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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/21/2004 12:04:54 PM   
LadyBeckett


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Status: offline 		I was just kind of peeking in and reading here out of curiosity, and noticed that proudsub responded, and saw MisSuz had put her two cents in, Silverdawn did too, very cool...I read some more. I was nodding in agreement here and there, then read what BlackGoddess had to say, and came to Inyouagain's post. I'm just wondering, Inyouagain, if you came into the thread at BlackGoddess' post and didn't see the other women that had posted before her??? Not that it matters at this point, I was just curious. Once I saw that they had posted I had pretty much decided I was going to post anyway, however (and you have Topcat to thank for this, lol) I had read some time ago that it was alright to post on these gender titled forums.

In keeping with the topic, those who serve me call me Mistress. Those in the lifestyle call me Lady Beckett, or Lady casually. Friends just call me by name. Respect is in tone and attitude, not the name used in presentation, I believe.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/21/2004 4:12:39 PM   
inyouagain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyBeckett
...I'm just wondering, Inyouagain, if you came into the thread at BlackGoddess' post and didn't see the other women that had posted before her??? Not that it matters at this point, I was just curious. Once I saw that they had posted I had pretty much decided I was going to post anyway, however (and you have Topcat to thank for this, lol) I had read some time ago that it was alright to post on these gender titled forums.

There are two identical honourifics threads, one for the Dom gender honourifics and the other just like it for the Domme gender honourifics (but was titled slightly different: Domme, Domina, or Femdom, which is right?).

All the females who had responded to this Dom gender honourifics thread spoke of Dom honourifics, and I did notice MizSuz had posted in both threads. BlackGoddess was a new board member and I wanted to be sure she realized the identical thread was in the "ask a Mistress" forum, which she had not realized. My post was a welcome, and pointed out the similar opposite gendered thread. She seems to have understood exactly what I was saying and appreciated same.

Also note that BlackGoddess was told "Not inferring your posts are limited to any forum, or forums... they are welcome across the board...", and this was long before your comment about thanking Topcat for this?

I have never had a problem with anyone posting anywhere here (except trolls and spammers), and pointed this out in the post you question. However, I have had a male sub who you know try to tell me I was not welcome to post any comments in the "ask a submissive" forum, but I didn't accept his double-standard and pointed out to him the board's policies allow posts across forums as he has freely done since his arrival (superuser). I did not accept his self-imposed double-standard attempt then nor do I accept or endorse it now.

Hope this helps to clear things up.

Inyouagain

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/21/2004 6:19:52 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Sorry for the interruption. Since headuphisassagain is twisting things i better explain.

First off was I the only one who noticed he ducked the question?

If you follow his tag line you can read the actual posts. I posted on the ask a slave board a question for slaves. headuphisassagain answered. I told him his view was appreciated but i was asking submissive women.

If I had any resprect for him at all I sue him for libel. I vchallenge him or anyone to quote me telling him he is not welcome to post any comments in the ask a submmisive board.

Oh, Have you noticed I only reply to head uphisassagain when he goads me. I guess his tag line allows me to respond in kind to him anywhere. Just like him proving a link to where he addresses me as "Monkey Boy" allows me to use the same ad hominem attack. (Just a tad more vitrolic and witty I think.)

The only tactic of his I won't use is the straw man arguement. I' rather point out when he uses it. (Like now after avoiding a direct question.)

Again, sorry for the interruption while I defended myself.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/21/2004 7:20:01 PM   
LadyBeckett


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quote:

ORIGINAL: inyouagain
All the females who had responded to this Dom gender honourifics thread spoke of Dom honourifics



quote:

ORIGINAL: Sylverdawn

Call me Ma'am ... or Ms.. I dont need to be Lordess of The Enternal Darkness, Goddess of The Five Gates of Hell, Queen of Kinkdom... Im just me.. I came built this way.. My parents named me .. good enough...


quote:

ORIGINAL: MizSuz

My name is Suz and I do answer to it.

For someone who I do not own I like Ma'am or Ms or Mz, although I never require honorifics (the very requirement would take the honor out of it to my mind).


I believe it's cleared up now, isn't it? Unless the Dom's are wearing thigh highs.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/21/2004 10:31:28 PM   
inyouagain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: iwillserveu
...I vchallenge him or anyone to quote me telling him he is not welcome to post any comments in the ask a submmisive board.


quote:

ORIGINAL: iwllserveu
Second, this is the "ask a submissive/slave" board. You have a valid point. A point I appreciate and did not consider. (Namely the answer is "Protect you from yourself.")

However, when I ask for opinions from submissive/slaves I want opinions from submissive/slaves. You were the only response. There is a reason I did not post this on the "ask a master board". (In case you don't know it, maybe sub females know what they are thinking better than you, or is your E.S.P. flawless? )

Why this thread to begin with is I want to hear from FEMALE SUBMISSIVES why. I will never fully understand it. (In case you never noticed, men and women are different. The emoticon is because I doubt you never noticed.) I will also never fully understand being a lesbian, but that does not mean I am not intellectually curious.

Your own words verbatim.

Inyouagain

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/21/2004 10:41:43 PM   
inyouagain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyBeckett
I believe it's cleared up now, isn't it? Unless the Dom's are wearing thigh highs.

Believe what you will (pun intended).

