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slaveluci -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 7:42:01 AM)

Repost from a thread dated 10/9/08:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2191738/mpage_1/key_cathartic/tm.htm#2191821

"I'm not sure I reached my "emotional core," so to speak but I had an experience very similar to yours the first time Master and I were together. I had no prior experience with bondage, whipping, etc. I had never been tied, gagged, blindfolded or any of those things.

That night when He had me strip, then gagged and blindfolded me and put on the leather ankle and wrist cuffs He'd had made for me and restrained my hands over my head, spread wide.........there I stood with my bare body tied and waiting for my first experience. He told me afterward that He did not hold back. He gave me the whipping/beating of a lifetime and I took it and I loved it.

Aways in, I began to sob. As we've never used safewords, He stopped to ask if I was OK or I needed to stop. I can still remember the tears pouring out onto that scarf He'd blindfolded me with until it was soaked and me, barely able to form sentences, telling Him "No, please don't stop. I'm OK." I felt better at that moment than I can describe. It was absolutely the most CATHARTIC experience I have ever had then or since. That's the best word I can find to try to describe it.

When it was over, I thought I'd only been bound and whipped for about 15 minutes. It was many, many times that long. I was covered with welts and bruises and had tear-stained cheeks and red eyes but I felt like I "knew myself" better at that moment than ever before. I had finally experienced something I'd always wanted and, most importantly, experienced it with the One I had waited for. I guess that was about as close to my "emotional core" as I've been and it was mind-blowing"................luci




sodsta -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 9:26:50 AM)

I've been flogged and whipped to tears, and unlike a lot of the other commenters, it was pretty much entirely due to pain. If there *were* any other emotional factors at work, I wasn't aware of them. Pain hurts, makes you cry... simple as that.



DesFIP -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 9:57:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UKEvolutionary
but is the submissive "aware" of the reason why they are crying if it's not due to the pain ? From the Definitions I came across, I would "suggest" the answer to My question is a "no"


Why would you assume we aren't aware of the stresses in our lives? Most people do know if their parent is slowly dying, or if their employer is cutting jobs. These are perfectly normal stresses that could interfere with your normal tolerance and can show up when you think you are in control and capable of a play scene when you can't.

Or even something simpler like being on the tail end of a cold that is preventing you from sleeping through the night for several days.



pyroaquatic -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 12:05:06 PM)

No, I have not been whipped to tears... or beaten to tears. But it would be nice.

^_^



UKEvolutionary -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 1:43:12 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: UKEvolutionary
but is the submissive "aware" of the reason why they are crying if it's not due to the pain ? From the Definitions I came across, I would "suggest" the answer to My question is a "no"


Why would you assume we aren't aware of the stresses in our lives? Most people do know if their parent is slowly dying, or if their employer is cutting jobs. These are perfectly normal stresses that could interfere with your normal tolerance and can show up when you think you are in control and capable of a play scene when you can't.

Or even something simpler like being on the tail end of a cold that is preventing you from sleeping through the night for several days.


I'm NOT "assuming" !! To AssuMe is making an "ass" out of "u" and "Me" !!! I am just asking a "simple" question !! I'm trying to understand, as some people ARE NOT aware of the "stresses" day to day living places on them !!. Sure the "Major" things are obvious "Most people do know if their parent is slowly dying" Like DUH !!! you'd have to be "Brain dead" as to not notice THAT !!! but also, I don't think many subs would "play" in those circumstances !!! Des, your question seems to be one of trying to ridicule !! I am asking for SINCERE advice, and frankly, relplies of this nature simply, are below your normal helpfullness



SlutAndi -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 1:46:50 PM)

I dont cry very often but on the odd occassion that I have it has been more a mixture of emotions creeping in and causing me to do it rather than the pain. Once I have cried because of the pain... the most pain i have been in while being whipped with a flail...It was a long day and evening of play and i think fatigue had set in.



MMagic -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 2:01:49 PM)

I was and then loved what followed. So was a pleasant experience for me...but I might be a bit demented. <nods>



fadedshadow -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 2:26:32 PM)

thank you everyone and i'm glad that i'm not alone in what i felt that night =]



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 2:45:56 PM)

Once I was spanked very hard and I cried a few tears from the intensity and I wished that my partner would have been the one taking me to such depths and not a person I had just hooked up with to get spanked. It was pretty hot though over all I called him up told him I was gonna be spanked did he want to listen in while it happend he said sure and he jacked off  to the sounds of my cries while I got spanked





afterforever -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 2:48:38 PM)

I've cried from emotions and from pain. And I have to agree with most people, when I cry from emotion I usually know what it's about, whether everyday stress or crazy chemicals. That usually happens more after play than during though.



