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LanceHughes -> RE: Any older subs out there? (10/18/2009 9:26:25 AM)
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What Jeff said ------+
I'll add that you don't seem very confident. subs in general are looking for experienced, skillful, confident Doms because they are sometimes afraid to put themselves into the hands of someone that might not know how to handle a sub. Here's an example of the confusion you are showing: This thread is titled "Any older subs out there?" but then you start with an OP that asks: "is there a place in this scene for a Mature Dom?" Two very different questions..... age does NOT equal maturity and vice versa.
You seem to think that your age some how cancels out your relative inexperience and makes you a Dom.
I'll be 60 in March and have had all ages "under my hand." I have been in the scene for more than 25 years and am still learning. Did you go to the clubs mentioned in your profile as a "troll" (somebody looking for a quick pick-up) or did you go there to learn what BDSM is all about and start to make a relationship happen? I'm guessing the former.... You should continue to go to those clubs.... You speak of them in the "been there, done that" tone of voice.
As many new-bies here do, you seem to think cruising thru here will get you a slave to your specs. (Newbie is the correct term in your case, joined less than a month ago, 4 posts to date.) ::: sigh ::: Get some non-fiction and READ it and/or READ some of the strings in the archives. And please stop whining.
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