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RE: i need some advice please - 10/20/2009 11:26:36 AM

MasterSlaveLA

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ORIGINAL: chewtoy89

I was still able to talk to him a little because I have messager on my phone the frist night when it happened I let him know and he saìd that he understood but then he turned around and the next night was all pissy because I could not go home and play on the webcam with him

Normally I'd suggest a little tolerance because of all the fakes/flakes online, but given the above info (i.e., he got pissy because you wouldn't cam for him), dump the idiot.

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RE: i need some advice please - 10/20/2009 12:09:38 PM

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It is guys like this that make the good ones shine even brighter.

Hope your dad gets well soon.

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RE: i need some advice please - 10/23/2009 5:21:40 AM

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FR- Like everyone else agrees, the guy's a douche.

Also, when venturing into this, remember to go with your gut instinct. If something doesn't feel right, trust that instinct. I was incredibly naive when I first joined CM three years ago, all bright-eyed and eager, desperate to really explore the newly found 'me' and fell prey to what a smarter girl would have recognised immediately; a married man with kids. I made all kinds of excuses as to why he wouldn't take me to his home, or answer his phone when I called at certain times. To be fair, he had a great story, very detailed but it came to a head one night when I saw him and his wife being interviewed on local tv. And then of course, in hindsight, you recognise all those red flags you were too distracted to see.

So trust yourself and get to know the person before giving yourself emotionally.

Best of luck

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