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RE: What do i do? - 9/25/2009 6:30:30 PM

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Not to be insulting, because you may very well be a sweet and handsome guy...but consider that maybe she is getting bored with you. Genuine connections are priceless but if you don't have that then I can see how money is the only thing left to keep her doing what little she still does do for you.

Let's assume this IS a professional relationship. Why not go find a pro who is going to give you your money's worth? But the key thing to remember in any professional relationship is: if you don't pay all that you owe, you don't get what you want. If you've only given her part of what she wants but not everything, she may be tired of waiting for you to pay up and is trying to motivate you by doing a half-assed job. I'm not saying this is ideal. If you haven't paid what you owe, she should have shown you the door. Oh well.

Good luck.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/25/2009 7:28:18 PM

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Tens of thousands?!?!?!

I am SOOOOOO in the wrong profession.

OP, move to Iowa........for tens of thousands I will dress up and beat your silly ass!

I was thinkin' the same thing (Well, with MD or a nearby state rather than Iowa)! :> Bravo, LaT!!!
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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 4:17:37 AM

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Believe me ladies i've paid more than i owe. I wear a Rolex Wristwatch, she wants me to get her a Rolex. She doesn't like my Car, doesn't even like me driving german vehicles, would much rather i drove an Aston. Always wanting expensive gifts, always wanting to be taken away for weekends & weeks. Perhaps it's because some of her other clients can pay a thosand pounds/dollars an hour. Oh and she does show show me the door, as quick as she can, as soon as the session is over.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 7:14:52 AM

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If you are not getting out of it what you need then you should talk to her.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 7:17:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Believe me ladies i've paid more than i owe. I wear a Rolex Wristwatch, she wants me to get her a Rolex. She doesn't like my Car, doesn't even like me driving german vehicles, would much rather i drove an Aston. Always wanting expensive gifts, always wanting to be taken away for weekends & weeks. Perhaps it's because some of her other clients can pay a thosand pounds/dollars an hour. Oh and she does show show me the door, as quick as she can, as soon as the session is over.

So shes a pro domme???

I think you are confussing the relationship for someone who gives a shit... pro dom/mes dont.... you're a client and that is that and her behaviour towards you makes that very evident.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 8:30:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Believe me ladies i've paid more than i owe. I wear a Rolex Wristwatch, she wants me to get her a Rolex. She doesn't like my Car, doesn't even like me driving german vehicles, would much rather i drove an Aston. Always wanting expensive gifts, always wanting to be taken away for weekends & weeks. Perhaps it's because some of her other clients can pay a thosand pounds/dollars an hour. Oh and she does show show me the door, as quick as she can, as soon as the session is over.

Seriously, you already knew the answer to the question you posed in your OP. You still know it. Now, you just need to acknowledge it and act on it.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 8:46:45 AM

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Yes i know the answer or at least i think i do, it does seem to be the general opinion. Yes you are right, i should move on, however, where i live the alternatives are few

& far between. It it best to pay & play, than not to play at all?

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 8:52:18 AM

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Dude. Pay for my ticket to Iowa, me, you, and LaT will have a festival in the corn. You can buy us jewelry, we will dress up fancy and beat your ass.

That bit is a FANTASY. Which is better, a picture of a meal, or a meal?

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 8:57:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Yes i know the answer or at least i think i do, it does seem to be the general opinion. Yes you are right, i should move on, however, where i live the alternatives are few

& far between. It it best to pay & play, than not to play at all?

I can't answer your last question - only you can decide that. I can, however, tell you that it is best not to pay and feel disgruntled afterwards. It's women like this that give us lifestyle dominas a bad name, even though we don't deserve it, and, oddly, I take this sort of situation rather personally.

Besides, I seem to recall that you live in the UK; surely it would be less expensive for you to travel to London periodically and have a better chance of finding the right dominant woman to play with than keep getting such a rubbishy return on your investment.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 9:10:15 AM

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London? Funny you should say that, i'm going back soon, to look up a few old friends. Did spend part of my life in that town, it's a place where money & madness go

hand in hand.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/26/2009 9:18:43 AM

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London? Funny you should say that, i'm going back soon, to look up a few old friends. Did spend part of my life in that town, it's a place where money & madness go

hand in hand.

I know. That's why I'm arriving there a week from Tuesday! Unfortunately, the money and the madness will both be my own.

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RE: What do i do? - 9/27/2009 8:58:52 PM

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edited. TM

< Message edited by TexasMaam -- 9/27/2009 9:01:03 PM >

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RE: What do i do? - 10/11/2009 11:50:16 AM

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have you tried chatting with her about your issues? If not why? If you are looking for pay to play I'm sure many people would be willing but it sounds like shes using you for a doormat. I would find another pro Domme who wants to negotiate sessions better. Also are you looking for a real time lifestyle Domme or just a pro Domme?

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RE: What do i do? - 10/12/2009 2:51:56 AM

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Thanks, but i'm not with anyone at the moment.
Broke up with my present Mistress quite recently.
My question was to Mistresses in general, on the boards.

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RE: What do i do? - 10/12/2009 8:35:20 AM

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How exactly does one "break up" with a pro? I'm still trying to understand if this was a personal relationship or a money in exchange for time pro/client arrangement.

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RE: What do i do? - 10/12/2009 8:37:48 AM

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How exactly does one "break up" with a pro?

By stop paying them

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RE: What do i do? - 10/12/2009 8:52:25 AM

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In that case, I guess I broke up with My hairdresser, since I'm now going to a different shop. LOL.

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RE: What do i do? - 10/12/2009 8:56:45 AM

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Ah, lulz. Thanks!!

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