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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/20/2009 5:23:55 AM   
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The term "mouth fuck" implies a very, Very passive responce on the part of the person whose mouth is being used.  I've never been Passive about much of Anything - and I'm Certainly not passive about giving head!  If some schmuck came up and suggested a "mouth fuck" to me, I'd sneer and tell him to go find some weak kneed betty bimbo to talk to - that I don't allow myself to be blatantly used that way - but when he started getting interested in an Active partner, then he could come talk to me......

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/20/2009 5:25:15 AM   
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kallisto,

Hooray, a fine subject that has annoyed me for decades. Blow does not enter into it nor when one stops to think on it does suck. It just does not happen unless there is an effort to get the last drop. Wether it is male passive and the fem is just enjoying using the cock with her mouth; or fem passive where the mouth is being used instead of the pussy or ass; it is in fact a mouthfuck but it will never become commonly used as it attacks the senses of acceptability.

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Thanks CP     You defined it exactly as I was thinking.  

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/20/2009 5:45:56 AM   
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Ok, after reading the above I had to google it. When I google something, I type the whole question out, not a few keywords, just as if I were talking to an inteliigent AI. Something that gets interesting results. In this case it at least elicited information rather than a website trying to sell me something.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061013204149AARRNWO

Question: "Why is it called a b-l-o-w-job when there's no blowing involved?"

Best Answer: "The name came from one of 3 possibilites: Victorian slang for a "below-job" (as in below the belt), for the volcanic reaction of the resulting orgasm, or a facetious use of "blow" as the opposite of "suck".

According to Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_Sex#Fe
"The common slang term blow-*** is a misnomer, as blowing is not normally part of fellatio. In fact, blowing air into a partner's penis is an unhealthy practice. It is most commonly thought to be a facetious use of "blow" as the opposite of "suck". It has been suggested to be a corruption of "below-job", allegedly an old Victorian slang term that was commonly used to describe the act. However, there is a third school of thought that believes the word "blow" in "blow-***" indicates the climax of the penis (compare to blowing of a volcano). The phrase "blow-***" originated in the 1940's;[7] at the time, it was also used by Allied pilots as a slang term for jet aircraft.[8]"
The Germans also use blasen = to blow and this has nothing to do with below. It comes from blow up (inflate).

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/20/2009 5:53:23 AM   
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i happen to enjoy the seven words you can't say on tv =]

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/20/2009 6:03:09 AM   
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few words bother me, but...

in Australia, the use of the c-word (c--t) is COMMON and CASUAL.

if someone stubs their toe on a large rock they may even berail it as a "c--t" in open earshot of anybody.

Lesbians here have reclaimed it for several reasons and purposes.


aside from that, "felching" and felchgoat is pretty damned gross.

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/20/2009 6:25:39 AM   
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Words don't bother me much (especially sexual terms). However, I just can't seem to use the shortened version of submissive (sub) without giggling like an idiot. It is therefore a bit annoying to me. Last I checked, I wasn't a sandwich, though if someone wishes to come over and eat me, I wouldn't be opposed.....

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There's a sammich shoppe about 45 mins. from Me here in NC that is called, I shit you knot, "Subby's". How's that?




That's just classic! And you realize now I will not be able to use the word subbies without snickering too, right? Dammit you's peoples is sadistic!

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And, I will not be able to go to the local sub shoppe and not laugh as I am eating a sub, sandwich that is.

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/21/2009 6:22:21 AM   
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Mouth fucking I view as something the sub is passive with. The dom pushes it in and out and she doesn't do anything. Which is different than me performing oral sex on him when I'm in charge of how deep the strokes are and when I get to breathe.


Des,

Very perceptive and as it should be!

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/21/2009 7:01:15 AM   
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The term "mouth fuck" implies a very, Very passive responce on the part of the person whose mouth is being used.  I've never been Passive about much of Anything - and I'm Certainly not passive about giving head!  If some schmuck came up and suggested a "mouth fuck" to me, I'd sneer and tell him to go find some weak kneed betty bimbo to talk to - that I don't allow myself to be blatantly used that way - but when he started getting interested in an Active partner, then he could come talk to me......


Amen, little sister; game on..

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/21/2009 4:00:10 PM   
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Blowjob sounds better.  Say it slowly.  It all rolls together smoothly.  Mouth-fuck gets a little awkward to say at the part where I put the hyphen.  The transition from w to j is smoother than from th to f.  Besides "I'm going to give you a mouth-fuck" is very unsexy.  I'd be like "Um... how about... we play Settlers of Catan? Trading sheep for wheat is sexier than what you just said."

