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sirsholly -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 6:16:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim He isnt loving me. I don't deserve it. quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim No drama queen here. I love me and I know that Sir loves me thank you for clearing that up [sm=doh.gif]

SubOnlyForHim -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 7:05:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim He isnt loving me. I don't deserve it. quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim No drama queen here. I love me and I know that Sir loves me thank you for clearing that up [sm=doh.gif] It was a self-pitying, stressed out moment. I am only human, I have those sometimes.

OsideGirl -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 8:23:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim I know that Sir loves me (who wouldn't? =) Actions speak louder than words.

SubOnlyForHim -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 8:27:00 AM)
This one is definitely thankful for that, Oside, for if this one were to wait for the words, she would surely be screwed. Sir is becoming more communicative now that this one has backed off on trying to get Sir's attention so much. YAY!

redlux -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 8:29:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim This was part of a discussion where this one told Sir that she had been talking to someone that had offered training, of the "basics", since Sir did not have the time and this person could see my devotion and commitment to Sir and wished to help.... he sounds lazy and disinterested. i suggest sitting down with him and point blank telling him he needs to communicate these things to you, since he is your Sir, and a relationship is a two way street. while suggestions can be made here, no one here can read his mind.

OsideGirl -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 9:10:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim This one is definitely thankful for that, Oside, for if this one were to wait for the words, she would surely be screwed. Sir is becoming more communicative now that this one has backed off on trying to get Sir's attention so much. YAY! I hate to tell you....but his actions aren't proving to be brilliant.

SubOnlyForHim -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 9:24:30 AM)
[sm=sigh.gif] I know this, am trying to be positive and hope for the best. Thank you.

DesFIP -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 10:54:53 AM)
For how long? What happens if another three years passes and things haven't changed; he's still cutting you down, still ignoring you, still telling you that you disobedient for not doing what he doesn't tell you to so? What's your sell by date for the relationship?

SubOnlyForHim -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 11:06:24 AM)
Sir and I, together, have found someone to help actually. Communication is improving. I did not give Sir my heart, body and soul just to ask for it all back and run when things were rough. I did not make the decision to be with Him, to allow Him to own me, in haste. I have to hope we'll make it through this.

OsideGirl -> RE: Body Language (9/23/2009 6:14:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim [sm=sigh.gif] I know this, am trying to be positive and hope for the best. Thank you. Are you somehow under the impression that "for the best" is deluding yourself into staying in a bad relationship? quote: ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim I did not give Sir my heart, body and soul just to ask for it all back and run when things were rough. Hello, matyrdom.... It takes two people to be in a relationship and it takes the effort of BOTH people to keep a relationship from falling apart. This isn't rough. This is him watching the relationship fall apart and not caring enough to put any effort into saving it. And you're not being honorable by staying, you're just being unhappy.

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