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xssve -> RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another man (10/29/2009 9:43:18 AM)
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As I say, there are myriad reasons for sharing a woman from both the identification and objectification standpoints.
From an identification standpoint, multiple partners is a very common female fantasy, as common among women as it is among men, and in this instance, the dom is acting as facilitator, "making you" do it.
Feelings of inadequacy is another possibility - a strong possibility in this case, i.e., the OP, I'm guessing - it need not mean physical inadequacy, but perhaps he feel as if he's not fulfilling you emotionally.
Otherwise, there are other reasons: he may feel gratified to see you satiated, it can be a form of male bonding, or social bonding in general, etc. i.e., not just for males, it's sometimes an element in gang initiations, and presumably healthier than random acts of violence, polyandry is not uncommon in martial cultures or cultures under harsh environmental stressors, Eskimos, for example.
In the same sense, there are myriad reasons from an objectification standpoint, male bonding works in that respect too, i.e., men often bond by objectifying women verbally, and this can be an extension of that. In another sense, jealousy may be the desired outcome, i.e., it makes him feel more territorial and possessive, and gratifying that even after fucking other men, you still stay with him - from another POV, it might be confronting his worst fears about abandonment a way or testing his doubts about you, and or/ increasing emotional investment through emotional distancing - contradictory seeming, but in some ways it might make him feel closer to you, particularly if he has more sexual experience than you.
From a female perspective, as welll as being a common fantasy, in some senses, it might also be a way for the female to bond with more than one male - from a biological viewpoint, very few mammals are genuinely monogamous, and most female mammals in their fertile phase will typically pair with more than one male; it provides the benefit greater genetic diversity in her offspring, while maintaining a relationship with at least one nurturing male during her off peak - which is quite possibly the source of the urge to begin with.
Pimping, in the literal sense, is generally strictly about economics, whereas even objectification is more likely to very much have an underlying emotional motive.
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