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/21/2009 4:04:29 PM   
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The phrase "skull fuck" always kinda scares me a little.

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/21/2009 6:04:36 PM   
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The phrase "skull fuck" always kinda scares me a little.


That scares me a little too, windchymes

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/21/2009 6:24:32 PM   
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blushes....have always been partial to saying mouth hugs myself

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 3:37:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hizgeorgiapeach

~fr~ 
 
The term "mouth fuck" implies a very, Very passive responce on the part of the person whose mouth is being used.  I've never been Passive about much of Anything - and I'm Certainly not passive about giving head!  If some schmuck came up and suggested a "mouth fuck" to me, I'd sneer and tell him to go find some weak kneed betty bimbo to talk to - that I don't allow myself to be blatantly used that way - but when he started getting interested in an Active partner, then he could come talk to me......



Couldn't mouth fuck be used as an agressive, assertive term as well? As in not going to receive a mouth fuck, but going to give one? I know the mouth is being used either way ... just thought I'd ask?

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 3:38:26 PM   
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blushes....have always been partial to saying mouth hugs myself



That's sweet And thanks for replying

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 3:40:38 PM   
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few words bother me, but...

in Australia, the use of the c-word (c--t) is COMMON and CASUAL.

if someone stubs their toe on a large rock they may even berail it as a "c--t" in open earshot of anybody.




I've heard that as well. Never been to Australia so can't say I've been within earshot of it being common.

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 5:17:28 PM   
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Mouth fucking I view as something the sub is passive with. The dom pushes it in and out and she doesn't do anything. Which is different than me performing oral sex on him when I'm in charge of how deep the strokes are and when I get to breathe.

Blow job brings to mind a very old cartoon, something on the order of "Suck, MaryJane, suck. Blow is just a manner of speech". Something to that effect, anyway.


Honestly that is how I see the term "mouthfuck". He fucks my mouth, I blow him. I dunno... neither word bothers me but for some reason it doesn't make sense to me to call me giving him head a mouthfuck. Probably because I'm just not used to it.

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 5:23:50 PM   
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I generally go for "suck my cock" rather than "give me a blowjob" or "give me head". When referring to the act outside of a command, I generally say blowjob or head, because 90% of people I associate with would understand what I meant without getting in a tizzy due to 4 letter words, etc.

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There's a sammich shoppe about 45 mins. from Me here in NC that is called, I shit you knot, "Subby's". How's that?

There's a strip mall down the road from here with a Quiznos and a Hair Masters (barber shop) side by side. The signs line up interestingly.

Quiznos | Hair
Subs     | Masters


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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 6:12:47 PM   
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Honestly that is how I see the term "mouthfuck". He fucks my mouth, I blow him. I dunno... neither word bothers me but for some reason it doesn't make sense to me to call me giving him head a mouthfuck. Probably because I'm just not used to it.


I do see your point AquaticSub.      Not that it bothers me either.  Just thought it would some interesting discussions.   And it is.  

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 6:18:05 PM   
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I generally go for "suck my cock" rather than "give me a blowjob" or "give me head". When referring to the act outside of a command, I generally say blowjob or head, because 90% of people I associate with would understand what I meant without getting in a tizzy due to 4 letter words, etc.

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ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos
There's a sammich shoppe about 45 mins. from Me here in NC that is called, I shit you knot, "Subby's". How's that?

There's a strip mall down the road from here with a Quiznos and a Hair Masters (barber shop) side by side. The signs line up interestingly.

Quiznos | Hair
Subs     | Masters



Exactly what I  think when using certain words.  Even simple words can put people in a "tizzy" quickly.   I think most people don't use them to intentionally offend.   So we use words that become "common" and less offensive. 

Off topic a minute but to add to your signs comment    I was driving down a country road many years ago.  Beside the road out in the middle of nowhere was one of those signs that has the letters and lights across the top.    The sign read "Tits and Ass 50% Off".    Nothing around it.   No buildings, no houses, nothing but the sign on the side of the road.     I stopped and took a picture.   Not sure why.   Guess I just wanted proof that I wasn't seeing things in the middle of the country. 

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RE: Acceptable or offenseive words - 9/22/2009 7:54:34 PM   
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Honestly that is how I see the term "mouthfuck". He fucks my mouth, I blow him. I dunno... neither word bothers me but for some reason it doesn't make sense to me to call me giving him head a mouthfuck. Probably because I'm just not used to it.


I do see your point AquaticSub.      Not that it bothers me either.  Just thought it would some interesting discussions.   And it is.  


It's definately interesting and something for enjoyable mental masturbation. Maybe I'll start calling it mouth-fucking just cause I can.

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