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slavejali -> RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? (3/5/2006 1:09:55 PM)
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Top 10 things: (not in any order)
1. Truely Dominant (this includes knowing himself well, comfortable with his dominant personality and his masculinity, ability to manage, conscious desire and enjoyment of managing/controlling me, being protective, ability to be strict etc)
2. Playful ( This includes knowing himself well enough that he can be relaxed and have fun, a sense of humor )
3. Committed (This includes being capable of a monogamous relationship, being capable of investing himself into the relationship completely, ability to work through problems seeing the larger picture to the relationship and the long terms goals).
4. Spiritual ( this includes having the knowledge that we are more than just a body, a stable personality, interest in self improvement (self knowledge), having honor and integrity).
5. Intelligent ( This includes ability to communicate effectively, ability to learn from mistakes, willingness to learn, ability to understand others.)
6. Self Control ( This includes having enough inner strength to cease and desist negative behavioral patterns within himself)
7. Sexually Alive ( Ability to communicate through sexuality)
8. Problem Solving ( Ability to transform apparently negative situations into positive ones whatever the outcome).
9. Life Experience ( this includes having had enough time on the planet to have experienced a vast variety of experience that I can relate to, it might include travel, education, acclimatisation of different social scenarios, acceptance of different peoples lifestyles).
10. Ability to love, wholly and completely.
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