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slaveluci -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 5:07:31 PM)
~FR~ I'm bisexual and enjoy watching both men and women (that I'm interested in) masturbate. It can be so erotic to just watch and I also agree with above posters who say that just because they're pleasuring themselves, that doesn't mean I'm totally uninvolved. I love helping things along by, for instance, licking and sucking Master's balls while He strokes off. Mmmmmm, gawd that is hot[;)] Having Him or someone else give themselves pleasure while I "assist" in various ways is one of the most fun things to do..........luci

DrkJourney -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 5:10:10 PM)
I don't like watching for watching sake. (so all the ones that might be eyeing this thread taking names so that we can watch them on cam....don't bother contacting me...lol) I'm not sure if I like watching mine, so much as I like the power surge I feel "making" him do it. I love the fact that he's humiliated. He can't make eye contact, but he know's I'm watching him...commenting, or walking around him. whew...it got hot in here....damn him and his deployment....lol power, I like the power....gotta go....lol

MsD -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 5:12:24 PM)
loaded question [:D] ok, ok, seriously ... watching hubby masturbate to a porn movie, turn off ... watching hubby masturbate while I masturbate, turn ON ... watching hubby masturbate while I play with My girl (back when I had one), HUGE turn on ... (yes, he's a man & will masturbate to just about anything LOL) ... watching My girl put on a masturbation show at My command, another HUGE turn on [;)] edited to add: I'm in agreement with DrkJourney - the humiliation factor, the POWER is a huge factor. The more a girl blushes, is embarrased at being watched, the bigger the turn on!

MsRose -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 5:16:59 PM)
As long as he's doing it on command and I'm there to watch him, then I enjoy it immensely - especially if he feels embarrassed and/or he's forced to do it into a bowl/cup...

sodsta -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 5:19:22 PM)
I don't think I would find watching anyone masturbate sexy. Male or female. Doesn't hold any interest for me. :S

BeingChewsie -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 5:22:21 PM)
Quick reply: I find it very hot and erotic to watch a man masturbate. I especially like watching when he is not thinking about or looking at me...don't know why but that really flips my switch.

hardbodysub -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 8:17:48 PM)
Watching a woman masturbate is not a turn-on for me. Her use of another person is. Her use of a device such as a fucking machine, vibrator or dildo ... maybe.

NihilusZero -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 9:10:11 PM)
Definite turn on. The intensity and raw vulnerability of having someone (sometimes, necessarily with my pep-talking help) surrender to their sexual energies to where they are absorbed in the pure tactile pleasure is the sexual equivalent to how fulfilling it is to get to the darkest corners of someone's psyche and have them trust enough to let you peek in. Perhaps an argument can be made that watching a stranger engage in it is an unmotivating experience, but I can't fathom how anyone who has any sort of genuine emotive thirst for their partner wouldn't salivate just at the emotional energies of watching them be in such an unveiled, erotic, and open state.

NormalOutside -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 9:12:30 PM)
I prefer watching her do it "by hand", not that using a toy or shower head etc would be a turnoff. :) I love seeing her to it, um, her way. However feels best to her. Everybody does it slightly differently and it's the personal variations that make it even sexier imo.

Aanakaris -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 9:26:54 PM)
Having a sub take my hands and use them to masturbate with, while under orders that she cannot touch herself is a real turn on. Watching a woman masturbate is a turn-on, what really gets me going is watching as she plays with her breasts.

mydestiny2043 -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/18/2009 11:50:09 PM)
no.no,and no again.Doesn't do a thing for me.But if that's what he wants that's what he gets[:)].

Annabelle83 -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 1:37:57 AM)
I am the type of person who loves to watch people do anything if they do not think that they are being watched. I dont like having a "show" put on for me. But I love watching either sex masturbate - if they dont know I am watching! :D

ranja -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 1:54:09 AM)
yes, i like watching aswell watching Him wank while He's watching me wank watching while He looks at me and jacks off telling me what to do or me assisting Him while He wanks Even watching Him while he wanks over porn and seems totally uninterested in me... it all depends on my mindset though, as with all sex what works one time might not necessarily flow the next.

