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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/16/2009 3:15:21 PM

DemonKia

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Yah, definitely not a fetish thing. (His stuff was primarily closeted-bi stuff, other than that & some desire to serve, he was mostly vanilla . . . . . ) But I just want to be very clear in this space, it wasn't kinky, it was relationship-intimate-loving-supportive . . . . . So there are options how it can work out, even here in kink-central . . . .

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I can see where "sharing" the experience in some way can be a form of intimacy---yay for your rag-washer, Kia!---but not a fetish.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/16/2009 3:33:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Dont try this at home !!!

I suggest instead that you grin and bear it. Taking it upon yourself to grin and bare "it" could very well end up with a trip to casualty.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 12:00:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama
Honestly, I have done all sorts of things while on my period in the past

Me too!

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I am more than capable of gauging what is appropriate with an individual partner and I behave accordingly. I certainly would not want my menstrual blood to become a "nasty/dirty" type fetish for anyone, because I don't think it's dirty or disgusting or whatever.

When I've been with men for whom my body and all its various fluids were sacred territory, blood was just an especially intense part of the package. That said, I would prefer to close up shop when I'm with a non-pagan, for obvious reasons. I don't want to deal sexually at that time of the month with a man who would feel "degraded" by the experience.

Ditto! Shakti, I'm not Pagan, and have run into a few non Pagans who were perfectly adoring of women, myself in particular, period, and all. I don't think I could be in a relationship with a man who considered menses nasty/dirty. M

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 8:24:07 AM

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here are some ideas:

http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/docs/menstrualslavery.htm

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 9:34:57 AM

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This all reminds me of the man I met in a yahoo chatroom when I was 18 who asked if he could eat my used tampons. "I especially love the clots."

I enjoy massages on sore areas and pretty much him keeping his head low. His participation is being a loving partner through all of it and trying to ignore me when I snap at him for no reason.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 9:36:46 AM

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hw wasn't the bleedin' prince of wales, was he?

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 10:08:06 AM

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My "participation" in Mistress' period is to be very patient, working to minimize annoyance and stress in Her environment and make lots of hot decaf tea.

Anything more...er, "involved" (trying to keep this above the board) would make both of us very uncomfortable I think.

That's similar to Fox's job here but then that's his job in general.

We do have sex at times during my period and that is fairly new for us because I had to get over some personal issues with it. Fox had no issues with it. Maybe he's just too romantic but he says anything that comes from me is either beautiful or scary and the second is only when I'm angry.

His attitude has helped me accept his service during all aspects of my life. I used to be a total pain when I was ill because it made me feel weak. Now I know that his helping take care of me isn't me being weak, it's me using all the resources at my disposal.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 2:29:23 PM

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But that's not so much a D/s thing, just a horny thing and first happened with an otherwise very vanilla partner.

yes, this. ever since i first started having sex i've been having it during my period. the thought of going without for a week for no good reason has always been incomprehensible to me.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 3:44:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I just don't want someone making that time a fetish. A time of whatever is called for, for the woman... cool! But that is a my thing sorta thing.. not a his thing sorta thing. lol

Now this, I completely understand and relate to, though I hadn't really thought about it before.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 6:35:30 PM

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During my period, my pet is not allowed to enter the bathroom while I'm in there unless given permission. (Open bathroom containing toilet, sinks, shower...and the only passage to our closet). Also, if we have a session and I feel like having sex, then he'll be blindfolded during and after. This lets me avoid self-conciousness about all things yuk and clean up he and I afterwards without him seeing anything I don't want him to. It's also nice because the visual block intensifies the experience for him.. M.Viv

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/17/2009 7:50:37 PM

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That all depends on the relationship you're in and what was negotiated before entering the relationship. Every one is different.

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ORIGINAL: asuwismaaam

Male slaves dont really have a say what they do and when they do , if its that time of the month you grin and bare it what ever it may be

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/18/2009 6:47:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: alittlebent

Ladies,

Do any of you have a set protocol for your male subs to follow during your Period? If so, are they required to participate in any way?

Thanking you in advance for sharing.

bent,

Thank you for that visual....NOT!!!! Way too much information

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/18/2009 9:00:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

This all reminds me of the man I met in a yahoo chatroom when I was 18 who asked if he could eat my used tampons. "I especially love the clots."

I enjoy massages on sore areas and pretty much him keeping his head low. His participation is being a loving partner through all of it and trying to ignore me when I snap at him for no reason.

