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IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCanMeet... - 10/17/2009 7:58:47 AM   
blacklion


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Status: offline 		If You Are Over Weight How Do You Expect a Dom To Believe You Can Meet His Needs When You Neglect Your Own Health? If you are not willing to take pride in your own self how is any Dom to think you will take pride in serving him? Seems your Master would be Krispy Creame 
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:08:34 AM   
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:09:41 AM   
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:15:07 AM   
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:20:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		And the useful purpose that you posted this was....???

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:24:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		-- You know at first i wasnt going to reply to this but it made me think.

Yes, i am overweight. My weight realy has little to do with my need to serve or to be submissive. Two compleatly different things.
why wuldnt i be proud of myself just becuse i am overwight? The number on the scale realy dosent state my worth as a woman, as a human beeing, or as a submissive.
My Master chosed me for a reason. He did actualy see me before he desided he whanted me and he has yet to kick me out of bed for beeing overweight.

Now, do i need help with my weight. That depends. What is te reason? is it cuz 1, you find me unatractive, 2, it hinders how i serve or 3 it is a health risk? I desided (yes I) that i needed to loose weight when i started to feel limeted by it, when i feelt that it was effecting me. my master suported me in this but did not demand it of me.

It is a hell of alot more to a sumbissive woman (or man) than the number on the scale and honestly, this post speeks volumes about you as a person. i think you probably have loost out on alot of fantastic sumbissives in your day cuz of this attitude. n

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:30:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Some of us react differently to stress than others. For instance with a job loss, a dying mother and a sick sister and a break up, well I have become a little fluffier. But I would think if I had a dominant he would support me and help me through these hurdles and we would enhance each other. I have much more to offer than just my looks. Although I am still doing fine in that department.
But since I dont have a dominant, I am working on these issues on my own, for me.

But what do you have to offer any submissive? Are you a man of means who is diserving of a trophy doll? Do you have the intellect and control of a good dominant?

I doubt it. You seem as shallow as a puddle. How fitting that your twin brother is an ass.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 10/17/2009 8:34:33 AM >

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:32:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ohhh, you so have to love the narrow minded prejudice people. I have never had trouble serving my Dominant. Actually, it may surprise you that some men enjoy larger women, even seek them out. According to your assumption, does that make them less of a Dominant or a man for that matter? Weight has no bearing on a desire to serve or submit. Your attitude, perceptions, and ego could well be why you find yourself alone currently.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:40:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Why did I post this one ...simple...To provoke a discussion and low and behold it did just that. It really does not mater what I post at this point. The regulars will look upon my posts in a negitive light. I applaud you little one ( matt) for being bold enough to step up and share your view...I know it was not easy..however  the differene bentween the scaed and the brave is the brave do it anyway. I do not personally have issues with the 65% of the population who are over weight...in fact the company of hard bodies I find to be more superficial...yet on the flip side there isa point when I see a 400 plus pounder at walmart zippingabout on a slob sled..that is unacceptable to me...then back to the thin mint side of things  shapely women use their ASSets  such at a strip club or hooters.....I would not pay to have some c breasted  self proclaiemd hotty try to milk me like a sow for the business. Now.....my question was on the up and up......the shotat me at the end of your post was in poor taste as I did not single out anyone it was a over all inquiry. you are pitchin g people im winding up my bat let it fly :)

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:42:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I supected you were trolling for a reaction but this subject is way overdone and it puts you in a bad light. There are also much more gratifying and deeper topics to explore.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:45:45 AM   
blacklion


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Status: offline 		and so it begins.............typical trend everyone gang up on little ol me....why has this become personal rather than a simple discussion of someone not caring enough about themselves to want to be able to see their own toes?

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:47:32 AM   
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:49:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: blacklion

...yet on the flip side there isa point when I see a 400 plus pounder at walmart zippingabout on a slob sled..that is unacceptable to me......?...

Actually, I agree with you on this particular point. Seeing men or women too lazy to walk around WalMart to get some small amount of exercise annoys and angers me. Being a large woman myself, I am quite active, and it truly disgusts me to see their apparent laziness. You were right on the mark with your intent to stir up a discussion, just not so sure you will get the type of results you desire from it. I agree with luscious, there are many other topics, that have not been beat to death than someone being overweight.
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ORIGINAL: blacklion
...why has this become personal rather than a simple discussion of someone not caring enough about themselves to want to be able to see their own toes?...


I can actually see my toes, tie my shoes in the middle (not on the side), and place my palms completely on the floor in front of me without bending my knees. Not all overweight people are inflexible, unattractive, or unsexy.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:49:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

I supected you were trolling for a reaction but this subject is way overdone and it puts you in a bad light. There are also much more gratifying and deeper topics to explore.


I suspect he was just rejected by an overweight woman. The guy's profile is a real hoot.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:52:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've said this before and I'll say it again here.  It has nothing to do with health.  Most men would bang an asthmatic leper with swine flu if she was enough of a hotty.

Your little friend in your avatar is kinda cute, though.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:55:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		You have an ass in your photo, now you figure out which one of the two I am speaking of. You do not like over weight women, well more than likely they do not like you either. People are individuals, all very different in many ways. Just because you do not like something does not mean another man will feel the same.

Personally I like my men and women with meat on their bones that is MY opinion. When I see a 400 lb. person I sometimes wonder what brought them to be that weight. Disease? Oh yeah there are plenty of them that cause weight gain. A medication? Yep lots of those cause weight gain. Or maybe it is they just eat too much and do not exercise. However that last tidbit is a CHOICE the previous ones (disease, medication) are not and I am sure if the previous two could be of normal weight they certainly would choose to be so.

So next time you judge someone on their looks, how about looking at yourself? I am sure there are a few things there that women would find unattractive, inside and out.

Good luck,
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:55:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: blacklion

and so it begins.............typical trend everyone gang up on little ol me....why has this become personal rather than a simple discussion of someone not caring enough about themselves to want to be able to see their own toes?


If you have a victim mentality how is that dominant?


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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 8:57:02 AM   
blacklion


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Status: offline 		ISee your opinion and I raise you my own..........over done? hmm Since this is my first post on such a topic  it is rare to me not over done at all. However I will agree with you there are more topics to have at. At this moment tho I am on this one. Surely you must know it matters not to me in the slightest what light I am  cast in. Tho I do look really good under a 60 watt. 

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:00:20 AM   
blacklion


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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:02:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: blacklion

I do not personally have issues with the 65% of the population who are over weight...in fact the company of hard bodies I find to be more superficial...yet on the flip side there isa point when I see a 400 plus pounder at walmart zippingabout on a slob sled..that is unacceptable to me...then back to the thin mint side of things  shapely women use their ASSets  such at a strip club or hooters.....I would not pay to have some c breasted  self proclaiemd hotty try to milk me like a sow for the business.


bl,  I quoted this little snip of your post in order to ask my own question of you.  You state you have no issues with those who are overweight but then you go on to draw attention to, and I'll quote again, " yet on the flip side there isa point when I see a 400 plus pounder at walmart zippingabout on a slob sled..that is unacceptable to me". My question to you is, did this person ASK to be your sub or serve you in any way?  If yes, and you have no interest in this person, decline their request.  If no, what does this example have to do with the topic at hand?

Speaking of topics...this is a dead horse that has been beaten more than once.  If you truly were interested in only started a discussion you could have done your homework and used the search feature to see how this topic has been brought up in the past and have an understanding of how to formulate a question so as not to flame or cause defensive responses.  Unless, of course, your reason for posting was to cause a war of words and come across as a troll, which given your other posts seems to be the case. 



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