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cross dressing - 9/19/2009 3:08:38 AM   
fadedshadow


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Status: offline 		i'm curious about trying it but first i would like to know how does it feel to do this? like was it uncomfortable or embarassing the first time or something else? comments would be much appreciated

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RE: cross dressing - 9/19/2009 5:11:02 AM   
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RE: cross dressing - 9/19/2009 5:34:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Some men would find it liberating. Others mildly embarrassing, and still others a deal breaker.

How does it make you feel when you fantasize about it?

And if it's too overwhelming to do this first time in front of others, get some women's clothes and try them on in the privacy of your own home. See how it feels for you.

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RE: cross dressing - 9/19/2009 6:19:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		It feels wonderful and helps any man get in touch with his feminine side. It makes me feel, act, and think differently.It brings in a whole new world that is much better for many.

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RE: cross dressing - 9/19/2009 7:05:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

i'm curious about trying it but first i would like to know how does it feel to do this? like was it uncomfortable or embarassing the first time or something else? comments would be much appreciated


I suppose it depends on how mentally attached you are to the concept. Does wearing wearing women's clothes make you feel like a women and is that exciting or does this desire bring out feelings of shame. Or is it that you just like the physical feeling of the garment?

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RE: cross dressing - 9/19/2009 7:00:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		i think it may be a little of each, acer49

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RE: cross dressing - 9/19/2009 10:18:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi.

We've crossdressed lots of subs and some end up loving it, some think it's humiliating but they like it, and some subs decide it's not for them but liked trying it for experimental reasons. Lots of subs are into it so go for it honey!! I crossdress one of my subs almost daily and it's really fun for both of us.

Hope this helps.

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RE: cross dressing - 9/20/2009 3:08:57 AM   
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RE: cross dressing - 9/20/2009 5:40:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		very lame for me ..not my thing ..most guys look ridiculous dressed up in ladys clothes ..thanks but no thanks ..whatever floats your boat ...mal

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RE: cross dressing - 9/20/2009 5:50:57 AM   
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RE: cross dressing - 9/20/2009 9:48:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		As someone who's been dressing up as a girl since age 6, I can say that it's one of the things I enjoy most.  But there are many different kinds of crossdresser, and motivations may vary.

In your case, it sounds like it will have at least some erotic context. You're not hurting anyone, so go for it! :-)  

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RE: cross dressing - 9/20/2009 10:09:57 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		Violet is the most beautiful and convincing crossdresser I have ever met; she's more attractive than many biological women.  Any advice she offers would be well worth your listening to, fadedshadow. 
  Davan

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RE: cross dressing - 9/20/2009 10:24:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've been dressing as a girl for aslong as i can remember privately...the first time i went out in public i was scared....for numerous reasons. i was afraid i wasn't going to pass but when no one said anything to me and a guy even winked at me i felt my heart jump into my throat out of joy. I didn't say anything because i knew as soon as i'd open my mouth my cover would be blown lol. i was scared yet happy. It was a strange mix of emotions.

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RE: cross dressing - 9/21/2009 12:21:14 AM   
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RE: cross dressing - 10/25/2009 9:33:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am very into forced feminization and crossdressing, but you have to find the right subject to impose such a fetish on them. Most guys are scared to crossdress, but there are a good percentage of men who the fetish drives them crazy!  :)

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RE: cross dressing - 11/8/2009 1:00:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		It really just depends on you. I found it a little embarrassing and not at the same time. I think it depends on what you are doing it for.

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RE: cross dressing - 11/8/2009 6:22:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've been doing it for some time, but not as much as I would like. It isn't a turn on or anything like that for me. It just feels so nice, and I don't know why. I guess Male Clothes and Shoes are so rough and boring. They have no appeal. And females, have so many nice clothes and shoes to choose from. I just love the shoes, expecially Mary Janes. Much better for relaxing in than work boots and jeans.

You just have to try it out for yourself, weather starting with a Bra, Thongs or Panties.

Loving it and feeling free, sub BalletBob



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RE: cross dressing - 11/9/2009 5:45:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Some men would find it liberating. Others mildly embarrassing, and still others a deal breaker.

How does it make you feel when you fantasize about it?

And if it's too overwhelming to do this first time in front of others, get some women's clothes and try them on in the privacy of your own home. See how it feels for you.


(Awesome answer!)

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RE: cross dressing - 11/9/2009 5:46:46 PM   
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i think it may be a little of each, acer49


I suspect it makes you feel closer to women.

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RE: cross dressing - 11/10/2009 1:25:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		I personally enjoy it immensely. It adds kink to my every day life. For instance: try wearing panties beneath your regular clothes. You'll know they're there - trust me - but no one else will. The thrill of discovery is there, the pleasure of the clothing (feel of the fabric) is there, and submission is there. Give it a try -- it's good to try new things.

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