Okay, EW!

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/18/2009 4:43:42 PM

Toppingfrmbottom

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Why come to a thread just to cry ewww and TMI, you knew the thread may be objectionable by the tittle so why not just stay out of the thread.

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ORIGINAL: Acer49

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ORIGINAL: alittlebent

Ladies,

Do any of you have a set protocol for your male subs to follow during your Period? If so, are they required to participate in any way?

Thanking you in advance for sharing.

bent,

Thank you for that visual....NOT!!!! Way too much information

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/19/2009 3:03:03 PM

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Several thoughts on this.
As far as fetishes go, with the exception of what has been dubbed as my 'emotion fetish', I want nothing to do with any actual fetishes of any sort; they are contra-intimacy.
My ex- and I were so in-tune that when I ovulated, he would break out and when I was around/on my period, he would get moody. It took us several years to figure out wtf was going on and we had friends who would tell us we were crazy until they observed the phenomenon for themselves. Thankfully, I've been a rather mild recipient in the way of period-related stuff (knock-on-wood) but there were still adjustments when we separated.
As for sex, it pisses me off when men refuse sex during such times. There's something degrading and mysogynistic about considering such things gross (I mean, I don't like that I bleed particularly but it's natural, so I believe my partner should accept it as such and provide sex). Also, it helps ease cramps to have sex, though the initial impact of penis head to cervix is painful enough to make my ears ring.
As far as oral during such things. I've only experienced being on the receiving end of such and the person who did so was female (It was not something I wished her to do or requested her to do; it ooged me out at the time and I attempted to dissuade her). I don't particularly like the idea of performing oral on a female in general. I would consider it, I suppose, were I in a partnership with one but I'm very male-geared. In terms of receiving oral from a male while bleeding. Hmmm, I used to be ooged out by it but now I find the idea rather hot. That alteration was spurred by one of Anne Rice's Vampire novels in which Lestat goes down on the main female character in the book while she's bleeding rather than bite her. So, ultimately, it's something I would like to be on the receiving end of.
And, I have a far greater fascination with blood in general than I used to. Anything that strikes me as provoking greater intimacy and sharing of energy between consensual partners is likely to appeal on some level.
Davan

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/19/2009 9:04:51 PM

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very well said Ms Davan

something very itimate and erotic to share with your lady i think ...hugs mal

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/19/2009 9:30:20 PM

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Ok, without quoting too many worthy quotes here, let me chime in and offer some TMI of My own, in that 1) I enjoy sex during My period, because I feel very animal during that time, 2) I have been on the receving end of oral during that time, because We both wanted it, and seeing him come up from there with blue eyes glowing and a streak of blood across one side of his face after I came was one of the very most primal things I've ever participated in, and 3) there's nothing quite as good for cramps as a couple of good gut-wrenching orgasms (I always feel so.. light in My pelvic region after that. Plus, it's a BOMBIN' mood enhancer, and makes you feel wanted despite the bloat, cramps, and comfy clothes, know what I mean?). That being said, 4) I am not comfortable having sex during My period with a partner until after other depths of closeness and intimacy have been established. It doesn't feel quite right otherwise..

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/19/2009 9:36:32 PM

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Is there any stench during menstruation that the sub may find revolting.
How is this dealt with.
Blindfolding the sub will assist him/her from anything unpleasant visually, but what about any unpleasant smell.
We are all adults here and hopefully we will not mask our discomfort with sarcasm but with helpful info. for one another.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/19/2009 9:43:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: DePubed

Is there any stench during menstruation that the sub may find revolting.
How is this dealt with.
Blindfolding the sub will assist him/her from anything unpleasant visually, but what about any unpleasant smell.
We are all adults here and hopefully we will not mask our discomfort with sarcasm but with helpful info. for one another.

Quite so. Speaking as a Female and knowing a thing or two about that state of being, My experience says a couple of things: that 1) as with any other issue of body chemistry, scents, odors and smells will be peculiar to the individual, and same for a person's ability to like or dislike said smells; 2) that the smell, per se, is a warm salty smell rather like any other blood smell, but with deeper, richer tones, and 3) if the Female in question is healthy and freshly-bathed, any smell at all is rather negligible.
I hope this helps.

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RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period - 9/19/2009 9:46:35 PM

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Thank you, this helps a lot. Thank you.

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