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RE: Finding "the One" - 10/15/2009 3:20:26 PM

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I agree! It is the same with both Doms and Subs. Most on here (collarme.com) seem to be interested in the next famous model. I thought this site was for Doms to find slaves and Subs to find Doms not people to find a life partner.

I'm curious why it can't be both and then some? There are a number of folks who have found a life partner through the site. My purpose here isn't that, but I see nothing wrong for those who do.

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RE: Finding "the One" - 10/15/2009 3:44:21 PM

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When I was looking for "the one" I was looking for someone that I clicked with. I wanted this person to share all life things with so he had to be special. I wanted someone I could have a conversation with, so those that came on with ye ol slavespeak instantly turned me off.

To me, looks come after I actually know them. When I am with someone that has the type of personality I can get into, that makes them attractive to me, same as I've been with some "model" types that bored me to tears, mainly because all they depended on was their looks and never worked on having a personality, so I had no problem ending it, looks or not

Looks only go so far, as a friend of mine find out recently that blew off a very nice lady, who wasn't bad looking but wasn't the blonde/blue plastic doll type , to marry "barbie", who treated him like crap from day one, but all he could see was how she looked, actually that's all he talked about, their marriage didn't last four months. After the glamour of getting ready for the wedding and being the center of attention for about a year, after it was over, he finally saw there was nothing there.

I'm lucky...I found someone I have that special chemistry with, and he just happens to be hot looking as well

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RE: Finding "the One" - 10/15/2009 3:55:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetAngieDoll

I agree! It is the same with both Doms and Subs. Most on here (collarme.com) seem to be interested in the next famous model. I thought this site was for Doms to find slaves and Subs to find Doms not people to find a life partner.

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I didn't know this site only served one purpose. I've talked to a lot through the years, and people are here for different reasons. I originally came here to talk to people who were in the lifestyle like me and to keep learning.

And what's wrong with people coming here to find a life partner? I wanted to share my life with someone who shared my interest, what better place to look than here? I wasn't necessarily looking for marriage when I came here, but wanted someone who was going to be long time perm, so I wasn't just looking for any old thing, and as it turns out, we were such a perfect fit I married him

Granted some people use this for some hook up site, but that's their business and I don't judge them and I would appreciate if they granted me the same consideration.

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RE: Finding "the One" - 10/15/2009 5:54:04 PM

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Awww that makes me happy Journey, I always do love stories of, well love. I'm a firm believer that love does in facthave the ability to conquer any sort of barrier or problem, but I'm just a hopeless romantic at heart. (And I've seen waaaaaaaaaaaay too many romantic movies)

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