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Traveling switch - 9/3/2009 9:25:17 AM

lightwatcher

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I have been a long time fan of BDSM, but never had the guts to do any real time stuff that wasn't done to self. In fact, I am confused as to which side of the coin is more polished. Am I a sub or a Dom? At the moment I will call myself a switch for lack of experience in either realm. Hopefully by joining this site and meeting new people I will gain insight as to which behavior better suits me .

My goal is to meet someone that would like to train me, or a person that would like to be trained by a novice (the latter would be more of a growth experiment and learning experience). My creativity knows no bounds. The mind is a wondrous playground that I love exploring.

I am an avid traveler. As I write this I am in the middle of a cross country trip. Austin is my home for the next week or so and then off to Phoenix, L.A. and who knows where?

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/3/2009 11:12:42 AM

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/3/2009 1:25:25 PM

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Thanks!

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/3/2009 4:41:38 PM

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Instead of wondering, I suggest you get thee to a dungeon/play party. You may find out that you have a marked preference for one side of the paddle. Or not - switches are fine too.

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/3/2009 7:50:26 PM

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Thanks for the advice!

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/4/2009 3:55:58 AM

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Welcome to the CM forums.

All three cities you mentioned have large kink communities. I agree, get thee to a dungeon.

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/4/2009 10:32:36 AM

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Welcome to the forums!

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/4/2009 7:54:15 PM

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Thanks for the help everyone!

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RE: Traveling switch - 9/4/2009 10:33:30 PM

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I've been to the local dungeons here (San Francisco) and have had play sessions as both a top and a bottom. I am learning more about topping by being a bottom. I regret to say that I am still a "switch".

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