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Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 3:23:58 PM   
exile509


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Status: offline 		joking with a potential sub turned into quite an interesting thought, so i figure i'd post it here:

How would you feel if a potential Dom/Master had you fill out a very detailed application to measure your worth as becoming his property? (think, of it more like a job application than a test)
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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 3:30:39 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I'd laugh at him and walk away. I wouldn't need to know anything else about him to know that we weren't a match.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 3:41:54 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		First I'd ask how much the job pays, and THEN I'd likely laugh in his face and walk away.  Cuz yanno, if he's paying the big bucks....

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 4:22:01 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		This wouldn't fly with me. I am not looking for a job. I am looking for a relationship. I would likely have my own application on hand to offer him/her to prove his/her worth as my dominant. Fair is fair after all and I am the one most likely at risk of my life in the hands of a wacko dominant. Oh, and let's also not forget that plenty of people look good on paper, but are worthless in the real world and vice versa. Man, I'm bitchy today!

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 4:23:09 PM   
WestBaySlave


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Status: offline 		I've gotten these messages a lot - they're not uncommon. I'm looking for a relationship first, not a career, so I politely decline, but frankly, if there are people who see it that way there's nothing wrong with them looking for that; it's just too cold and impersonal for me.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 4:50:23 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		A job huh? If Master did that we never have gotton a 2nd meeting. Mastet TALKED to me yes talked (what a novel idea lol). As a person first a sub 2nd. # days of talking over 16 hours kinda let us know we were on the same page as for what we were looking for. I got a job wanted a relationship and so did he.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 5:03:54 PM   
LadyChallene


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Status: offline 		Long after I have talked to someone, and I mean looong after, I have a list of things I ask to be filled out/in. But it is definitely not a job application. Just because I may not have someone in My life, does not mean I would ever put it out there that I was 'hiring'... that's just a really bad situation waiting to happen.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 5:26:04 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: exile509

joking with a potential sub turned into quite an interesting thought, so i figure i'd post it here:

How would you feel if a potential Dom/Master had you fill out a very detailed application to measure your worth as becoming his property? (think, of it more like a job application than a test)

It would not matter to me. Of course, I would have my own application and fair is fair you kow

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 5:35:24 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Being told to apply for a position would mean he had failed my test.
Like the others, a relationship cannot be determined by an online application.
We did it the old fashioned way, we talked and became friends first.

And by the way if he had thought of me as a potential slave, as a role, instead of as a unique person whom he wanted to get to know, then I would have realized early he didn't see me, he was looking for some fantasy come to life. And those don't exist.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 5:58:06 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I'd hand him the paper back, tell him I'm overqualified for the position but thanks for the interest and walk away.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:03:19 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		OooOOoo good answer!.
I would ask him to fill out this essay form on what his prior experience has been; and why he thinks his skills might qualify him as a master.

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I'd hand him the paper back, tell him I'm overqualified for the position but thanks for the interest and walk away.



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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:10:34 PM   
Acer49


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quote:

ORIGINAL: exile509

joking with a potential sub turned into quite an interesting thought, so i figure i'd post it here:

How would you feel if a potential Dom/Master had you fill out a very detailed application to measure your worth as becoming his property? (think, of it more like a job application than a test)


What do think they are doing now, communication is a verbal resume of your life, judged by both sides for compatibility

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:14:52 PM   
kallisto


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Status: offline 		If he's going to measure  my worth by what I put on a piece of paper, then I don't think he's worthy of my time it would take to fill the paper out.  

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:26:10 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

First I'd ask how much the job pays, and THEN I'd likely laugh in his face and walk away.  Cuz yanno, if he's paying the big bucks....

Cali



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I got 74c, Cali.  What kind of price is on you?


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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:29:09 PM   
snapdragon9


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Status: offline 		Sounds like a no fun, short situation for me. But I guess that's just my preference. I always want to know the person first, especially in the seeing them in person and experiencing their energy, attitudes, behaviors and all those processes that make up a person.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:32:25 PM   
daintydimples


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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:51:38 PM   
AnimusRex


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Status: offline 		Yeah it sounds pretty silly to me.
But then again, there are plenty of erotic things that appear silly if you aren't into them.

Filling out a "slave application" makes me think of the movie The Secretary, or Exit to Eden (the book, not the crappy movie) or all the erotic stories about "slave training camps", mysterious villas/ islands where girls are "forced" to become slave, yadda yadda. Being objectified, or being treated with cool detachment is a very common kink.

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 6:58:38 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: exile509


How would you feel if a potential Dom/Master had you fill out a very detailed application to measure your worth as becoming his property? (think, of it more like a job application than a test)
I feel like the relationship was going to be a job.

Considering Dom men outnumber sub women....how about he fills out the application to see if he's worthy of becoming my Dominant?

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/15/2009 11:13:19 PM   
AlexandraLynch


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Status: offline 		As a dominant female, I find dividing what I want (ideally in one sub) into three "roles", and posting the parameters of such very straightforwardly has gotten me more hits who went on to actually correspond and meet. I want to be friends with people, but if someone wants his primary role to be cleaning house or being beaten, I want to know, and that way I can find someone who can primarily be a bedslave, and that way everyone's happy. I recognize that mileage varies for those of you who are kinked differently. (grin) 

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RE: Now Accepting Applications For All Positions - 10/16/2009 12:44:11 AM   
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Funny, but I was filling out a "Service Resume" for myself just for the hell of it.....just to see what I could think of that I had skills and smarts at.  Actually there's quite a bit on it.  I remember two different Dominants when I was looking quite some time back asked me "Why do you think I should choose you to be my submissive?" and I just thought it might be worthwhile to write one up to get my thoughts in order on that, just for my own reasons.

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