a few people and made some fantastic friends because of it.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 8:42:41 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		Met my husband here :)  

And yes, friends should be on the list too, since I've had the pleasure and honor to meet so many fantastic people here (with a bunch more on the yet to meet list!!)


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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 8:47:54 AM   
beargonewild


Posts: 22716
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		I have never started an intimate relationship with anyone I had talked with or met through this site. I have made some amazing friends through here and have met several in the past year with whom I still maintain contact with. I don't expect to meet a dom or a sub here as I don't use this site for that purpose. 

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 8:54:37 AM   
porcelaine


Posts: 5020
Joined: 7/24/2006
Status: offline 		nothing thus far but my opinion regarding the site and the opportunities it presents is positive.

porcelaine


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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 9:56:40 AM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		I have met in person and made a lot of great friends on here. I have had a few submissives from on here. I have been going thru a lot of life changes in the past few months. Loss of job, going back to school, keeping way to busy doing other things. I need a vacation. Wait! Im unemployed and on vacation.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 11:18:46 AM   
petmonkey


Posts: 1053
Joined: 7/7/2009
Status: offline 		We went on one date with a woman Sir met via profile search.  She was nice, but nothing came of it.


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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 2:04:39 PM   
TheMastHead


Posts: 27
Joined: 10/13/2005
From: Jag2u612
Status: offline 		I have no doubt that some of these stories are in fact real but like diamonds in the rough they are very few and very far between.  Friendships?  Not if you go the forum or message board route.  Same old do nothing's who claim to be deep deep in the scene then you note they seem to be posting every night of the week?  Now who truly into the scene spends their nights on message and forum boards?  One and only good thing about this site they record when and what time you make your comments.  So next time you wonder about someone check their message posts in the various forums and equate them to a calendar and that my friends is game, set, Match!  I know someone always tries to trump on these boards but you ain't trumping this one!  The facts are their the truth is out there you can find it even on Collarme!  Hopefully this will have a net affect of toning down the absurd cyber bullies who crush real discussion with their pseudo experience and know more than thou attitudes.  And that goes double for the gang bangers those are the ones who chime in with the cyber bullies you know comments like "right JB he's off on loony land" "I hear ya TS" etc etc.  Just remember when you try to snap back on me I'll be checking your forum entry dates!  

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/1/2009 2:35:14 PM   
windchymes


Posts: 9410
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline 		I'll let you know after Labor Day.

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