Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Hmmmmmm message?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> Hmmmmmm message? Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 12:02:47 PM   
MstrTiger


Posts: 417
Joined: 1/14/2006
From: UK
Status: offline 		I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?

_____________________________

Visit my website http://www.tigerdom.com
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 12:05:37 PM   
wolffeathers


Posts: 315
Joined: 8/6/2005
From: Clearwater
Status: offline 		I'm not sure that's vanity.

I would much rather people judge me for ME, then what I look like.

_____________________________

It's my way or the highway. Just happens that the highway is on my way.

~Master Wolf

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 12:06:23 PM   
RavenMuse


Posts: 4030
Joined: 1/23/2006
Status: offline 		Maybe they are believers in the old wives tale about the size of the feet being an indication of the 'size of the man'

But seriously, if it seems that odd to you then it is likely the person isn't what your looking for. "Thanks but no thanks"... next!

_____________________________

This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Owner of metalmiss

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 12:18:24 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		It is unrealistic to expect people not to care about how you look.

However, your assessment of that particular email was probably dead-on.

The good news is, you get to choose who you get involved with- so you will choose someone who's values and ideals on vanity match with yours.

_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 12:24:26 PM   
Elegant


Posts: 1024
Joined: 3/15/2005
Status: offline 		Perhaps she wished to buy you some boots?...<i>grin</i>

_____________________________

Elegant
~Slave To Master Archer

http://www.FantasiesInLeather.com

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 12:39:04 PM   
JohnWarren


Posts: 3807
Joined: 3/18/2005
From: Delray Beach, FL
Status: offline 		Feet? Ha! It was your leg that was being yanked.

_____________________________

www.lovingdominant.org

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 1:02:03 PM   
amayos


Posts: 1553
Joined: 6/2/2004
From: New England
Status: offline 		I would tend to have the same reaction you had. I am not dominant to offer a body part as the object of masturbatory worship. I don't think it's much an issue of vanity at all as it is an issue of authenticity of motive.

It is the body, mind and soul together that I am interested in.

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 2:24:34 PM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		And here i naively thought it was only (or at least mostly) females who had to contend with this....although the question i was most accustomed to was cup size, rather than shoe size

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 7:22:53 PM   
littlesassy


Posts: 3
Joined: 10/1/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?

i agree with You Sir.

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 7:51:22 PM   
sylphgossamer


Posts: 383
Joined: 1/22/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)


i love how you think! prada, gucci, givenchy, wang, chanel, dior, manolo, choo, louboutin....that sounds more than a fair trade to me. : )

(in reply to ownedgirlie)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 8:09:43 PM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: sylphgossamer

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)


i love how you think! prada, gucci, givenchy, wang, chanel, dior, manolo, choo, louboutin....that sounds more than a fair trade to me. : )


Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

(in reply to sylphgossamer)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/27/2006 11:24:32 PM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?


Not sure if I would have deleted the message my old son, it was an open invitation to rvjoy some machevalian humour and dominate the matter.

Perhaps a reply could have read:

"Big enough to walk over you after they have stomped your testicals into a pulp...."

Would have been interesting to see if the sender had replied to that or headed for the hills at high speed........

_____________________________

Iron Bear

Master of Bruin Cottage

http://www.bruincottage.org

Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 7:04:03 AM   
OscarHargraves


Posts: 693
Joined: 8/9/2005
Status: offline 		My immediate reaction would be to censor you for not answering the e-mail. Yes you may be right and this is probably a fetishist, but it was rude not to at least answer and say why you aren't interested. I know most guys get upset when women do this and I see no reason why we shouldn't show the same courtesy to them (and others) that we expect. Would it have been that hard to send them a simple, "No thank you"?

_____________________________

Never drive faster than your guardian angel can fly ! !

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 8:26:00 AM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		To me, any sort of reply just seems like an invitation for them to write again. i guess i developed this "don't bother to reply" attitude when i was spending more time in chat rooms - getting IM'd like crazy from those who wanted to cyber. If i bothered to reply with a "No thank you" they would follow it up with something charming like "Fuck you, bitch." Also if i bothered to reply to all of them i would be spending all my time doing that and no time visiting with actual friends. my thought is similar to call screening at home - i did not invite you to interrupt what i am doing, so i will decide if i want to reply or not. Bitchy? Maybe. But that's my thought on it.

