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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 12:25:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

arrogant? Cocky? Fastlane looks around the room innocently...no one here fits that description...Maam.

Now, close the book and leave the ball buster material for someone who would enjoy it...not me.......Purdy, Purdy Please??????????? My KIND Mistress H.

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You are certainly SOUNDING like you might fit number 7 there Kevin

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 1:09:55 PM

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Top 10 things: (not in any order)

1. Truely Dominant (this includes knowing himself well, comfortable with his dominant personality and his masculinity, ability to manage, conscious desire and enjoyment of managing/controlling me, being protective, ability to be strict etc)

2. Playful ( This includes knowing himself well enough that he can be relaxed and have fun, a sense of humor )

3. Committed (This includes being capable of a monogamous relationship, being capable of investing himself into the relationship completely, ability to work through problems seeing the larger picture to the relationship and the long terms goals).

4. Spiritual ( this includes having the knowledge that we are more than just a body, a stable personality, interest in self improvement (self knowledge), having honor and integrity).

5. Intelligent ( This includes ability to communicate effectively, ability to learn from mistakes, willingness to learn, ability to understand others.)

6. Self Control ( This includes having enough inner strength to cease and desist negative behavioral patterns within himself)

7. Sexually Alive ( Ability to communicate through sexuality)

8. Problem Solving ( Ability to transform apparently negative situations into positive ones whatever the outcome).

9. Life Experience ( this includes having had enough time on the planet to have experienced a vast variety of experience that I can relate to, it might include travel, education, acclimatisation of different social scenarios, acceptance of different peoples lifestyles).

10. Ability to love, wholly and completely.

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 1:10:54 PM

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LMAO...Raven.....why are you always picking on me?....Fastlane polishes his big boots and smiles, knowing we can kick our heels up together one of these days!

I am not number seven! Arrogant, Cocky...O.K., O.K., O.K., I'll give you that!

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 2:08:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: fastlane
LMAO...Raven.....why are you always picking on me?....

You paint yourself into stuations that just call for a comment. Your a natural straight man for a double act

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Fastlane polishes his big boots and smiles, knowing we can kick our heels up together one of these days!

If ever your heading this side of the pond, just let me know

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I am not number seven!

I am not a number, I am a free man!

Oooops, must remember not to quote obscure Brit TV classic shows on an international forum 99% of the members of which won't have even heard of "The Prisoner".

And he was number six, not number seven anyhow

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 2:32:17 PM

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~laughs and cedes the floor to MHOO314 and the other Mistresses~

Pardon me for thinking of myself, Ladies.

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 2:33:55 PM

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~tackles MHOO314 and steals Book to protect Doms~

LOL

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 3:00:24 PM

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what is your list?

Consistancy
Clarity
Technical ability
Dominance
Self Respect
Machismo
Creativity
Insight
Cool
Attitude

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 3:01:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

[I am not a number, I am a free man!

Oooops, must remember not to quote obscure Brit TV classic shows on an international forum 99% of the members of which won't have even heard of "The Prisoner".

And he was number six, not number seven anyhow

Wasn't Patrick McGoohan in that?

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 3:18:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Great lists, ladies. Wonder if the Doms and Masters have a list for us?

candystripper

Poo! pouts and wants Mistress' to be able to come out and play!

Double Pooo! I'd like to share my list about Domina's, But CS didn't include female sub"s list of Top 10 traights of a Domina. I think she may still think this is an all hetro-sexual world

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 3:24:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
Wasn't Patrick McGoohan in that?

Ah maybe some of you have seen it. Picked up by one of the many and varied channels you have over there I take it

A somewhat sureal show but oddly compelling viewing

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 3:42:44 PM

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Double Pooo! I'd like to share my list about Domina's, But CS didn't include female sub"s list of Top 10 traights of a Domina. I think she may still think this is an all hetro-sexual world .

brightspot

Not too sure whether i'm the right person to try and describe/classify BDSM people/relationships. However, naturally, E/everyone should feel free to post a list. (As if it were up to me.) And no, it's a wide, wide world as i well know and celebrate.

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 4:12:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

3) intelligent

I lose too, (dumb as a box of rocks....)

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 4:20:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: DelRey

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

3) intelligent

I lose too, (dumb as a box of rocks....)

I'm still in the game and my list is now down to two

sexy
in to pain
(s+p to the 3rd power + 2) = 10 and hmmmm...good chemistry!

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 6:28:26 PM

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1. Naturally Dominant (well, duh...)
2. Compatible (friend/husband/Master)
3. Compassionate
4. Trustworthy
5. Understanding
6. Honest
7. Intelligent
8. GSOH
9. Friendly
10.Adaptable

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/5/2006 10:32:49 PM

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in no specific order....

1. Honesty, but still being mindful of my feelings at the same time

2. intelligence

3. creativity

4. objectivity

5. empathy

6. loyalty

7. humour

8. compassion

9. grace (inner and outer)

10. he smells yummy :P

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/6/2006 12:12:50 AM

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hmm I didn't remember writing arrogant and cocky on this list---picks up MissTress's new book, "Nailing Scrotums for Dummies"..thumbs to Chapter 7-- The Arrogant Doms

Ha!!! LMAO!!!!

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/6/2006 5:18:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

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I am not number seven!

I am not a number, I am a free man!

Oooops, must remember not to quote obscure Brit TV classic shows on an international forum 99% of the members of which won't have even heard of "The Prisoner".

And he was number six, not number seven anyhow

Not as obscure as you might think, it achieved a cult following here.

Be seeing you............

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/6/2006 8:47:51 AM

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I will have to agree with most of the other subs slaves said i find self confidence very very sexy but over confidence is a turn off to me. All i can say is my Master got the whole package.

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/6/2006 9:57:16 AM

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1. He knows what He wants and is able to communicate it clearly (knows Himself)
2. Compassionate
3. A bit sadistic
4. Monogamous
5. Romantic
6. Sexy, sensual
7. Creative
8. Honest
9. Fun-loving
10. Possessive (not to a fault though)

As well as so many of the other wonderful characteristics stated so eloquently here.

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RE: The Top Ten Charcteristics i Want in a Dom? - 3/6/2006 7:38:48 PM

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1. Integrity
2. Honesty
3. Intelligent
4. Successful and driven
5. Witty
6. Worldly
7. Sexual
8. Articulate
9. Confident
10.Independent

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