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ORIGINAL: anony1

I am a new Daddy of 7 months. However I've always had relationships as I do with my current babygirl just without the label. I wanted to post on here for feed back to my situation. Even being a Daddy i do not know everything and am always gearing to learn more about the lifestyle. In the beginning of my relationship till present day there has always been friction as far as the behavior of my babygirl. I am very open for my other to discuss there emotions and feeling in general. I am having problems with my babygirl as far as consistent respect. There have been a few times where she has acted out physically and/or put her hand on me, taken my keys, tried to keep me in our home when needed to take a drive and let things cool off. I myself feel the relationship should never go in that direction when fighting/arguing. I am admit no one is perfect and i have dealt with these fits of rage of her's very well. It just seems as time goes on i am not as willing to do so. She has mental health problems (bi-polar)and most often will resort to bringing that up during an apology. She didn't have health insurance i guided her and helped her obtain it. I am more of the cook, i make sure she has dinner/lunch. i make visits to her work when in town 2-4 times a month to spend her lunch with her. i take care of all of the bills, shopping, budget. i buy her presents for occasions or for no reason at all. I've spent numerous(4 or more) times taking her to the ER in the last 3 months. Taking care of her when she is released.
She is very playful and often can take things too far. When i am playful with her a lot of the time she doesn't like it and becomes defensive. She will say obscene things to me that i NEVER imagined a babygirl should do.
Is this normal behavior? Of course a lot of people post the perfectness of their relationships because really who wants to put down what they have. I am really trying to be open minded about all of this with forgiveness when asked. I just am really out of things to do and am in need of some healthy advice from people who have been in my shoes.... Thank you!

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ORIGINAL: anony1

I am a new Daddy of 7 months. However I've always had relationships as I do with my current babygirl just without the label. I wanted to post on here for feed back to my situation. Even being a Daddy i do not know everything and am always gearing to learn more about the lifestyle. In the beginning of my relationship till present day there has always been friction as far as the behavior of my babygirl. I am very open for my other to discuss there emotions and feeling in general. I am having problems with my babygirl as far as consistent respect. There have been a few times where she has acted out physically and/or put her hand on me, taken my keys, tried to keep me in our home when needed to take a drive and let things cool off. I myself feel the relationship should never go in that direction when fighting/arguing. I am admit no one is perfect and i have dealt with these fits of rage of her's very well. It just seems as time goes on i am not as willing to do so. She has mental health problems (bi-polar)and most often will resort to bringing that up during an apology. She didn't have health insurance i guided her and helped her obtain it. I am more of the cook, i make sure she has dinner/lunch. i make visits to her work when in town 2-4 times a month to spend her lunch with her. i take care of all of the bills, shopping, budget. i buy her presents for occasions or for no reason at all. I've spent numerous(4 or more) times taking her to the ER in the last 3 months. Taking care of her when she is released.
She is very playful and often can take things too far. When i am playful with her a lot of the time she doesn't like it and becomes defensive. She will say obscene things to me that i NEVER imagined a babygirl should do.
Is this normal behavior? Of course a lot of people post the perfectness of their relationships because really who wants to put down what they have. I am really trying to be open minded about all of this with forgiveness when asked. I just am really out of things to do and am in need of some healthy advice from people who have been in my shoes.... Thank you!