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This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:02:39 PM   
Futuresocks


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Status: offline 		This is a low point in my life, for sure. I'm mad - silently furious, in fact - at the shallowness of people--not just here, but everywhere in the lifestyle.

You women are the worst. You have these grandiose expectations in your head of how the men you associate with will look and act. These expectations play right into your fantasies, those fleeting thoughts in your fickle, wandering minds, which is why you can't find anybody.

Join the club. Neither can I. I read the constant "no gameplayers," "no fakes," "Is anybody for real on here?" posts in you domme's profiles. I feel the same way. It's not just us subs who suck. It's you too, only, most of you are too self-absorbed to know it.

I'm so dissatisfied in my search, though I have met a few good people along the way. I don't know what else to say.

My back is out and I'm lying in bed in pain as I type. I can't get the smoke out of the room from the fuckhead ex-con losers who occupied this hotel room before I did. I've moved twice, but there's nothing management can do about it. This is the place where people live who are too big of low-lives and unable to get on a lease at a respectable apartment. Doesn't say much for me living here, does it?

Anyways, fuck you all, you dommes who don't return PMs from caring and intelligent people who took the time to write thoughtful messages. It wouldn't kill you to be responsive and nice sometimes, even if you must lose yourself two-thirds of the time in fits of egomaniacal narcissism.

There was a time getting into this lifestyle that I practically begged for a collar from the responsible and praise-worthy woman who got me this far. Now, I don't even care.

Maybe those imaginary nurses in my head who kept me bound and gagged for hours were not so bad after all. I wanted to advance. I wanted to go further. Will that happen? I don't know. Doesn't look like it.

< Message edited by Futuresocks -- 9/9/2009 7:06:07 PM >
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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:08:33 PM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry for you. Things'll get better over time.

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:09:07 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		Well, all I can say for sure is that negativity doesn't do what people hope it will. If there is someone decent out there, I can guarantee she will not be responding to you. Not only is this post a horrific buzzkill, but your profile and journal are full of the same. Venom kills. If you want to nurture the possibility of something taking root, remove this poison first. Good luck in your search!

lovingpet

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:12:21 PM   
Futuresocks


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Well, all I can say for sure is that negativity doesn't do what people hope it will. If there is someone decent out there, I can guarantee she will not be responding to you. Not only is this post a horrific buzzkill, but your profile and journal are full of the same. Venom kills. If you want to nurture the possibility of something taking root, remove this poison first. Good luck in your search!

lovingpet


Such nice words, lovingpet, but you should have seen my profile 45 minutes ago! It was just like you describe! :b

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:13:20 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		It was worse??? Oh dear!

lovingpet

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:13:58 PM   
Level


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Status: offline 		I'm sure there were some women that were going to respond to you, but their fickle, wandering minds caused them to forget.

And why wait to get some socks in the future?

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:16:17 PM   
Futuresocks


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

I'm sure there were some women that were going to respond to you, but their fickle, wandering minds caused them to forget.

And why wait to get some socks in the future?

Damn, you're good!

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:18:27 PM   
Futuresocks


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

It was worse??? Oh dear!

lovingpet

No, it was better (and look what it got me!) :( Anywho, thanks for the cheer-up attempt. :)

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:18:57 PM   
Level


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Status: offline 		I know.

Seriously, ranting won't fix anything. Be glad to weed out the ones that don't fit, and keep looking for the one that does.

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:23:59 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline 		Looking at your profile you've been angry for a very long time, not just recently.
You have no photo posted.
You say nothing about yourself.
And to be honest you really haven't been here that long a time and it looks like you've contributed very little to the forums.

I was single for over 8 years before meeting Master.

Live your life and enjoy it instead of being angry at the world. When people see the change in attitude they'll find you more attractive.

Plus try writing a profile that says who you are without being nasty and mean and post a pic.

Good luck if you decide to go that route. If not then I wish you happiness in your solitude.

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:29:29 PM   
Futuresocks


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Status: offline 		Been there, done that. Maybe I'm just not marketable.

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 7:52:52 PM   
SteelofUtah


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From: St George Utah
Status: offline 		This is not an attempt to cheer you up. This is an attempt for you to see the reality of what this thread says about you.

You are just like the people you have come to hate.

People can't help be drawn to positive people. And Negative people attract themselves to anyone who will listen.

Stop looking at this as a place to meet and hook up and find a match or kinky playmate and start looking at it like a community of people and maybe just maybe make some friends.

Seriously man you are a serious bummer. Why would ANYONE want to get to know someone who is as negative as you just came across?  Why would anyone who reads this think you were worth their time?

Most Importantly this thread makes every Domme who didn't write you back ...... RIGHT! So you proved their point and they will continue to ignore and belittle serious people because you just proved that the person who is sincere eventually does what you just did and they were right to stay away from you.

THINK MAN THINK!!!

Steel

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:04:23 PM   
sweetsub1957


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I was just going to say that I'm really sorry you're bummed.....but that nasty ass attitude will get you nowhere....lovingpet and Steel are right.

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In lowering yourself to talking behind my back, you're perfectly positioned to kiss my ass.

An it harm none, do what ye wilt.

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:05:06 PM   
blackpearl81


Posts: 506
Joined: 8/30/2005
From: Home of the Yankees
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Futuresocks

This is a low point in my life, for sure. I'm mad - silently furious, in fact - at the shallowness of people--not just here, but everywhere in the lifestyle.

