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RE: Trouble having orgasims.. - 9/22/2009 8:04:14 AM

OrionAndi

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Oh no,Faking is the worst that can happen I guess and you just get into the routine of it... and really just cutting your own nose off to spite your face.. so to speak..lol

I will not fake with Orion because of exactly that and he prefers to know if i haven't so he can do something else to try and get me off. Ive noticed that with fore play I will come if he is down there and using his fingers at the same time. ( this has always done it for me)

Another thing about medication is that I am on the Pill and I was reading a thread about the Depo... Maybe The Pill is causing it, but I would dread to have to go onto using condoms ect.. Those I tend to not cum at all. No win really

Thankyou for all you advise everyone, will be sure to take it all on board!!

Andi x

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RE: Trouble having orgasims.. - 9/22/2009 2:52:49 PM

maat

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I think kalista made a good point. "trying not to focus on the orgasm".

The less i think about the result the easyer it is. i have to be able to compleatly just let go. Not be goal orientated at all. Eaven if i dont cum i still love every moment that leads upp to it. in the begining of my relationship it was harder for me to get there simply cuz i had so many hangups about basicaly everything. How is the lighting, is everything ok, what do i look like, shuld i do this or that. Do i make to much/to litle noice. Well, once i let all of that go and just allowed myself to be things went alot easyer for me.

And as always.. comunication. Talk to echother. i like this, not that, i feel this when you do/ dont cum. Not to orgasm isent the end of the world and realy dont meen the sex was bad. Its just the icing on the cake. The cake is still going to be great on its own.

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RE: Trouble having orgasims.. - 9/22/2009 7:10:10 PM

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