IronBear
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ORIGINAL: angelic Maybemaybenot, i did mispeak about the Columbine incident. Those young men were evil and wired wrong. I will speak for the dead... The Columbine High School massacre is horrifying to contemplate because it recapitulates the workings of our society in a microcosm. The shooters, Harris and Klebold, were known outcasts. They were hated and vilified. They were bullied and insulted daily... Red flag anyone? ... The reality of social cliques in high schools was a frequent topic of discussion. Many argued that the pair's isolation from the rest of their classmates prompted feelings of helplessness, insecurity and depression, as well as a strong desire for attention. Some schools also began programs to expose and stop school bullying, which many charged had fueled anger and resentment within Harris and Klebold. and: ...on the fifth anniversary of Columbine, the FBI's lead Columbine investigator and other top psychiatrists went public with their conclusions in a Slate story entitled The Depressive and the Psychopath.[24] They diagnosed Harris as a clinical psychopath and Klebold as a depressive, and saw that the plan was masterminded by Harris. He had a messianic-level superiority complex, and hoped to illustrate his massive superiority to the world. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Columbine_High_School_massacre ... To me the Columbine High School situation was created by the way society seems to naturally stratify into levels of the "in" and the "out." Harris and Klebold were outsiders that made everyone pay for it. This may sound stupid as an analogy, but has anyone seen the films "The Outsiders" or "Rumblefish"? Both of those stories are based on the fiction of S.E. Hinton who often writes stories about outcast youth and their struggles with alienation. If you watch or read those works you will learn what it's like on the other side, to know what it means to NEVER gain acceptance from the main herd of society. When I was a young man, I was the kind of boy that picked on kids like the shooters. I was good-looking, intelligent, and well-liked. My girlfriends came from the girls that were cheerleaders, baton twirlers, or drill-team captains. My friends were often fellow athletes from the various sporting teams of which we were all members. I also made friends with what we called "the smacks" - the unusually bright and geeky kids - because I was actually one of them as well. I traversed freely among several social groups, which was unusual. But damn, I hated kids like the shooters: scrawny, weak, sometimes seemingly unintelligent, possibly effeminate, etc. If they seemed really "different" I hated them and picked on them because of it and I was even congratulated for it by my friends. I also thusly gained the attention of the girls that were looking for the guys higher up in the pecking order. That's what it was really - sexual display and defining of the pecking order. Anyway, I would find kids like that I make them specific targets for my youthful violence and raging hormones. One kid I picked on got kicked out of a class because I was always picking on him - instead of kicking me out, they kicked him out because the teacher liked me better! Now that's just wrong, of course - but that's how it happens: selection of the better socialized, however brutal. You start stacking up instances of maltreatment like that high enough and you have built yourself an anti-social monster ready to explode. And as a man looking back on who I was as a boy, I blame the boy I was for kids like Harris and Klebold. BTW, that kid I got kicked out of class later became one of my best friends in my 20s. One day we met somewhere and I apologized to him for all of the maltreatment I had done to him in our youth. Being the better man, he forgave me and we share a great friendship to this very day. But understanding what went on doesn't excuse it. Making amends years later doesn't excuse it either. It's a very real problem. I am not blaming the victims here, I am saying that no one is an island to themselves - we are all part of a larger social network that is either working for everyone's mutual advantage or that has broken linkages and trouble spots. We sink or swim together. Take a look at the world around you and tell me it is not so. That Chaingang is one abso-fucking-bloody-lutely awsome post...Froma Combat Vet's perspective I thank you. From a Gun enthusiast's point of view I thank you and from a Psychologist/Counsellor/Therapist/Priest's heart I thank you.
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