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Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has a M... - 10/6/2009 3:30:15 PM   
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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 3:31:02 PM   
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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 3:33:30 PM   
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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 3:38:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		We don't have sex if I am not feeling up to having it. very plain and simple. And of course I know some who say he gets what he wants when he wants it regardless if I am up to giving it, but it's not our dynamic thankfully:)
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I was wondering how you handle it?

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 3:41:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I get a migraine, Im nobodies friend, and if he was dumb enough to come near me with a hard on, he would lose it permanently. Regular headaches are different Illl ignore them or take a pain killer  but when a migraine hits, I can be nasty regarding getting the rest I need.
Luckily hubby and pet, both know the difference.


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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 3:54:24 PM   
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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 4:27:52 PM   
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That's kinda what being a slave is about.
I bite my tongue and try my best to enjoy it. If I don't...not his concern.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 4:32:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well....despite the fact that i am His slave He cares about my safety and well being.... and since i have had one stroke induced migraine and we would like to make it not be two or more i'm pretty sure His answer to this question would be NO... Not only that but HELL NO.....

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 4:51:43 PM   
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... the goods just ain't working. My partner would be better off using her toys.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 4:54:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I have a migraine there is no way on this blue green planet I'd have sex. I seriously do not want to be touched, let alone anything else. Mine blind me, have made my nose bleed, and at one point last year put me in the hospital for 3 days. So not no, but HELL to the No.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 5:12:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Headache no problem, I find sex actually helps! Migraines...not a chance...unless he likes being puked on. Any of my previous partners have simply cared for me during a migraine...tablets, bed and silence. I would not expect any less than that. A caring Master is a good Master.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 5:41:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		If mine did that to me, we'd probably end up in the ER.  Meds only work to a certain point and once you've passed it, it's time for some IVs.

Now, if he wants to pay for my portion of the bill, and give me a drive to and from, he could give it a try.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 5:42:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sure its a great idea. Of course it wouldn't be with the one who has the migraine.

and if my Sir insisted, there would be a lot of groaning, and asking if he was done yet! Of course the pillow over the face to keep the light out might be a bit of a downer.

It wouldn't be the high point of our relationship.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 6:39:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh no.....when I get a migraine, you don't want to be anywhere near me!!!!!  The only thing that fixes it is drugs and sleep.....and anyone who would force someone with a migraine to do anything, let alone have sex is a total ass, and I wouldn't be with him at all.  Even slaves need care and consideration, and again, any Master who would not be responsible enough to make sure she gets it is a real bastard......but, if that works for the sick slave in question, I get it, but still.......

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 8:38:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would tell him to leave me alone and not to bother me. Sex would be the furtherest thing from my mind. Then I'd lay in a dark room with a cool towel on my head and wait for the migraine to go away.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 9:26:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't imagine performing any sexual act while having a migraine. Simply moving my head is enough to make me consider killing myself so vigorous movement is right out. Plus I get hypersensitive to touch and can't think of anything that would actually feel good. L:uckily I'm a Dom and the issue never comes up.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/6/2009 10:48:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I cannot imagine for the life of me wanting any kind of sex while in that much pain. I would be too miserable..

I would loathe a Master that didn't treat me with dignity, care and compassion and would still have me have sex with Him when i am that sick.

For me that is not the kind of man i want to be with but that is just me..

Thanks for the replies...

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 3:23:54 AM   
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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 3:28:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I always got told it used to ease the migraine, it removed some of the jagged edges and replaced pain with fuzzy things but then I was always one for the long slow screw, me doing the work, not her, she just lay back and thought of England.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 3:56:43 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: winterlight

I cannot imagine for the life of me wanting any kind of sex while in that much pain. I would be too miserable..

I would loathe a Master that didn't treat me with dignity, care and compassion and would still have me have sex with Him when i am that sick.

For me that is not the kind of man i want to be with but that is just me..

Thanks for the replies...


Agreed.


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