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RE: Ladies, what pain....? - 10/7/2009 6:29:10 PM

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Yeah,probably a bit off trying to compare a boot in the nads to anything a woman might experience, given women have never had nads, but it has been fun watching the responses. One thing though, the kidney stone thing, both sexes suffer that, so it would be useful to hear from either sex as to their experience, and there get some definition as to what a boot in the goolies really means. My ex, used to have a fail safe method of dealing with women that wouldnt be talked down, that was what she called a kick in the cunt, apparently so I was told, it was very painful and usually crumpled a woman, so I wondered, is a kick in the cunt the same as a kick in the balls with men.

Yeah, I have experienced severe pain in the gonads, that was when I hit the handlebar stem on my old push bike, before ending up on the roof of a VW beetle. That time, it felt like my balls had taken up residence in my throat, I couldnt walk straight for days, and urination was a severe problem. Yeah, I should have seen a medic, but at the time, embarassment stopped all that. It is why the advertisement I saw on the other side, to me is distasteful, it brings back bad memories.

Dental pain, well, there is nothing worse, but it is hard to compare against a boot in the goolies, as goolie pain is there intensely and then subsides, dental pain is there, full stop. Codeine helps, but it can become a dependance thing, clove oil makes you drool uncontrollably, grinning and bearing it only works for so long. I have now taken to doing my own temporary fillings,they work and give pain relief for a few weeks to a month or two, before another attempt is needed, due to the temporary nature of the emergency self dental work.

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RE: Ladies, what pain....? - 10/7/2009 7:14:09 PM

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RE: Ladies, what pain....? - 10/7/2009 8:32:38 PM

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Strictly female...miscarriage the pain was well beyond phyiscal.

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RE: Ladies, what pain....? - 10/7/2009 8:35:14 PM

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Obviously I can't know what being kicked in the balls feels like. I suspect that like with menstrual cramps, there are different intensities and pain tolerances for various people and circumstances. Personally, I never had really bad cramps - they were a little uncomfortable. I haven't had any at all for the past 11 years or so.

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RE: Ladies, what pain....? - 10/8/2009 7:51:30 AM

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I worked in an E.R. for years and it was fascinating - there were people there who were in excrutiating pain but had high pain tolerance or some sort of method of dealing with it - meditation, deep breathing, something!. And then there were the people who had little cuts who were just howlers. *shut the heck up geesh...

I've been thinking - what was the worst pain that made me want to just die? It was finding out about my medicine allergies - I poof up like a balloon and itch to high heaven. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal, but I can't stand to have an itch that won't go away, and when it's all over my body. Golly. I used to pray to die from that. It was the most awful experience because there was nothing that took it away - meds, baths, oatmeal, nothing. And it lasted for days.

That feels like torture - the not being able to get away from the pain, the itch, the feeling like my skin is gonna burst open.

And let's not talk about poison ivy... *shudders

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RE: Ladies, what pain....? - 10/10/2009 4:18:53 AM

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Good morning!
I would have to say that any rough penetration in kitty just kills me. I am going thru peri-menopause and am dry and burning sometimes that just walking will hurt. And the reason I write this is b/c getting kicked there for a guy is the same pain I feel, Mentally we want to be used, we want that pleasure of seeing our Dominant happy, we love that fantasy but when it happens or comes time for it. the physical pain just takes over and floors us. I can let Master do it (meaning that I not say anything hurts, just keep quiet) but I know that for days weeks possibly afterwards I will be in crying, "take me to the ER and make it stop" kinda pain. And so far, there is no cream or pill that completely stops the pain for me. So, that conflict of wanting vs.suffering the after effects is the closest I can get. Good luck!
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RE: Ladies, what pain....? - 10/11/2009 4:45:38 PM

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I wouldnt know about being Kicked in the Nuts, But For me, Ear Ache, (had 11 operations over the years) , Closely followed by Gall/Kidney Stones, ( had 2 operations to remove them over the years) Followed very closely by Mentrual Pain, ( have PCOS & Endometriosis since early Teens).
I consider myself to have a very high tolerance to pain due to everything over the years.

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