You women are the worst. You have these grandiose expectations in your head of how the men you associate with will look and act. These expectations play right into your fantasies, those fleeting thoughts in your fickle, wandering minds, which is why you can't find anybody.

Join the club. Neither can I. I read the constant "no gameplayers," "no fakes," "Is anybody for real on here?" posts in you domme's profiles. I feel the same way. It's not just us subs who suck. It's you too, only, most of you are too self-absorbed to know it.

I'm so dissatisfied in my search, though I have met a few good people along the way. I don't know what else to say.

My back is out and I'm lying in bed in pain as I type. I can't get the smoke out of the room from the fuckhead ex-con losers who occupied this hotel room before I did. I've moved twice, but there's nothing management can do about it. This is the place where people live who are too big of low-lives and unable to get on a lease at a respectable apartment. Doesn't say much for me living here, does it?

Anyways, fuck you all, you dommes who don't return PMs from caring and intelligent people who took the time to write thoughtful messages. It wouldn't kill you to be responsive and nice sometimes, even if you must lose yourself two-thirds of the time in fits of egomaniacal narcissism.

There was a time getting into this lifestyle that I practically begged for a collar from the responsible and praise-worthy woman who got me this far. Now, I don't even care.

Maybe those imaginary nurses in my head who kept me bound and gagged for hours were not so bad after all. I wanted to advance. I wanted to go further. Will that happen? I don't know. Doesn't look like it.


Adopt this mentality:

F.I.D.O

Fuck It, Drive On.

So one or two people don't return a PM. It's not like it's the end of the world.

_____________________________

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Ms. Pacman was the greatest prostitute that ever lived. For 25 cents, that bitch swallowed balls 'till she died.

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:06:54 PM   
GraciousLady


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Status: offline 		All I see is someone who is not getting their way and is having a temper tantrum.

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:10:41 PM   
blackpearl81


Posts: 506
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From: Home of the Yankees
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

This is not an attempt to cheer you up. This is an attempt for you to see the reality of what this thread says about you.

You are just like the people you have come to hate.

People can't help be drawn to positive people. And Negative people attract themselves to anyone who will listen.

Stop looking at this as a place to meet and hook up and find a match or kinky playmate and start looking at it like a community of people and maybe just maybe make some friends.

Seriously man you are a serious bummer. Why would ANYONE want to get to know someone who is as negative as you just came across?  Why would anyone who reads this think you were worth their time?

Most Importantly this thread makes every Domme who didn't write you back ...... RIGHT! So you proved their point and they will continue to ignore and belittle serious people because you just proved that the person who is sincere eventually does what you just did and they were right to stay away from you.

THINK MAN THINK!!!

Steel


I like the way this guy thinks.

If I was in the land of salt flats & Mormons, I'd buy him a beer.

_____________________________

~ Karma. Being a motherfucker since 1981 ~

Ms. Pacman was the greatest prostitute that ever lived. For 25 cents, that bitch swallowed balls 'till she died.

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:19:07 PM   
MistressSassy66


Posts: 1675
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Status: offline 		I have to comment that Steel totally hit the nail on the head.

I have heard that the things we hate about others are the things we do ourselves.

An example: I tend to put things off,when my 20 y/o puts things off
it aggravates the hell out of me.

Good Luck in your search

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http://www.mistresssassy.com

In the Immortal Words of Bob....Fuck the dumb shit.

"I love you not only for what you are,But for what I am when I'm with you."- Opening line from a poem by Roy Croft

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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:19:11 PM   
onlyfreelycaged


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Joined: 4/3/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Futuresocks

Been there, done that. Maybe I'm just not marketable.
quote:

Futuresocks


you're not at all marketable, unless you want to be ignored. then you're doing a fine job.

there are two qualites that Dom's look for in a sub, and this two trump all the rest.
#1- will this personmake my life easer? will that lead to my life being better?
#2- do I like this person. do I want to be around them?

as far as doing that... your profile and post both answer that you're only seeking to make you're life easer, and don't care about mine. and no, I don't want to be around someone who's going to be all negative all the time... not even my family.


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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:25:59 PM   
porcelaine


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Status: offline 		suffering succotash.

there are times when words fail me.

porcelaine


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RE: This Sucks (a rant) - 9/9/2009 8:27:54 PM   
learning2sub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: blackpearl81

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

This is not an attempt to cheer you up. This is an attempt for you to see the reality of what this thread says about you.

You are just like the people you have come to hate.

People can't help be drawn to positive people. And Negative people attract themselves to anyone who will listen.

Stop looking at this as a place to meet and hook up and find a match or kinky playmate and start looking at it like a community of people and maybe just maybe make some friends.

Seriously man you are a serious bummer. Why would ANYONE want to get to know someone who is as negative as you just came across?  Why would anyone who reads this think you were worth their time?

Most Importantly this thread makes every Domme who didn't write you back ...... RIGHT! So you proved their point and they will continue to ignore and belittle serious people because you just proved that the person who is sincere eventually does what you just did and they were right to stay away from you.

THINK MAN THINK!!!

Steel


I like the way this guy thinks.

If I was in the land of salt flats & Mormons, I'd buy him a beer.


Since Mormons don't drink... might be a challenge. ;)

Well said both of you though.

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