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sunshinemiss -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/20/2009 4:43:15 PM)

Hmmmm... well Aakasha, just watching is dreadfully boring, but if there is interaction, not boring. 

Taunting, teasing, whimpering, begging, bukkaki, humiliation.... involvement... ohhh mm hmmm.  yum.



ranja -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/21/2009 2:19:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shirowantami

I guess both. Kinda meant more with the hands, though. I mean if your going to break speculums out it's probably intended that you both like it


What nonsense... oh the things i do to myself...
.... and where is the cock picture gone?



Level -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/21/2009 4:04:25 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

For those of you who enjoy it, do they have to be able to orgasm?


No, but it is preferred.



skinnykitten -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/21/2009 11:04:12 PM)

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Perhaps an argument can be made that watching a stranger engage in it is an unmotivating experience, but I can't fathom how anyone who has any sort of genuine emotive thirst for their partner wouldn't salivate just at the emotional energies of watching them be in such an unveiled, erotic, and open state.


What he said [;)] 

Male or female, it's beyond hot...  Oddly enough, I'd find it significantly less so if it was being done to porn as opposed to real-life shenanigans or whatever's going on in his/her mind.



MistressMeltz -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 1:27:15 PM)

A girl gettin all riled up by herself is always hot! Cant think of any particular way it needs to be done



porcelaine -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 4:17:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Women: Same question. Do you like to watch men (you find attractive and/or are involved with) masturbate?  Does the method he use impact the "show" for you - ie, could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?


Aakasha,

i find male masturbation to be quite enjoyable when it involves some element of torture. an ideal situation would include a second party that would be male with forcible situations occurring. that's my demented mind speaking. of course i could never expect such from my Owner so mere strokage with the appropriate teasing would be fine. however, the first is really nice if both are straight. [;)]

porcelaine



OneMoreWaste -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 6:58:31 PM)

I think watching a woman masturbate (thank you to everyone who spelled it properly, THANK YOU) would be extremely hot. Especially if there was some sort of skin-to-skin contact involved; not necessarily intimate, just a touch of her skin (one of those "energy" things).

Not interested in men, no interest in watching them.



Venatrix -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 7:26:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Women: Same question. Do you like to watch men (you find attractive and/or are involved with) masturbate?  Does the method he use impact the "show" for you - ie, could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?

Akasha



For me?  It's ALWAYS hot.



DianeB269 -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 7:29:36 PM)

Turn OFF.....


Diane



abuddingdom -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 9:32:46 PM)

How did I miss this thread?

I don't deny permission to my pretty one to masturbate, I've learned that denial isn't healthy for her. I do sometimes assign her to masturbate, & sometimes assign her a specific fantasy. By and large she's free to masturbate anytime but every now and again she'll ask permission to masturbate. Sometimes I give her permission and just go about my business while she does it, closeby or not. Sometimes she asks permission after we're in bed then I pay closer attention(except I've fallen asleep a couple times, what can I say?)and  sometimes I even get involved, though most often just with my voice. 

A lot of "sometimes" in that paragraph. One " now&again", & one " most often"......  

Watching someone masturbate, though I have partaken of it, has never been a kink of mine. I do enjoy it though, and enjoy it even more during roleplay, especially forceplay.



abuddingdom -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 9:34:56 PM)

Heh!  I'm with DomImus : fucking ALways trunps masturbation for me............



idroolchicksrule -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/29/2009 11:46:57 PM)

To the OP:
The only way I would find female masturbation unsexy is if she was diddling her skittle to a picture of George W Bush or the Pope.
Hell, even the Pope is forgivable...



Rhodes85 -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/30/2009 12:40:11 AM)

'The only way I would find female masturbation unsexy is if she was diddling her skittle to a picture of George W Bush or the Pope. '

It could be worse....it could be janet reno or judge judy (all I can say is she better wash that gavel between tapings of her show) [:D]

But no, watching anyone masturbate doesn't do anything for me. Why watch? I'd rather be involved.



tornaway -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/30/2009 3:50:13 PM)

  Hm-m , yes .  Something about a man with nice strong hands , holding his own cock that gets to me .   That said , I like watching women as well .

   Also enjoy watching people's faces change , twist , and contort in mindless pleasure  !    Very nice .  



blackcat39 -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/31/2009 2:59:54 AM)

depends on your mood.  If your in the mood for sex, its more interesting than if you are in an ::asexual, wow, that is taking a long time::  type of mood.  Sex can be boring, even with hot women.  Dead fishes come to mind.  Please don't just lie there and moan....

I prefer a woman who actually moves a little, bump and grind, bump and grind.  ;0  Although this does take more energy....



abuddingdom -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (10/31/2009 1:40:04 PM)

tornaway - I totally agree with the last two sentences. I love doing that myself.......



MissBeautiful2U -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (11/2/2009 8:52:59 AM)

I absolutely LOVE to watch... and even more to control the pace of it, sometimes the technique.  It all depends.  The reaction of the one who is masturbating is what is arousing to me.  I love to see someone get closer and closer and yet struggle not to cum while they go closer to that edge and then watching the pleasure overwhelm them.  Very very yummy.  I prefer in person and with someone with whom I have a connection, but it is arousing for me to see videos or others playing with whom I am not involved.



sweetcheeksbbw -> RE: Watching someone masturbate (11/2/2009 11:52:42 AM)

You can learn alot about a man by the way he handles his cock.  Does he stay to the head?  Does he play with his balls?  I like to watch before we are together so that I know how to please him when/if that times comes.  (wink)



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