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Rochsub2009 -> RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another man (11/7/2009 8:09:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: lacyshadows
why does my master want to have sex w another man so that he can watch? why does he get off of this and is not jealous? i will do it i jsut want tunerstand why.
Lots of people have responded to this thread, but i have a perspective that is a bit different, so i thought i'd share it.
Personally, it think this is one of the most delicate and questionable areas of D/s relationships. There are so many psychological effects that can occur because of it. It is a path that should be walked delicately and with complete agreement by all parties involved. It is not a scene that should be forced. i know that some Doms/Dommes think that exercising "complete control" over their property is a right that They possess. i don't agree. Particularly in this area.
i was once asked to perform in a scene like this. i was serving a Domme who also had 2 female subs. i had met the female subs before, but had never been asked to participate in a scene with either of them. Well, one day my Domme told me that She wanted to see me play with one of Her female subs.
At the appointed time, i showed up and was taken to the dungeon where the female sub was already there naked. My Domme gave a big speech about how She was going to make the female sub a "slave to black cock". She proceeded to command the female sub to beg me to f*ck her with my "big black cock".
Two things struck me immediately. Firstly, my Domme had not asked me for any type of STD report, nor had She provided me with one for the female sub. Secondly, She did not provide any condoms. This made me greatly concerned.
As the scene progressed, the female sub began to cry. She cried as she begged for my "big black cock", and she cried even harder when Mistress instructed me to take her. She was crying and shaking uncontrollably. i expected my Mistress to bring the scene to a halt, but She simply sat back and waited for the scene to unfold.
Perhaps the submissive female had expressed an interest in being with a black male, and my Domme was merely trying to fulfill her fantasy. However, this just didn't feel right. The uncontrollable crying made it feel like rape. i don't know the exact legal ramifications of an incident like this, but i didn't want to find out.
i grabbed the female sub from behind (my Domme had made her get on all fours, and told me to take her doggy style), expecting my Domme to bring the scene to a halt. But She didn't. So i did. i refused to continue with the scene.
My concerns for both of our health (due to potential STD's) was secondary to the mental scarring that i thought might result from this act. The female sub was literally shaking and bawling. i also feared a resultant rape charge.
i would recommend that any Doms/Dommes who are into this type of scene make sure that the subs who are involved are completely in agreement with it. Otherwise, it seems uncomfortably close to rape. Also, please be cautious about the physical health of Your subs. Make sure that condoms are used 100% of the time. Using a sub as a "breeder" is a fantasy. It is not something that should actually be attempted with some of the deadly STD's that are out there.
Sorry for the long message, but i thought this experience was worth sharing. IMO, some fantasies should strictly remain fantasies.
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