daddysprop247
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Joined: 6/24/2005 From: DC Metro area Status: offline
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wow, talk about a dead horse! first, i'd like to make it clear for perhaps the 242nd time, that my Master and i do not live a "BDSM" or Leather lifestyle. we are much more simple and old-fashioned in our beliefs regarding relationship dynamics. we are D/s...as in, a relationship between a Dominant person and a submissive person, yes. we are Master and slave, yes. however our lifestyle is actually just that...a way of life. it is the open expression of who we are as well as our shared life philosophy. play, scening, toys, subspace, SSC and many other things which are part of BDSM are just not a part of our lives or beliefs. in comparison to most here who actively live "the lifestyle" (whichever that may be), my life is much less action-packed. i clean and organize and cook, and am obedient to my Mate. i serve him in every way i can, because that is my duty as well as my heart's desire. He in turn provides the structure, guidance, control and discipline i so sorely need in order to function in a productive and healthy manner. would it be "healthy" for someone else here? for most definitely not, that is why there is a place for us all in this life. and yes, my Master and i share a legal tie which solidifies our deepest bond...it is beneficial to us in many ways, but primarily in that it allows him to ensure that i have proper healthcare and will always be protected. how that equates to an evil and twisted monster to some, i do not know or care. kittinsol, it has always been very clear that you do not approve of M/s relationships based on reality rather than play or fantasy. it has also always been clear that you have a very negative view of my Master. i do not care how you speak of me, but to disrespect my Master is another thing altogether and has given me quite the negative view of you and your character. with this mutual discomfort and dislike being the case, it seems best we ignore one another, or that if you will not do that you would at least do the simple courtesy of not publicly criticizing the Man i love and belong to, or our way of life. that would be much appreciated. Amaros...hopefully this has clarified some things for you and comforted you in the knowledge that i am not giving the "BDSM" lifestyle a bad name, as we have never claimed to belong to that lifestyle. oh, i happen to weigh 127 lbs (it's alll in the booty), t'ank you very much.
< Message edited by daddysprop247 -- 10/5/2009 9:04:18 PM >
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