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RE: A dominant? - 9/16/2009 7:39:51 PM

Rhodes85

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'Let me turn the situation around. Suppose somebody who cannot care for himself discovers the world of D/s, and then thinks of it as a way to get unlimited sex and never have to answer to his submissive, just by calling himself a Dom. Quite a temptation. '

If you replaced 'submissive' with the american people and 'Dom' with president....that kind of reminds me of bill clinton

the OP makes some good points though

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RE: A dominant? - 9/17/2009 7:45:54 AM

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hey i hate to say this but you have said what i have been saying for the past serveral years, i now have decided that these so called doms really have no place in the lifestyle as they have no concept what it really is---my name for them is wife/husband beaters in drag---
they have or are trying to be something that they donot understan d the basis is mental and not physical--TRUST they forget that it is earned and not given and is earned on a daily basis
get it together doms and be a true dom learn what you are supposed to be or get the hell out of our community

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RE: A dominant? - 9/18/2009 10:40:48 AM

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Read...

He Looks Like a Dom & Quacks Like a Dom, but is He Really a Dom?
http://domsubfriends.com/voye/articles/105/

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RE: A dominant? - 9/18/2009 3:12:30 PM

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I don't expect him to be perfect. I don't expect him to do everything better than me. I don't want him to exceed me in every way. Because if he does, then what use am I to him?

I'm a pet in many ways, loved, petted, given treats. I like that a lot.

But I also am of real use to him. I do research for him that he doesn't seem to have the knack for. He doesn't have the patience to spend two hours chasing links in order to eventually get the right keyword that gives him the infomation he requires. He likes having it all at his fingertips when he needs it.

I'm also a better cook. If he did everything else and I was of no use except to applaud him, I'd be unhappy. I'd also figure out that he had to be pretty insecure if he needed to know his partner in life was his inferior in every possible way.

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