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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 1:17:18 AM

Annabelle83

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Well, I met Master and his other slave through a local BDSM group. It was funny how it happened I suppose those.

Back when I was married to my first husband, he was interested in the lifestyle and I just thought he was crazy. He even invited a girl from the group over for a threesome - which that part I did not mind, but the rest I just scoffed at. I joined the yahoo group but never posted or anything.

Go about 6 months down the road and I was seperated from my husband - I found the yahoo group. I posted. There were the first couple of male dominants who started talking to me - and eventually one convinced me to come to a meet n greet. This was for the off shoot of the main group in town as I was too young to go to the other. I actually met Master that night - although it would be 3 years before I even had more than a couple of conversations with him.

But yeah, local groups are good apparantly. Master met his first slave there, as well as his other submissive.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 2:58:00 AM

Elizabeth666

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I'm loving all the stories! Thanks everyone :)

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 3:03:11 AM

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We are another couple that met on Collarme.
After our first (vanilla) date i decided we were not compatible because i could not get him to crack a smile the entire evening.
So i married him.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 5:30:21 AM

andreaC

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I met Master on FSS channel (IRC) 8 yrs ago...started to talk online and telephone then we met in real back in 2004 and now 5 yrs later, i am living with Master in Norway :)

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 5:35:46 AM

fluffyswitch

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i met Him on here actually two years ago this month. it'll be a year on halloween that He collared me. October seems to be a big month for us.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 6:13:13 AM

ranja

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I met him from this site, the message boards. We both joined within five days of each other back in 2005 and he noticed me here on the boards very early on, probably within a few months from when I started posting. I had no clue he existed. He figured out what my real name was through bits of info I posted and proceeded to physically find me in real life, still without me having any clue that he existed. He watched me for about two years physically (the freak sat in my driveway) and online before he started making posts here directed towards me. I started noticing him at that point and viewed his profile. He then proceeded to email me, we hit it off, physically met a few months later in a Lowes parking lot and are now headed towards a 24/7 relationship.

should that happen to me i might want to be flattered but i think it would seriously freak me out....

i met mine when he walked into my bar... i served him, we talked about marriage and ended up skinny dipping in the hotel pool, 4 months later i moved in with him.
That was about 19 years ago... we did not really take up bdsm till 2 years ago...

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 6:34:49 AM

devilishpixie

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I meet my master on CM, after me starting several e-mails to him and chickening out. He contacted me. lol

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 7:05:27 AM

Aileen1968

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ranja

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I met him from this site, the message boards. We both joined within five days of each other back in 2005 and he noticed me here on the boards very early on, probably within a few months from when I started posting. I had no clue he existed. He figured out what my real name was through bits of info I posted and proceeded to physically find me in real life, still without me having any clue that he existed. He watched me for about two years physically (the freak sat in my driveway) and online before he started making posts here directed towards me. I started noticing him at that point and viewed his profile. He then proceeded to email me, we hit it off, physically met a few months later in a Lowes parking lot and are now headed towards a 24/7 relationship.

should that happen to me i might want to be flattered but i think it would seriously freak me out....

Not a highly recommended method of courtship...
I should have been freaked out and called the cops, but I didn't. We laugh at that all of the time.
My gut instinct about him told me that he was the perfect man for me. And he is.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 8:44:19 AM

littleone35

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I met Master here on CM. After i joined got a many many msgs some i was even interested in enough to respond to. I me a few Doms but no spark. I then got a one line msg from Master "What part of NY do you live in?" I told him and we realized we were ony a few towns away from each other. We talked my e mail then phone and then met. Instant spark been close to 4 years now and we are still going strong.

Matt's littleone

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 6:41:37 PM

MasterTslave

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I hired Him to work for me....and from there, i flirted with Him a bunch until i gave up...and when i did, He decided that maybe it was His turn to flirt with me...and we've been together from that point on...just love Him :)

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/19/2009 9:22:13 PM

curiousINct

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We met here, in person a month later. That was over a year ago. Life is good.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/20/2009 5:29:23 AM

slaveluci

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We met here but not on the forums. I was in WV and He was in AR. He sent me a message one day in response to my profile. We began chatting on IM and I told Him flat out I wasn't looking for anything serious. We ended up chatting all day, then the phone calls began. Six weeks later, I drove the 800 miles to AR to spend a week in a hotel and get to know Him. The rest is magical history

The following year, I moved to Him permanently and we just celebrated our first wedding anniversary in May. So much for not wanting anything serious

luci

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/20/2009 8:10:36 AM

TheGaggingWh0re

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Master and I met in a roleplaying chatroom, LOL! It was on yahoo. I still remember because I was playing a slave character and he a Master character. We hit it offer rp-wise immediately! I talked to him OOCly (out of character) about how much I enjoyed our rp and how I wish I could take pain like my character did. That comment definitely spiked his interest!

It's been years (9 or 10, we both were young!) since I had become his slave, and we have lived together for about a year and a half.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/20/2009 11:23:31 PM

NuevaVida

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci

So much for not wanting anything serious

Hee hee, loved this.

He & I met on CM (not the forums). He emailed me, I said I wasn't interested in a relationship, but thanked him for writing, as his email was one of the better ones I had received here. He noted that I wasn't interested, and continued to email me, and I continued to reply.

Then we talked and talked on the phone, then met for dinner, then another dinner, then I went to his place, then he came to mine... He has met my mother and I adore his daughter, and we're all having Thanksgiving together, with the rest of my very big family. We have talked of living together when the timing is right (for his daughter).

So much for not wanting a relationship.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/21/2009 5:26:49 AM

SubOnlyForHim

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Sir and i met about 6 1/2 years ago through Sir's (now ex) wife. She was trying to get me to have a threesome with her and another man, then said well her husband might be around, we could just make it a 4some. W/we ended up making it a twosome...

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/22/2009 11:40:56 AM

AquaticSub

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We met at a college party and had a class together that semester. We were friends were years before starting to date, with him even telling me that he would never date me at one point during our friendship. That made for a great story during the wedding toasts...

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/22/2009 12:16:53 PM

GabrielleSlave

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Sir and i met on a single parent dating website lol! He was only looking for friendship.... been together nearly three years now and still hopelessly in love lol!

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/22/2009 3:09:55 PM

lizi

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We met here on CM. I had just signed up and he was the first person to contact me. We met in RL 2 weeks later on Valentines Day and went to a college basketball game. I liked him a lot but was still looking around talking to and seeing other prospects. We got together to play a month after our first date and I was hooked. At that point I said goodbye to everyone else and we went on from there.

It's been difficult at times. We haven't always been sure of what to do with our relationship or where it would go. We both had our times of thinking it wasn't right and perhaps we should forget each other and move on. After those times we reconsidered, talked things through, tried again, and somehow ended up giving the other what they wanted or needed to make it solid.
I was collared to him last Sunday.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/23/2009 9:14:28 PM

HisBestGirl

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Daddy and I met through CM, although not the boards. I noticed his profile photo and thought to myself "Damn, he's exactly my type..." I also liked his profile and how he mentions his penchant for correct grammar (he doesn't go in for the capitalisation of references to himself etc) and how he had a particular fondness for short, curvy and older women.

I sent him an email saying I was both short and curvy (though younger than him) and he responded, tongue in cheek, that two out of three was indeed quite sufficient. We spoke on the phone for two weeks or so, then met up one night after work to 'watch movies'. We have been pretty much inseparable since then. It will be 2 yrs since we first met in February 2010.

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RE: How did you meet? - 10/29/2009 8:08:38 PM

slaveJezabel

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7 years ago thru alt dot com.

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