MarcEsadrian
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ORIGINAL: aldompdx The above discussion tends to assume a bargain of giving one thing in consideration for getting another thing. That is the essence of Western common law of contract. Terms such as contract, agreement, understanding, exchange, or covenant all imply a contract with legal implications. For terms such as agreement and covenant, I do not fully agree with this statement. Agreement, being a very general word, needn't imply legal jurisdiction, merely present harmony in accordance with opinion or feeling, and this expressed accordance can (and should) articulate that it is not to be seen as a legal document. As for covenant, there are legal and ecclesiastical references to this term, as well as an agreement (usually formal) between two or more persons to do or not do something specified. Again, the agreement therein can easily specify the legality of the document or lack thereof. Anyone familiar with the prerequisites of legal writing (not to mention reading comprehension) would easily note the difference. quote:
ORIGINAL: aldompdx One way a written document of surrender is NOT incriminating is when it is expressed as subjective and unconditional feeling -- a declaration of the personal power to exercise self will and freely choose to share aspects of one's self with another: DECLARATION OF INTENT. This can manifest in several ways, such as "declaration of intent to delegate authority" or "power of attorney" or "declaration of intent/desire to serve." A key to legally (Western common law jurisdiction) sharing a control/surrender dynamic is that it must not be based on an exchange or bargain of consideration (term used in the legal not emotional context), and it must not waive ongoing free choice (i.e., no element of oppression, abuse, coercion, bargain, exchange, consideration). It must reflect ongoing informed consent which has no condition precedent or other contingency. That is, it must not reflect the past or project into the future, but simply state a present desire or intent in the moment based on a high degree of awareness, preference, and personal feeling. This is good advice if you want to play the legal game, but as you yourself flesh out above, said documents only have so much elasticity, and it is for this reason my usual suggestion where M/s is concerned—since it does arguably involve oppression, "abuse", coercion etc.—is never to get involved in the game at all unless you have a compelling reason to. Reason being that such documents, having clear legal interface, can be challenged legally for their validity and breadth by analyzing their parlance / structure and contrasting against evidence. Let's be direct here: a Declaration of Intent to subject oneself (in present state) to slavery or slave-like conditions with (even consensual) beatings and the revocation of civil rights would be just as incriminating, if not considered invalid, even if one could somehow make these documents dance even close to legitimately covering what we do. After all, let's face it, if it all gets to this point, nine out of ten times—in addition to the "victim's" words that will likely center around claims of abuse, intimidation, coercion and "he made me sign that"—there will likely be very damning evidence to support it all: bruises, welts, cuts, various witness testimonies, physical evidence in the form of restraints and torture implements, financial records, photos, movies, texts, phone records, voice messages, emails and so on that will paint a very explicit picture of the dynamics involved. quote:
ORIGINAL: aldompdx A "master" who is so insecure that he needs a promise of future performance probably does not deserve the declaration in the first place. I generally agree with the spirit of what you're saying, but I overall reject the notion that writing a general agreement describing the authority structure is the sign of insecurity. Putting things in black and white is a good way for two parties to articulate their desires and intents, not to mention describe what it is they both expect out of the relationship. The problem comes in when pseudo-legal assertions are employed, or there is no entry in the agreement / treatise that makes it clear the document was not written with legal intent. quote:
ORIGINAL: aldompdx It is not the surrendered who must promise performance, it is the controller who by example must inspire the confidence for their partner to choose surrender. I would say it is both, actually. quote:
ORIGINAL: aldompdx Trust is more often misplaced than it is breached. Well said.
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