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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 8:08:17 AM   
mommahkitten


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Status: offline 		wow, just WOW, was not expecting THAT reaction (from him)
so i did myself a favor and printed out the forum of my question of what we all said so he can read it
5 minutes later i was a little subbie kitten following his every word
seems the Master inside was only dormant and well hidden
its working out great ^_^


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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 8:14:30 AM   
mommahkitten


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Status: offline 		quick question though here: for a collaring, do i make it official with the whole *submit, give collar, i am yours etc*??
or *heres a necklace, now your mine unofficially*??

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 8:18:10 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		yeah, either
or you can get married
or maybe have his name tattoed on your body
or write ... slave with black marker on your forehead

there a numerous things one can do to show their devotion

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 8:38:09 AM   
mommahkitten


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Status: offline 		married - while to go before marriage
tattoo- definatly but only when serious
black marker- not fun when i show up at school with black marker on forehead

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 8:58:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mommahkitten
quick question though here: for a collaring, do i make it official with the whole *submit, give collar, i am yours etc*??
or *heres a necklace, now your mine unofficially*??
I'd recommend something symbolic for you. What, exactly, that means is up to you two, but at least for Carol and I, the collaring date is second only in significance to our anniversary. Another thing... try to find a collar you'll really like *laughs* For us, the first one got a lot of emotional attachment and so now Carol is probably doomed to wearing a $16.95 dog collar from Petco for the rest of her life.


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I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 9:00:42 AM   
mommahkitten


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Status: offline 		well we got a lil cheap heart and key necklace he put on me 2 days ago, but it was just a present and without saying it i think its become our collar

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 9:28:44 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		See? Life is an open book test. Good one on you. Glad to hear there is a man in there.

Give it hell.

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 9:34:04 AM   
mommahkitten


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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 9:40:40 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		So, since you are out here, give us the entire scam in detail. queenie.

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 9:52:39 AM   
leadership527


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ORIGINAL: mommahkitten
well we got a lil cheap heart and key necklace he put on me 2 days ago, but it was just a present and without saying it i think its become our collar
.... and so the doom begins. For the rest of your lives (with any luck), now you'll be looking at various collars all in some way more fancy, more ornamental, more bdsm-ey, more something. And then you'll realize you can't part with that cheesy little heart & key necklace. You'll know that you're really screwed when, like us, you go out and buy a few of them to stockpile for wear & tear. *laughs*

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 9:54:10 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		LOL, cheeze is relentlessly tugging at the heartstrings, ain't it?

Ron

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 10:04:36 AM   
mommahkitten


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Status: offline 		well i like cheeze :p
anywho i do plan on buying a lifetime collar
probably from bondagecollars.com

well basically ron it went like this
he read it, we spoke breifly
he quickly grabbed my hair and kissed me
my knees went jello and i sank
the rest is history
from asking permission to pee, to call someone, to sit down on a bench, etc etc (we didnt even talk about this!)
to undressing him when we come home and cooking dinner
this is sooo weiirrrrdddd

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 10:09:38 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		apparently it is so right. any idea why he just didn't do that right from jumpstreet?

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 10:10:32 AM   
mommahkitten


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Status: offline 		i dont know
quess i had to tell him some kink of mine after all ;)

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 11:04:36 AM   
leadership527


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ORIGINAL: mommahkitten
i dont know
quess i had to tell him some kink of mine after all ;)
Here, let the vanilla dom clue you in... In the rest of the world that most guys inhabit, bossing your wife around is a bad thing. God knows it never would've occurred to me that what Carol & I do could be a good thing until I'd been exposed somehow to the concepts. I had no problem taking charge, I just didn't understand that I OUGHT to.


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I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 11:07:56 AM   
mommahkitten


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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 11:26:44 AM   
NihilusZero


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

any idea why he just didn't do that right from jumpstreet?

Probably because it takes about 20 years to get from "Jump Street" to here and now.


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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 3:24:40 PM   
Acer49


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ORIGINAL: mommahkitten

My ex, who i have prayed for years to finally learn to become Dominant, to become a Master now wants to learn how to become one. Yes he has a dominant personality, sometimes...
But i think he could full switch to dominant, but my question is, where do i look, how do i help him truly become a Master?

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First thing one must do is to Master themselves. You can assist him to become proficent at various play activites and you may assist by deferring various decions to him, showing you have faith and confidence in him

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/15/2009 7:21:08 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		I have known many a dominant "vanilla" man who is more dominant than any "dom". They just are... you are born that way... can't learn it in my book.

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RE: Question for the dear Masters - 10/16/2009 4:09:25 AM   
ranja


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ORIGINAL: mommahkitten

married - while to go before marriage
tattoo- definatly but only when serious
black marker- not fun when i show up at school with black marker on forehead


of course its fun...wear a bandanna... one has to be inventive at all times
good luck

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