fadedshadow -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 3:15:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: afterforever

I've cried from emotions and from pain. And I have to agree with most people, when I cry from emotion I usually know what it's about, whether everyday stress or crazy chemicals. That usually happens more after play than during though.


it happened during play for me and i knew why i was crying too



windchymes -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 4:14:50 PM)

I'm afraid I'm a wuss when it comes to that kind of stuff.  After a couple of really painful strokes of a fairly good-sized whip, when given the option to start begging to suck his cock or keep getting whipped, I started begging like trick-or-treaters at the Willy Wonka factory. [8|]



lovingpet -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 4:35:02 PM)

I have definitely been there. I usually knew why I was crying, but not always. One case in particular, I broke down and don't remember any of it. It was also a night that about 4 hours disappeared that I more or less cannot account for except in bits and sparks. I know I was in a good place on the other side of the session, but to this day I don't remember and have no idea exactly why I was crying. At one point, I remember feeling like something was about to break inside me. It was deep, desperately needed, terrifying. I have been able to confirm, however through what I do remember, that is not when it happened though. Playing into it all was the tender love in the brutality occuring. I wouldn't give it up for anything!

lovingpet



kiwisub12 -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 4:52:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

i'm not entirely sure where i should post this so i'm posting it in the general discussion. anyways i'm asking simply out of curiosity so has anyone here been whipped to the point where you're crying and if so what was it like? i want to compare it with my own experience =]



Yes, i have been spanked/caned/whipped to tears, and no, the tears wasn't about the pain.

and what was it like?   -     snotty!!!!!!!

The times that i have cried were precipitated by beatings that felt or was-  punishment.   The punishments made me cry because i felt so bad about disappointing my Sir.
The times i cried because the scene felt like punishment and i ended up feeling badly used.

I also have cried for catharsis   - and no, i didn't know why i was crying. There was nothing bad going on in my life, and no unusual stressors.

and at the end i still had a stopped up nose, a headache and swollen eyes. Damn i look good after i cry!!!!!!!!!!!!
I should be in Hollywood! [:D]



sigh4u08 -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 5:26:38 PM)

The memories this thread is evoking nearly brings me to tears! i remember the first time i cried while scening. At first, i thought it was from the flogging, but realized that there wasn't enough pain to be bringing tears. What, then? For me, it was the total freedom being bound and 'helpless' brought, combined with the safety of being in Masters' hands. All my life, i'd been chastized for crying. Now, at the mercy of a Master, i was set free to release years of pent up emotional pain. Cathartic? Yes! Of course, there were times when the crying WAS from pain, but those tears didn't bring that same wonderful sense of relief.



fadedshadow -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/17/2009 6:49:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sigh4u08

The memories this thread is evoking nearly brings me to tears! i remember the first time i cried while scening. At first, i thought it was from the flogging, but realized that there wasn't enough pain to be bringing tears. What, then? For me, it was the total freedom being bound and 'helpless' brought, combined with the safety of being in Masters' hands. All my life, i'd been chastized for crying. Now, at the mercy of a Master, i was set free to release years of pent up emotional pain. Cathartic? Yes! Of course, there were times when the crying WAS from pain, but those tears didn't bring that same wonderful sense of relief.


it felt freeing to me to cry everything out too, i'm very very happy i experienced it =D



fadedshadow -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/18/2009 8:01:46 AM)

anyone else?



worthlesstrash -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/18/2009 8:15:35 AM)

I cry from the pain mostly. He likes to squeeze parts of my body so hard I can't stand it at times. It hurts horribly bad, but I think I am also crying trying to understand why this gives him so much pleasure. I don't like to see anyone cry and I certainly wouldn't if I were the one causing pain. I admit I wonder what in his mind can be turned on by causing the one he loves to hurt in such a way.





fadedshadow -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/18/2009 8:43:46 AM)

thanks for commenting



TwistedHeart74 -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/18/2009 9:00:35 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

i'm not entirely sure where i should post this so i'm posting it in the general discussion. anyways i'm asking simply out of curiosity so has anyone here been whipped to the point where you're crying and if so what was it like? i want to compare it with my own experience =]



Yes...and...whew...
The experience was one of the most intense I've had. My knees gave out, I was dangling by my wrists, if I could have went all the way to my knees I would have. I felt...fluid. The pain was a crimson ocean that picked me up and carried me in it's warm embrace.
I couldn't NOT cry...the tears came from so deep within me that I went from screaming to quiet soft sobs, begging for more, for the love of all the gods don't stop. The scene went from rough and harsh to soft and erotic. The flogger stopped hurting and became an extension of his hand. The tails brushed over me, felt more like a caress at that point.



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