Inyouagain

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/22/2004 4:09:39 AM   
LadyBeckett


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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/23/2004 6:43:46 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		cranium in hi spincter again,

I just love how you duck LadyBeckett when she proved you wrong.

I also love you getting the quote

Let's all analyse it

quote:

quote:

ORIGINAL: iwllserveu
Second, this is the "ask a submissive/slave" board. You have a valid point. A point I appreciate and did not consider. (Namely the answer is "Protect you from yourself.")

However, when I ask for opinions from submissive/slaves I want opinions from submissive/slaves. You were the only response. There is a reason I did not post this on the "ask a master board".


Let me say that without any humor. I will use direct quotes

Second, this is the "ask a submissive/slave" board. You have a valid point. A point I appreciate and did not consider. (Namely the answer is "Protect you from yourself.")

This means you had a valid point but the question was "Protect you from what?" not "What will you protect them from?" Did you miss the part about apreciating your response or are you just acting obtuse?

quote:

However, when I ask for opinions from submissive/slaves I want opinions from submissive/slaves. You were the only response. There is a reason I did not post this on the "ask a master board".


This means when I clearly adress a question to slaves I'd kinda like a slave's perspective, not an alledged dom.

Just like when I posted this question I really was not curious how slaves might tell me how their Doms really want to be addressed. Maybe there is areason this is not on the "ask a submissive/slave" board.

Sorry to anyone else actually answereing the question, but I better not let headuphisassagain define what I said, again.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/23/2004 8:03:59 PM   
inyouagain


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Status: offline 		I just love it when a monkeyboy insists on continually proving me right, so thanks again.

You've put so much time and effort into silver tongued rhetoric all over the board, usually way off topic (in vain attempt to further explain or regurgitate), while the thread you preach about is linked in my sig for all to read.

You are no doubt the undisputed Champion of Reading Domme Profiles, nobody ever threatened your title, let alone your's truly (that's in your little mind), but somehow for some twisted reason you feel that either I do, or somehow did at one point, threaten your self-appointed title???

Actually, this all started with my single comment to the effect of "Protection is not a gender specific issue" in the linked thread below... and you've been pissing all over yourself since then.

Perhaps you will find out how a Domme protects her male sub... from himself???

Go figure.

Inyouagain

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/23/2004 8:12:09 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Why can't we all put our differences aside for the good of the lifestyle?

Everyone has something to offer even if it isn't the popular opinion.

We are all very unique individuals. We can all learn from one another.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/23/2004 8:13:48 PM   
MasterHawk1208


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Status: offline 		This is my first post on this site so flame easily pls. When first meeting and exploring a relationship with a sub, I dont expect or require that the sub call me anything but my name. Once the relationship moves forward, then I would expect and require the sub to call me Sir. Not that it would be 24/7, but out of respect for me and our relationship. If the relationship would move forward even further to a collaring or livin stage, then the title would be moved to Master. There is only one submissive that I have ever given that right too and would not expect her to hear it from another.

I respect everyones opinion on this and everyones perception differs. What you call someone, whether it be Master, Sir, Sire or God(lol), is all based on the couple(s) expectaions and desires for what they want thier relationship to be. I dont believe that anyone has the right to decide what title they will use except for the participants in the relationship themselves.

Of course this is only my opinion and like all opinions well fill in your euphamism here.

This post was NOT sanatized for your protection. Please read it with that in mind

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/23/2004 8:35:17 PM   
ModeratorThree


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Status: offline 		I agree.

I think the barrage of name calling and insult hurling can end.

I am asking that it does, here... now.


We are adults, and should act as such. There are a great many posters here that can and do offer helpful insight in many areas. Some even provide us a few good laughs.


So let's move on shall we?


If you would like to discuss the matter, feel free to email me @ ModeratorThree.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/23/2004 8:51:21 PM   
GoddessMarissa


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Status: offline 		Please delet this if you can so it dose not stir things up. thank you

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/24/2004 6:13:35 AM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Moderator three,

I'll bury the hatchet. Sorry to go off topic for a third time. Please delete this after reading it, ModeratorThree.

< Message edited by iwillserveu -- 4/24/2004 6:14:29 AM >

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/25/2004 5:26:59 AM   
ShadeDiva


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I don't need a lot of frills.

Blunt and simple works for me.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/25/2004 2:46:01 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		I opt for just Kiss, unless someone is being intentionally disrespectful by not including the title. Normally that doesn't grate my nerves, but smartasses, beware...grinsssssssssssss




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RE: What do you want to be called? - 4/26/2004 6:46:11 PM   
Sinergy


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Status: offline 		I have a name I expect other people to call me, and while it has four letters, it is not perjorative.

I found after teaching martial arts for 9 years and having everybody in the studio call me Sir that I have somewhat of a dislike for it.

So for me, please use my name unless I have proven myself to you that I am deserving of more of an honorific. As far as how I refer to other people, I treat everybody with respect and part of that is referring to them as they wish to be referred to as.

Sinergy.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 12/24/2004 9:28:44 PM   
MistressDREAD


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subs: dont call Me.............~wink~

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 12/24/2004 11:09:10 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

subs: dont call Me.............~wink~


We need to call you something.

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RE: What do you want to be called? - 12/26/2004 7:00:52 AM   
RealityFix


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Status: offline 		My name is usually sufficient.

And it's less confusing when around other dominants-I have no doubt as to exactly who is being adressed then!

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