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RE: Tolerance - 3/2/2006 8:34:17 PM   
windy135


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Good question, why is it some people scream about bigotry being aimed at the lifestyle, when they themselves show no tolerance for such a thing as religion? Hmmm… maybe because religion is a much deeper issue for some. Religion can be the whole world to some people, if they are for it or not. Where as the life style is important yes, but it’s not as important as religion. (again to SOME people) Maybe every individual has a level of tolerance. Some people’s are lower meaning they are more tolerant. Where as others reach a point of intolerance much sooner. People who have a lot of passion about religion might reach this point of intolerance quickly, but subjects on the lifestyle are in their tolerance (safety) zone. Not sure I’ve taken some benadryl so I hope this makes sense. I bet I read this in a few day’s and think… oh wow what was I thinking J

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RE: Tolerance - 3/2/2006 8:40:07 PM   
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Time to clean my own house before cleaning anyone else's. The Catholic Church would doubtless condemn kinky sex, poly families, and other aspects of BDSM. It's not a driving force but it is a reason why i am looking into converting. This will be a long, painful and confusing process.

As for the religions of others i MOSTLY treat them respectfully; some seem to border on cults and those i dislike. But they are rare. i am curious about Paganism, etc., even if i never form an intent to convert...partially because of its age.

i do not know if this constitutes tolerance -- as IB said, anyone can go off for any reason -- but i strive for mutual respect.

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RE: Tolerance - 3/3/2006 8:23:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gauge
Why is it that tolerance is preached, desired and demanded by those with alternate lifestyles but they are, mostly, intolerant of religion? This question has bugged me for a long time.


I desire tolerance but never have i preached nor demanded it. To do so, in my opinion, would be crossing the line into the area of making my desire intolerant. Tolerance needs to be addressed on an individual level.

Tolerance implies acceptance. Is it acceptance of the individual himself, acceptance of the individual's belief or the acceptance that no two people have the exact same belief and that we are all individuals that is desired? This can be a hard limit for those who either disagree or feel threatened by an individual's belief. This leads me to believe that the key lies in how the person holding the belief presents said belief. Preaching and demanding do not seem conducive to general tolerance. The more one pushes, the more apt they are to meet resistance.

Embrace your belief and make it your own...this way you need not worry about anyone being tolerable but yourself.






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RE: Tolerance - 3/3/2006 8:29:15 AM   
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Tolerance and acceptance never have been, nor ever will be, synonymous.

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RE: Tolerance - 3/3/2006 10:10:01 AM   
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Tolerance and acceptance never have been, nor ever will be, synonymous.



100% agree...never said they were.

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RE: Tolerance - 3/4/2006 2:29:28 PM   
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Nobody is live and let live about everything. We all have our little hot spots within us, just waiting for a match to walk by. Maybe its a discussion on religion that gets us fired up. Maybe its abortion, or maybe some of us get all heated up over defending our personal relationships.
As in maybe, poly love is fine, swinging is fine, but hey, how bout those low down philanderers! I think those people should go to hell! All of us have our beliefs, and disbeliefs. it would take a frued/jung to help us sort out all our inconsistancies.
The obvious thing is to try and love despite it all. What else can we do?

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RE: Tolerance - 3/4/2006 3:50:39 PM   
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People are as tolerant about religion as they are about anything. If a person is tolerant, he/she tends to extend that to all things. If they're not, anything at all is fair game to pick on. i haven't noticed any degree of intolerance regarding any particular religions or spiritual beliefs for that matter. i know BDSM lifestylers who are devout christians as well as those who practice atheism, paganism, hinduism, buddhism and any other "ism" - alcholism --- hmmm where'd that come from?

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RE: Tolerance - 3/4/2006 4:20:49 PM   
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Mmmm, well, my friends in the lifestyle include Christians (incl. a theologist), pagans & wiccans, practising and non-practising buddhists... I don't think the lifestyle is intolerant with regard to religion. I think many of us have a dislike of people who would like to see our freedom limited. What religion they have doesn't matter much.

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RE: Tolerance - 3/4/2006 4:27:03 PM   
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quote:

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Nobody is live and let live about everything.


I disagree.

It really is possible to simply not care what others are doing, as in the Golden Rule: "Do not unto others as you would have others not do unto you." If people leave me alone, I leave them alone. If they come after me in any way or for any reason, they'd better be up for a fight with lengths of chain and 2x4s...because I play for keeps.

But I am very passive if left alone. I trouble no one.


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RE: Tolerance - 3/4/2006 7:03:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavejali

Well there is that old proverb "Never talk about religion or politics" *grin*

Saying that, there was a recent thread here where everyone just shared their philosophical/religious affiliations, from what I saw everyone pretty much seemed to tolerate, even accept that others had different views to themselves.

I think the only time intolerance comes into play in general is when people adopt a "I'm right, you're wrong" attitude and try to enforce their beliefs and opinions on others and that happens in all kindsa areas of life.

Also, when you come across subjects that involved "belief" they are most times a very sensitive area to tread as when someone "believes" something, they actually have to invest themselves in it, and in so doing can perceive attacks against themselves (right or wrongly) when someone believes other than themselves.

Another thing that comes to mind is, a lot of people have had bad experiences with religion, or have come to think that its all full of shit from basically having it thrown down their throat, so have removed themslves entirely from it. Other people have done historical research and gathered different information than what the churches for example are preaching and have thrown the baby out with the bathwater and become atheist in some form or another. Others still have had lived in families with no religion or philosophical belief and so cannot relate to other people with belief's in this way. Others have been influenced by varying other belief systems and have adopted them as their own, replacing their previous belief.

So many scenarios but at the end of the day what it all amounts to is, if someone ever feels the need to defend themselves or their beliefs, whether that is pro or con religion or a particular philosophy or whatever really, there are going to be disputes as most times it will take the form of an attack.



Yeah..........what she said.................works for me.....


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RE: Tolerance - 3/4/2006 7:10:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Chaingang

\....../Take an issue like Gay Marriage. Now I think that the government shouldn't be in the marriage business at all, but legally recognized relationships have legal repercussions in terms of insurance and emergency medical decisions, etc. - so it matters on some level. I am not gay, but I can see no reason under the U.S. Constitution to not allow a possible minority group the opportunity to live as others do - with legally recognized unions. So I favor Gay Marriage and vehemently oppose anyone that sees it differently. They can oppose Gay Marriage on moral grounds if they wish - tell us how God condemns it, etc.; but when they oppose it on political grounds they are being unamerican in my view - they are refusing to recognize and allow a minority viewpoint even if they disagree with it, to "live and let live." And that's the whole point of the American project - to allow even minority views and ways of life, not to annihilate them.

My point is inclusion - I favor everyone being on the exact same playing field. Those that favor exclusion - for whatever reason - are my political enemies.

Fair is fair.



Being a member of the Gay/Lesbian community, i thank You, sincerely and deeply, from my heart for Your viewpoint on Gay marriage......

Edited to add: The Constitution says, Life, Liberty and Justice for All.....and the Pursuit of Happiness is in there somewhere.........


regards,
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