DemonKia -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/10/2009 8:47:51 AM)
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Rule number one with me: I'm #1. & I'm an enormous [sm=AttentionWhore.gif] My main purpose hanging out here is to entertain myself. Sorry to disappoint you, but everybody & everything is secondary to that. I know, deeply amoral of me & all that, but there it is . . . . . & after all, this is just a place to hang out & chew the fat, lol . . . . . Not some global problem-solving center, not even for BDSM . . . . . My second biggest purpose in hanging out here is to display how clever I am, & adorably forthright. & that I have interesting trivia & tidbits of info. Might not edify you, but that's okay. I know my fans (all one or two of 'em [;)] ) like what I write . . . . . . So, I gotta send out the big appreciations for you keeping the spotlight on me & my postings . . . . In entertainment there's no such thing as bad publicity, lol . . . . . Oh, & let me clarify a coupla points, mostly jus' cuz I like talking about me more than most everything else on the planet, lol . . . . . I'm 'pissy' lots, lol . . . . . Tho', personally, I prefer 'bitchy' . . .. .. For someone who's remarkably pissy yourself, Isaac -- a lot -- in my experience of you here in these postings, you might wanna consider jus' copping to your own 'bad' stuff rather than runnin' about jumpin' other people's stuff . . . . But, that might jus' be me thinkin' that . . . . . lol I like to offer up odd bits of info, & I have very little interest in 'arguing big debating points', so, for instance, that stuff about Chinese foot-binding was relevant & on topic & nobody else offered it up, so I did. I was merely making info available from my interest base. & some guy thought it wasn't relevant to his thinking, & argued vociferously so, & we had discussion. Mostly I just amplified on the factual material I shared, until I got bored with that guy's emotionalism. All I ever said was it was data for anyone reading the thread to consider if the general topic of maledoms fetishizing femsub feet was of interest. If you wish to see it as evidence of some big point (beyond that) I've been making in this thread, well, okay, whatevah flips yo wig . . . . . . lol . . . . . I thought I was jus' entertaining myself in hopes of some discussion about doms worshipping feet . . . . . Oh, & what my profile says is that I'm relatively new to BDSM relationships . . . . . lol . . . . . For instance, so far, I've had several BDSM relationships, all in flesh-life & most fairly short-lived, cuz, like I said, I'm kinda new to this whole thing . . . . . But I've been an out & self-identified kinkster for better than a decade now, which for me meant reading a bunch of non-fiction on the subject & playing around with my mostly-vanilla friends & lovers . . .. & my first not-so-short-term BDSM relationship lasted a little over a year, taking up most of last year. I was dating this very nice, experienced gay / bi male 'almost married' D/s poly couple. I learned an enormous amount about BDSM & how real people do this stuff on the ground, amongst many other things. *droll smile* Oh, hey, which gives me a chance to imagine another scenario & drag this freakin' thing back on topic to some frackin' degree, lol: A matched pair of bi-switches, one of each gender flavor. Further, let's say that the fem is a dom-leaning switch & the male is a sub-leaning switch. The female wants to play but the male is engrossed in web-surfing. It's porn, but that's not helping the fems case . . . . . So, she crawls under the desk & starts licking & kissing & nibbling his feet & toes & massaging his calves & ankles with her hands .. . .. Shortly, they're playing, she's taken the top position cuz he always falls into bottom position (given a choice), & the porn sits forgotten on his computer screen . . . . . . Now, who exerted will on who? lol I've been involved in the out-&-organized kinky 'community' for almost 3 years. I took my first BDSM classes at Burning Man in 2002 & 2004. (I also took classes at the Burn 2007, but by that time I was also involved in the Northern Cali BDSM 'scene' . . . . .) Ya know, so that now you have more of a factual basis on which to project your judgements . .. . . . & I do have to thank you, again, profusely, for taking the time & energy to compile my posting stuff. Wow! I really love when people spend effort thinking about me, regardless of whether it's a liking thing or not; remember, there's no such thing as bad publicity in entertainment. Entertainers are some of the most dysfunctional, self-centered, fucked up humans on the planet, it's just part of the great scheme of things . . . . . lol In philosophy class we discussed this thing called 'admirable immorality', I think it was. Gauguin was the example . . . . . Gauguin ran off & abandoned his wife & kids to hunger & privation & poverty in France so he could paint & fuck the hot young women of Tahiti -- the argument is should we despise that art because of the immorality associated with it? The point of that being that you can point out what a loser *%&^#! I am, but it won't detract much from how well I write or whether other people think I have anything imaginative to contribute, or whatever . . . . . lol . . .. . Probably, for every one person who might be 'pushed away' by your oratory at least one other will check my rhetoric out jus' cuz. I try to avoid, & it's tough for me to avoid, telling people what to do, in general. I do offer advice, it's a terrible habit that I keep trying to kick, but . . . . . Anyways, people have a deep resistant-rebellious thing & as often as not, they'll just do the opposite of whatever their told. lol . . . (Many of those are what we shape as 'doms', I suspect . . ...) I could go on, ad nauseam for you I'm sure, lol, but my experience is that if threads seriously derail up here in the non-silliness forums, posts stand an excellent chance of just disappearing, whole chunks of thread gone because they're just not on topic. I don't mind, I hang onto much of what I post, particularly the stuff I really like . . . . . . Word to the wise, Isaac . . . .. *smiles & waves to ModEleven* Enough fun & games for the moment. I gotta go to a munch, & then facilitate a bondage workshop this afternoon, & I gotta remember to bring up this topic . . . . . . Oh, & that was beth, not Merc. She posts in color, Merc in black. & I owned my stuff around that, you never owned your exact same stuff about jumpin' Des in the first place . . . . . . So, whatevah you think you're displaying, yeah, go right ahead . . . . lol quote:
ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac Let's review the quality of your invaluable contributions to this thread: Post #: 53 Your invoking of foot binding from ancient China to prove your point was fairly debunked, and you got pissy. Post #: 56 The inner sadist in you laughs! Post #: 67 You jumped the gun and took the word "we" out of context (Merc corrected your error) because running to Des's aid was so important. Post #: 72 The sadist in you basically laughs again! (want a black demon cape with that?) Post #: 82 Your imagined scenarios leave much to be desired Post #: 86 You prattle on and on about munches and friends and play parties, yet also admit in your profile you're new to BDSM as of 9/09 Post #: 110 You get pissy (again) because the OP expresses a sentiment counter to the one you're attempting to assert Post #: 136 You're "still laughing" and trying to sum up the ignorance of the thread (as you percieve it). LOL, Isaac
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