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bleedingluv -> faithful (9/26/2009 11:35:41 AM)

i am curious as to why my daddy/dom would need to chat with other subs, even after committing totally to me? this is not a whine ..i just need to understand



mnottertail -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:37:23 AM)

maybe it is like harlequin romances, maybe he is lining you up for family........

can't he tell you?



GreedyTop -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:40:38 AM)

Have you asked him?



bleedingluv -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:40:46 AM)

As always ...afraid to ask...i dont want to lose him to my insecurities



GreedyTop -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:41:50 AM)

dont know what to tell you then.  Personally, I wouldnt want to be involved with someone I couldnt communicate openly with.



sirsholly -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:43:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bleedingluv

As always ...afraid to ask...i dont want to lose him to my insecurities
if you lose him to your insecurities simply by telling him what they are, you have lost nothing.



mnottertail -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:44:32 AM)

well, you are 40 years old according to your profile, so you gotta strap on your clit and get with it, nobody here has the magic answer.

so, you see a conversation go like this?

why do you fuck with the little girlies online?
get the fuck out, cunt!

or
why do you fuck with the little girlies online?
cause I'm hunting your replacement!

if that's what is going to happen you should grab a cab anyhow. that aint the way life should work.

Know what I mean, Vern?

Ron



GreedyTop -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:46:17 AM)

dammit, Ron...now I'm hearing those ads in my head....(werent they for a dairy?)



peppermint -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:46:34 AM)

We are not mind readers.  We certainly can not be expected to read the mind of someone we don't even know.  Why don't you sit down with your daddy and tell him how much it bothers you that he chats with other subs.  Then ask him why he feels the need to chat with other submissives. 

Quite frankly, if he is not searching for another submissive, I really don't see a problem.  I chat with Dominants and submissives.  Gary chats with Dominants and submissives.  We both have friends who are Dominant or submissive.  We did not give up all our friends when we became partners.  Neither one of us is looking for another partner and we trust each other. 



bleedingluv -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:46:40 AM)

ouch



mnottertail -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:47:26 AM)

all you women have tit size on your mind all the time.

Ernest P Worrell did many commercials for different products........

Know whadda mean, Vern?



bleedingluv -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:50:57 AM)

always great advice, have no one else in my life that i can discuss these issues with



happylittlepet -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:56:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

all you women have tit size on your mind all the time.

I do? [;)]
 
I am not a mind reader either, but now I am curious, what do men have on their mind all the times, can you enlighten me?
 
Ernest P Worrell did many commercials for different products........

Know whadda mean, Vern?


quote:

bleedingluv:

always great advice, have no one else in my life that i can discuss these issues with



Uhm yeah :(



mnottertail -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 11:58:23 AM)

same as women, except from a different angle, lol



angelikaJ -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 12:00:18 PM)

You entitled the thread faithful.

It may be that your daddy and you have different values as to what that means.

It may be that if you were to chat with other doms and masters, your daddy might be perfectly fine with that.
My guess is he would not be.

So, you need to decide for yourself, if you will be happy knowing that his idea of faithful does not match yours.

If you can be happy, then there isn't an issue.
If you can't be happy then you can ask him if he would be willing to stop chatting with others because it is hurtful to you.

If he is willing then the issue is resolved.
If he can't, then you have a decision to make.

Do not devalue what is important to you...that will eat away at you and make you feel resentful.
It is better to find someone who's ideas on things like the definition of faithful match with yours, than being with someone you are incompatible with because you are afraid of being alone.



agirl -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 12:06:16 PM)

Is he chatting or hunting?

I chat to quite a few doms. I don't *need* to, I just like to. There are some interesting people out there.

agirl





bleedingluv -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 12:07:48 PM)

obviously i am new to this world , always hoped for , never obtained...so now that i have it i am looking for advise, wow you are a tough crowd



agirl -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 12:08:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

same as women, except from a different angle, lol


I suppose that must be the case.....as we don't get quite the same view of men's cocks....lol

agirl



DavanKael -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 12:10:25 PM)

Ummm, yeah: if you can't ask why the guy is chtting iwth others without there being a danger to the relationship (Or without you perceiving a danger), then the situation is pretty FUBAR.  Regardless of the outcome between you and he, OP, work on that self-esteem. 
  Davan



bleedingluv -> RE: faithful (9/26/2009 12:10:34 PM)

not sure which..that's why i asked the question, trying to get a feel



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