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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 1:28:14 AM

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I have this deep-seated desire to sodomise Vladimir Putin with my strap-on. Go figure.

It could be that Vlad has a strong passing resemblance to the elvish Kreacher from the HP films.

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 2:22:42 AM

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OP, it sounds like your submissive/bottom side is getting activated.

Truth be told, during the moments of arousal it was more like my feral, animalistic, feral side was being activated. I wanted very rough, very angry fuck fest with the co-worker, like snarling, face slapping, skin clawing, neck biting, forceful, powerful, "I'm the one in charge of this!" sex.

Lucky I, y'know, could suppress that. :)

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 5:31:49 AM

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A-ha! Well, you never know, maybe SHE wanted you to fuck her brains out!

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 6:34:00 AM

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I have this deep-seated desire to sodomise Vladimir Putin with my strap-on. Go figure.

It could be that Vlad has a strong passing resemblance to the elvish Kreacher from the HP films.

I think Kreacher is nicer than Putin, actually.

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 6:07:46 PM

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Pheromones. Or perhaps it's just a case that we can't always control whom we find sexually attractive.

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 6:15:15 PM

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I've had that problem before.

We used to be play partners (before he did something really bad and I ended up hating him for it), we fought, then apologized, then started drinking together, and then ended up in a few good grudge fucking sessions, and we did this a couple of times a month for about a year.........

All in all, though I don't hate him anymore (now I just feel horribly sorry for him and what he's turned his life into, its pathetic really) I really don't care for him.

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 6:43:06 PM

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That ever elusive thing we call chemistry. At the age of 55, I can't say I can define what it is any better than you can at 22, Van.

All I can suggest is that if you find that in someone you actually like, try not to mess it up, it's valuable.

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/6/2009 9:43:54 PM

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It isn't their personality you want to fuck.

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RE: Sexual Attraction to Someone you Hate - 9/7/2009 5:06:20 AM

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But Arpig, sometimes it is. Sometimes you come across someone who is against type, not the usual person you are attracted to. It can be interesting, compelling, and very sexy to think about what it would be like, yes, to fuck them. But you definitely don't start out thinking that way. It grows over a period of time and you start thinking to yourself - bright, shiny, sparkly.

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