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DePubed -> RE: Whipped to tears (9/19/2009 4:38:37 PM)
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My own experience has been that being whipped/spanked "to tears" has never happened to me solely on the basis of the physical pain alone.
I sob real tears running down my face, not from the solely physical sensation of pain, but from a combination of physical pain with emotional feelings.
Some Dominants who have tried to get me to cry simply from hitting me have not been able to get me to cry at all. I just grit my teeth and 'take it', trying to survive it. They hit harder and harder in their desperate attempt to bring me to tears. But it doesnt happen. I just 'shut down' and feel I am being mistreated, abused, a 'victim'. My survival-mode kicks in, and I dont cry as I am focused on 'getting through this'.
BUT, I have easily been brought to actual tears & sobbing when the moderate pain of being whipped/spanked was combined with the calm, verbal 'talking me through it' by a Dominant--when they get into my headspace by explaining truthfully how I deserve this. My remorse and guilt are such that I become sad, repentant, and end up crying. I cry when I realize that I have been 'bad', but I never can cry when I feel I am being falsely accused by a Dom or simply being beaten for their sadistic enjoyment. That never brings me to the emotional state where I need to cry.
So in my case I need BOTH physical pain AND emotional/psychological context for me to shed tears. I only share this in case any of you Dominants might want to try it on your subs, or any of you subs may be baffled why you never cry when being punished.
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