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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/1/2006 6:07:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful Anyone here have any comments, ideas, experience, suggestions, they could share on this? Cin Actually that's not a scene I'd take on casually- and nothing I'd do without a long term committed partner unless I knew I was the only one with a copy. (maybe I can get another negative in that sentence...) I can see why people would find it hot, but unless it was set up as some sort of interrogation/torture scene, it wouldn't work for me.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/1/2006 7:40:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: proudsub So if you have control of the tape is there anyone in your household that you wouldn't want to see it? I once came across some tapes my daughter definitely didn't want me to see, in fact on one of them she actually stood in front of the camera and said "if my mother ever sees this she will shit in her pants". Well i didn't shit but i did send her to get help. No one in my immediate household so that's ok. My friends have standing orders to destroy all tapes and hard drives in the event of my untimely demise. LOL That's been a long-standing arrangement! Cin

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/1/2006 7:42:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble After running this by Himself, he is going to do it. :) Great idea, so thank you for sharing and I hope everything works out great with your production! Celeste Awesome! Have fun, and if you can, let us know how it goes! I'm really starting to get excited about the idea now! Cin

thetammyjo -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/1/2006 8:38:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful Does anyone here recall the film Sex, Lies, and Videotapes? I've been asked if I would like to do a scene with a fairly new dominant friend, in that vein. His idea is that he will tape me talking about my sexual history, and will be asking questions and guiding me to reveal things. There would be moments where I might be asked to demonstrate how someone touched me or something similar. My thoughts are that this could be incredibly fun and erotic...but also a bit edgy, if it brought up feelings I may be unaware of. I have no history of sexual trauma, so it seems safe enough but I'm still aware that sexuality can be a huge emotional issue. Anyone here have any comments, ideas, experience, suggestions, they could share on this? Cin Given some of the unpleasant things that can happen to tapes, I'd be very cautious. I'd make sure you have the copies and the masters of them. I'm going to sound very cynical but a friend/partner today and turn your stuff into the cops or sell it as porn like that if things go bad. On the other hand it can be fun to play out. And if you feel particular helpful the Kinsey Institute loves to collect things like this for current and future archives and researcher plus its a tax credit!

ProtagonistLily -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/1/2006 12:02:20 PM)
quote: Does anyone here recall the film Sex, Lies, and Videotapes? I've been asked if I would like to do a scene with a fairly new dominant friend, in that vein. His idea is that he will tape me talking about my sexual history, and will be asking questions and guiding me to reveal things. There would be moments where I might be asked to demonstrate how someone touched me or something similar. My thoughts are that this could be incredibly fun and erotic...but also a bit edgy, if it brought up feelings I may be unaware of. I have no history of sexual trauma, so it seems safe enough but I'm still aware that sexuality can be a huge emotional issue. Anyone here have any comments, ideas, experience, suggestions, they could share on this? Cin As a "Scene" this sounds fun, but I would have to REALLY know and trust the person and know where the tape was going, how many copies, etc. In my mind what would make this a scene is a serious negotiation and a long time trust with this person. If this wasn't my partner or someone I was collared to, I wouldn't do it. If this is for real, it sounds really out there. If this "Friend" is trying to do some amature psychotherapy with you, that can be rather dangerous. Kassie

Crazytwice -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/1/2006 9:21:27 PM)
SEX, LIES, and Videotape was a fabulous movie. How cathartic to recount one's whole sexual history with someone that was truly interested in hearing it. I would be cautioned though, as in the movie, that the video would replace intimacy rather than enhance it.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/2/2006 11:56:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo And if you feel particular helpful the Kinsey Institute loves to collect things like this for current and future archives and researcher plus its a tax credit! It's a non-digital camera and the tape will be handed directly to me afterwards. I agree that confidentiality is a major issue. I wasn't aware of that fact about the Kinsey Institute...Interesting!! Cin

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/2/2006 12:03:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily If this is for real, it sounds really out there. If this "Friend" is trying to do some amature psychotherapy with you, that can be rather dangerous. Kassie I agree that using BDSM scenes for psychotherapy can be a tricky and dangerous thing. In this instance we're just exploring it as an excercise in exhibitionism and humiliation. I'm a very self-aware, balanced, mentally healthy individual, otherwise I wouldn't be willing to do it. Cin

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/2/2006 12:06:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Crazytwice SEX, LIES, and Videotape was a fabulous movie. How cathartic to recount one's whole sexual history with someone that was truly interested in hearing it. I would be cautioned though, as in the movie, that the video would replace intimacy rather than enhance it. Since this is not a romantic relationship but rather a friendship, I'm not too concerned about this scene replacing intimacy. The film-maker in the film had sexual issues, and was replacing intimacy with the tapes. Not the same situation at all. I loved that movie too. James Spader plays the best pervy characters! Cin

Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/2/2006 10:54:33 PM)
Why not start small? Just let him interview you in front of a mirror so you watch yourself respond to the questions, without creating the potentially troublesome tape (remember what happened to Nixon!). ATP

Crazytwice -> RE: Taping A Sexual History (3/3/2006 10:27:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful James Spader plays the best pervy characters! He just ROCKS!

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