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RE: why is it so hard to find female play slaves? - 10/7/2009 12:25:16 PM

LadyPact

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I couldn't tell you because I don't have that particular issue. Best of luck to you.

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RE: why is it so hard to find female play slaves? - 10/7/2009 7:08:00 PM

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I have to agree with Kia on this. I'm also in the Bay Area, and there are a whole lot of women who are looking for female casual playpartners, as well as romantic or D/s relationships. "Play slave" sounds like a bit of an oxymoron to me, though. "Slave" implies more of a serious owner/property, ongoing, serious commitment, even if they aren't your girlfriend. I found mine literally as soon as I started looking (I asked for advice on approaching other ladies, at a discussion group). I'm not planning to toss her away, and she's important to me, but we don't have any plans or desire to be girlfriends.

zephyr and holly, I assume that she does CBT with men, since she's looking for them (at least as paying clients). I *do* think it would be amusing to have a bottom or submissive woman wear a strapon, then do CBT on it, though.

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RE: why is it so hard to find female play slaves? - 10/8/2009 7:24:48 AM

bifunlady

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they either turn out to be flakes after a few messages or just never respond on here...
what's up with that?

One, they don't read what your profile says.
Two, so many of the guys on here that call themselves "doms" couldn't get a real date with a fist full of fifty's.

Oh, and if you are polite and say "thanks, but no thanks". You're suddenly a fake.

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RE: why is it so hard to find female play slaves? - 10/8/2009 9:35:31 AM

purepleasure

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If you're looking for a female pay-as-you-go play slave, you're probably going to have better luck buying a blow-up doll and one of those gag gifts of toilet paper that looks like money and inserting it in the orifice of your choice on said doll.

Like mentioned before, females subs and slaves don't have to pay for play.

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