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subtee -> I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:23:31 PM)
Or the folks and family don't have good feelings about me and will make life harder...I don't wanna get married. But I don't know how to hold out on this...where are you my peeps? Help lil bit please

GreedyTop -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:27:29 PM)
tacklemolesticates da gorgeous Tee Sorry, hon.. I got nothin... (well, except for major gropage,.....)

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:29:39 PM)
Oh good grief ya hotness...miss you a bunch

lusciouslips19 -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:31:24 PM)
Get married. Why shouldnt you be a miserable as everyone else???[:D] *smooches

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:32:26 PM)
Sexy person! You are married Or I should sic the fam on you next?

Daddysredhead -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:33:00 PM)
Hi there. I don't know about your situation, but letting other people run your life doesn't seem very wise. I wish you well during your difficult time. Red

Level -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:33:44 PM)
Why the pressure to get hitched?? And if you do not want to...that's the answer. There's a reason you feel that way.

GreedyTop -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:35:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee Oh good grief ya hotness...miss you a bunch I miss you too, you delicious example of female yumminess!!

GoddessImaginos -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:36:05 PM)
"I'm a duck and all my friends are ducks and we all like to fuck a duck... so we are friendly fuckaduck ducks Lockit" Fuck fuck fuck a duck Screw a kangaroo Fingerbang an orangutang It's Orgy At The Zoo!!! [:D] No really, if you're in love and trust with your SO, that's one thing, but here are two more: 1) do not get married to satisfy anyone's indelicate sensibilities but your own and your SO's, and this includes parents and family, even if they really do care about you, and 2) do not get married until the SO and you decide you're in enough love and trust and are ready to do so, and not before. It's your life, honey, period.

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:36:16 PM)
Oh you're one of the bestest reds...always hotted you...no, not good for them to decide for me, but then again, there is a certain amount of suckness in being alone too. I been doing lil bit vanilla and those mens don't even get a subbie, ya know? They are confused.

soul2share -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:39:08 PM)
When the subject comes up with me, and it's not just family....I simply tell them that I love not having to answer to anyone, that I can spend my money the way I want, I can go where ever I want whenever I want......and I'm not giving up my freedom. My married friends get real jealous when they hear that explanation! Or there's this one that seems to work for me....."I AM looking for my Mr, Right....I want one that's rich and old, one foot in the grave, one on a banana peel, and I'm gonna take him out on the wedding night on the downstroke!" Say it seriously, and no one knows if you're kidding or not, and they change the subject really fast! [:D]

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:40:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Why the pressure to get hitched?? And if you do not want to...that's the answer. There's a reason you feel that way. God I miss you peoples. I don't want to get married. I don't see the reason or benefit. I don't love being alone but fuck me for a sell out too. Did you decide not to get married? Did it hurt your family?

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:41:26 PM)
No SO Goddess, no plans...

InvisibleBlack -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:42:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee I don't wanna get married. If you don't want to get married then you should not get married. Getting married to make the family happy or comfortable or to make someone else feel better isn't the answer. If you and your SO don't both want to be married, then my advice is to stay single and together and until you're both comfortable with the idea and looking forward to it. Besides, no one wants to be told "I married you to make my parents feel better."

lusciouslips19 -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:42:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee Sexy person! You are married Or I should sic the fam on you next? Im in pergatory. Not married, but not legally divorced

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:44:00 PM)
Hahahhahhha! I love it! Awesome answer, but...I'm old and they don"t wanna wait much anymore. Should I just do it? Just get married and figure it out later? That's against all my instincts, but I'm weary

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:46:28 PM)
You're right, InvisibleBlack, and yet, I feel the passage of time and how much family means in all of it. It's not insignificant and what else I got going on is work. No SO. so.

VampiresLair -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:47:32 PM)
I was in one marriage that was because everyone was pressuring me to "be married" becasue I was the only chance our side of the family would have anyone to move to with my brother being gay. So, I met and married my first husband. Disaster ensued, because I married him not because I loved him but because I wanted to be married. Unless you are in love with someone, marriage is going to lead to a lot of expensive disasters and then misery. Tell your family that you would rather be alone then married to someone you dont live, and it takes time to find that perfect someone. If they are patient and give you a chance, you might find them. DV

subtee -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:48:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: subtee Sexy person! You are married Or I should sic the fam on you next? Im in pergatory. Not married, but not legally divorced But Lucious, you gotta love person, yes?

littlewonder -> RE: I guess I gotta get married? (10/18/2009 8:48:21 PM)
Do what you wanna do, not what everyone else wants you to do. Marriage for me is a sacred act and not something to be taken lightly. Get married because it's in your heart, not because you think that's what you should do.

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