AlexandraLynch -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 3:12:39 AM)
I enjoy watching, but only if I'm involved in some way. Especially if there's one of the more evil masturbation games involved.

LadyPact -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 3:49:37 AM)
I don't think this was part of the original, but since a lot of folks mentioned it, I will, too. Watching females masturbate doesn't do a thing for Me. Sorry, but I'm straight. Watching males can do something for Me, depending on a few factors. The physical demonstration doesn't matter to Me nearly as much as what is happening mentally. If I'm what's between the ears, what's happening between the legs is a lot more interesting. Next, it's not going to interest Me unless it's someone that I have an intimate connection with. Joe Blow whacking off on cam would put Me to sleep. Someone who's cock that I know I enjoy or control, that will turn Me on. Also, it has to be done in the way I direct it. I am very vocal about what I want to see in My voyeurism. Do it how I say and exactly the way I describe. If it's just someone rubbing one out, it there's no turn on in it for Me.

Acer49 -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 3:59:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Men: Loaded question, I know. I am assuming most men do enjoy watching a woman pleasure herself, based on my own experiences. My question is this: Is there such a thing as a woman (who you find attractive) masturbating that is a turn OFF? The method she does it, whatever? is the act itself generally erotic, even if she, for example, may feel her methods aren't "that sexy"? How specific is this arousal to you - ie, is it more of a turn on to see her using her own hands vs. using a vibrator -- how much of it is how much of a "show" she is putting on for you? Women: Same question. Do you like to watch men (you find attractive and/or are involved with) masturbate? Does the method he use impact the "show" for you - ie, could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot? Akasha The women I have been involved with were pretty shy about masturbation.When I required them to do so, it would make them a little uncomfortable which brought control aspect to the forefont which did have some allure to it. I never pushed too often, just every now and again

slaveluci -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 5:18:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero Perhaps an argument can be made that watching a stranger engage in it is an unmotivating experience, but I can't fathom how anyone who has any sort of genuine emotive thirst for their partner wouldn't salivate just at the emotional energies of watching them be in such an unveiled, erotic, and open state. Totally agreed. Give yourself some points[:)] luci

Domitianus -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 5:40:17 AM)
For me, it is not so much just the visual of the girl masturbarting. It is that she's doing it to please me because I 'requested' it of her. My girl is uncomfortable and very self-conscious about touching herself when someone is present, though being ordered to do so is a complete turn on for her. So when I demand it of her, it is for multiple reasons...my simple pleasure in watching her obey in a manner that rewards her efforts, the increased comfort and confidence she gains about touching herself by doing it (practice makes perfect, and all), and allowing her the pleasure of having to do something she would not volunteer to do on her own.

ranja -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 5:53:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveluci quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero Perhaps an argument can be made that watching a stranger engage in it is an unmotivating experience, but I can't fathom how anyone who has any sort of genuine emotive thirst for their partner wouldn't salivate just at the emotional energies of watching them be in such an unveiled, erotic, and open state. Totally agreed. Give yourself some points[:)] luci yes i agree with that too... my experience is that many people are not very open... so they simply might not be open to seeing the sexiness in someone else being open, even if the someone else is their own partner... I have heard quite a few women complain about their man wanking... as if it would mean she is not good enough for him... i think many women suffer insecurity about the issue, about the watching and the being watched... i think most men are much more comfortable with it. I have to say my own sexual tastes have definitely matured over the years and there are things now i would not have found even slightly attractive when i was young but think are totally hot now. being open to it is the key

IronBear -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/19/2009 5:54:10 AM)
It really depends who is involved. I enjoy watching a woman masturbate or be masturbated by a male or female just as I can enjoy watching a male masturbate or being masturbated by a woman or another man. If we are involved in a cuckolding scene or just a threesome it just adds to the enjoyment. Walking into to a room and seeing a stranger or strangers masturbating I'll walk out to leave them to their fun and forget about it unless it is something out of the ordinary.

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