When i expressed to my Master my interest in joining this forum, he granted approval on the condition that i make it obvious that i am owned, because he didn't want me to have to deal with players like that (he knows i can handle it, but he likes being possessive that way and i find it sweet...heehee). Hence my "obvious" name, LOL. my profile says i am owned, and just here for the discussion board and to talk to friends. And yet i STILL get messages from those with a different agenda. So, they do not warrant a reply in my opinion.

Some from this board have messaged me to discuss something "offline, " and i am absolutely open to that. That's a different story than being hit on.

(in reply to OscarHargraves)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 9:51:17 AM   
LthrdWolf


Posts: 92
Joined: 1/23/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”.



Wanted to know the size of your dick -plain & simple- so ignore it as crass or enjoy it & respond - up to You.

LthrdWolf

< Message edited by LthrdWolf -- 2/28/2006 9:55:23 AM >

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 11:13:13 AM   
yourMissTress


Posts: 1665
Joined: 6/14/2005
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: sylphgossamer

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)


i love how you think! prada, gucci, givenchy, wang, chanel, dior, manolo, choo, louboutin....that sounds more than a fair trade to me. : )


MMMMM, I really didn't think I was going to get wet reading this thread...

_____________________________

Tress


"If you have to tell people that you are a lady, you are not." My Grandmother


(in reply to sylphgossamer)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 7:59:59 PM   
Arpig


Posts: 9930
Joined: 1/3/2006
From: Increasingly further from reality
Status: offline 		Well I am with you on this one Tiger, I would hope to be judged by what is on the inside as well...but then again, given my looks, that isn't really much of a surprise now is it

_____________________________

Big man! Pig Man!
Ha Ha...Charade you are!

Why do they leave out the letter b on "Garage Sale" signs?

CM's #1 All-Time Also-Ran


(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 8:44:14 PM   
FangsNfeet


Posts: 3758
Joined: 12/3/2004
Status: offline 		You had a sub flirting with you. I don't think he/she really cared what the size of your foot looks like. I'm sure the messenger just wanted to say something that would get your attention above the others.

If I where in you shoes this is how I would reply:

"How big are my feet? Just one is big enough to knock you down, pin you, and be forced up your ass. You would then be have to worship my feet by cleaning them with your tongue. Are you sure you're ready to serve under my feet?"

Weather than giving any actual measurments or sizes, just assure you have what it takes to get the job done.

Now please, Save the Drama for your Mama

_____________________________

I'm Godzilla and you're Japan

(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 9:48:56 PM   
slavejali


Posts: 2918
Status: offline 		i think she wanted to know the size of your C***.Can we say that word here? I starred it out just in case lol

and btw, I dont believe that foot thing is true.

(in reply to FangsNfeet)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Hmmmmmm message? - 2/28/2006 11:43:04 PM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline
quote:

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?


In all honesty, if you don't want people to respond to your looks, less provocative pictures would probably be in order. You've got three very hot pics up, so what, exactly, do you expect? I think you are being a bit on the dramatic side, but physical attraction is important in a relationship. How would you respond to someone who wrote to you and said something like.. "You're not really, physically, my type, but I like what you have to say anyway. Can we chat?" Are you likely to respond to someone who tells you up front they don't find you their cuppa, but want to give it a chance anyway? Do you give them that chance, or do you move along to someone who does find you physically appealing? On the flip side, if a picture turns you off, do you write to the person anyway if you have other things in common or will you send out an email to someone who is really hot and attractive to you, but doesn't have what you're really looking for in other areas?

Bottom line, if he wasn't for you, no harm, no foul. You ignored the email, so it's time to move passed it. Rather than being upset, be flattered that you attacted him in the first place. I mean, aren't you trying to attract people? Sometimes they're the wrong ones, but you have to break a lot of eggs to make quiche.

Um.. just out of curiosity.. how big are your feet? ;)

It was a joke! ::laughs::

Celeste

_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


(in reply to MstrTiger)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> Hmmmmmm message? Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078