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Modesty or Hedonism?


I prefer modesty, where nudity and sexual activity is left to privacy.
  20% (5)
I prefer moderate modesty where nudity is okay, but sexuality is priva
  29% (7)
I prefer nudity and sexuality are openly displayed.
  20% (5)
Other.
  29% (7)


Total Votes : 24
(last vote on : 12/6/2009 8:33:02 AM)
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Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 7:36:54 PM   
RobertCloud


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Status: offline 		I recently went to a munch and at this munch people were asked about their most heated sexual scenes or fantasies. Some of those that spoke up went into great descriptive details. Now, having written two erotic novels I am not opposed to descriptive sex however I do feel there is a time and place for it and yes in the case of those at that munch it was the right time and place to discuss it.

However, the next weekend I looked into going to a Halloween party and was informed that nudity was allowed inside and sexual activity was allowed in an area downstairs. It is true that they separated the parts so that those who do not want to participate or what do not have to.

But, my girl and I are fairly modest. Yes, we want to get together with people of like minds and similar lifestyle ideals, however we want to keep the sexuality and nudity out of those friendships. We hope to find a group that still holds modesty as a good ideal and do not look down upon us as prudes.

This pole is to find out how many would prefer a modest and non-sexual group as to one that is completely open and almost Hedonistic in their practices.

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 7:49:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose I will have to choose "other" because I am ok with it all.  I have friends who are very candid and blunt.  I have been known, on more than one occasion, to be very explicit and graphic in what I write, say, and do.  Our dungeon allows both kinds of play (sexual and non), with private areas being available for that if people want to be discreet.  I just don't have a problem with kinky people being kinky.  I'm both a voyeuse and an exhibitionist, so it's all eye or ear candy for me. 

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 7:56:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't say that the divide here is modesty or hedonistic. I'd say that some people enjoy exhibitionism and/or being a voyeur, and some of us don't.

Watching other people have sex does nothing for me, probably why I don't watch porn. A dick going in and out of an orifice is no more exciting than a piston in a car engine video in my view.

Or a close up of someone chewing a steak. I like steak and enjoy it immensely when I eat it. But I have no interest in watching someone else eat one.

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 7:58:54 PM   
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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 8:01:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am a totally different duck.

I am modest in the community. That is how I am. I have to maintain a public image.

On here and in private, I am known for being lewd with lots of bewbage. I was known for wearing corsets and thigh hi stockings in my former sire's home. I have shredded lingine(?) in the heat of passion.

Unless I known the person, I do not discuss my sexual pursuits in public.

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 8:15:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Shahar, in the "vanilla" community/professional world or in the BDSM community where you live?

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 8:22:45 PM   
ShaharThorne


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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 9:07:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I mean are you modest in the BDSM community or your every day life?  It sounds like you have to be fairly conservative in your regular world.  Is there a kinky community where you can let loose?

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 9:15:22 PM   
ShaharThorne


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Status: offline 		Nothing kinky around here. I am modest in the vanilla world, but let me loose in the BDSM world, I am in my element.

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 9:27:40 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		*I love a good floozy!!!*  (I mean... ahem... if I knew anything about that sort of thing.) 

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/27/2009 9:38:10 PM   
ShaharThorne


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Status: offline 		I am not a floozy...though there were times that I had a rep to maintain...

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/28/2009 5:03:49 AM   
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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/28/2009 5:10:08 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		Modest in public . in actions not in dress.Yes there are those that will disagree and say hey thats not how i remember it. But i obey my Master and if He says get naked i will.if He says to do more i will.

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/28/2009 6:28:30 AM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne

I am not a floozy...though there were times that I had a rep to maintain...


quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

<---very modest in all public situations.


Dayum... I feel so alone now.



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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/28/2009 8:01:56 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Red, you live further south than some of us. Here in the northern part of the nation we'd freeze if we floozied it up.
Flannel nightgown, check.
Wool socks, check.
Slippers, check.

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/28/2009 10:34:59 AM   
purepleasure


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Status: offline 		Red, let's go streaking in The Market next time you're up this way!   If DB will let you.   With how shocked he got when your sliced of elfin bread laid their noggins on the airbags, I sort of doubt that it will happen.  But, one (or more) can dream, right?

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 9/28/2009 4:04:21 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		*tries to make flannel floozy mental picture in my head of Des*

*thinks pure's idea is rather steamy, but alas... I think you are right about DB putting the kabosh on the streaking at the Market...  however, getting butt nekkid at the club or in private? He's all for that!*

(so when ya coming down this way?)   

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RE: Modesty or Hedonism? - 10/14/2009 9:09:50 AM   
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