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Rochsub2009 -> RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? (10/31/2009 11:07:06 AM)
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i know that i am a bit late to this party, but i thought i would add a few thought to the discussion.
i don't consider myself to be a slave, but i am a sub. i was a 24/7 sub for my last Domme for a reasonable period of time (1.5 years). i'd like to offer some of my experiences in that relationship to the originator of this thread. i've noticed that many of the responses that you've received have been harsh and attacking (although filled with truth). Here is a different perspective from a sub who has been where you are.
There was a local Domme that i was very interested in serving. i wrote to Her on multiple occasions, but She never showed any particular interest in me. Finally, i saw Her at a local BDSM event. This was my first time seeing Her in real life. i approached Her. i was very cordial, and apologized for interrupting Her. Once She said that it was okay, i introduced myself and reminded Her that W/we had corresponded before. She remembered, and referenced some of our conversations.
Because i was truly interested in serving Her, i had continued to follow Her journal even though She had never invited me to serve Her. In Her journal, She had mentioned that She needed some carpet work done. i had written to Her to let Her know that i had skills in that area, but She hadn't yet responded. So when i saw Her in person, i asked Her if She had ever gotten Her carpets fixed. She said "no", and i reminded Her that i would be happy to fix them for Her. She acknowledged my offer, but She did not accept it. i offered to refill Her drink, and She allowed me to do so. She then dismissed me. That was the end of our interaction for the evening.
A few days later, i received an e-mail from Her. She asked me if i would come and look at Her carpets and tell Her what it would cost to fix it. i showed up at Her house exactly when She requested, and examined Her carpets. i told Her what would be required, and told Her how much a carpet professional would charge for the work. i then volunteered to do the work for Her for free. i told Her that i had brought my tools with me and could do it now if She desired. She accepted my offer. i then spent the next 3 hours doing over $600 worth of carpet repair for Her. When i was done, She thanked me and sent me on my way. No kinky sex in return. No money paid. i simply served Her.
A few weeks later, She called me and asked me if i would be willing to come and do some work in Her yard. i told Her that i would be glad to.
Each time i did work for Her, She always stayed nearby, since She didn't know me and wanted to keep Her eyes on me. During that time, i always engaged Her in fun, interesting conversation that NEVER dealt with BDSM. W/we talked about O/our jobs, O/our families, O/our childhoods, O/our hobbies, but not BDSM. In short, W/we became friends.
Things evolved, and eventually She began to call me whenever She needed any work done around Her house.
After the 4th or 5th time i had done work for Her, she added the first semi-BDSM element to our relationship. When i had completed the work that She assigned me, She removed Her shoe and instructed me to kiss Her feet. i did so until She instructed me to stop. She then dismissed me as usual.
The next time She called me to do work for Her, She told me that from now on, when i greeted Her, She wanted me to get on my knees and kiss Her feet until She instructed me to stop. i obeyed.
Over time, O/our relationship advanced, and She asked me if i knew how to do a foot massage. i told Her that i had actually taken a massage class and knew how to do all types of massage. She started off by letting me give Her a foot massage, but W/we progressed to the point where She would often call me when She needed a body massage as well.
In time, She added other elements to our relationship. She maintains a complete dungeon, and anytime She would buy a new piece of equipment, She would call me and test the new equipment out on me.
After about a year of service, She wrote in Her on-line journal about one of Her 24/7 subs who She felt was the best sub that She had ever had. She described how the sub served Her needs and never asked for anything in return. There were never any requests for kinky sex. She wrote that the only reward this sub ever desired was to see Her smile.
When i read this in Her journal, i was the happiest sub in the world. i knew that She was talking about me, and the next time i saw Her, She told me that She had written about me in Her on-line journal.
That is how i became a 24/7 sub for Her. It is not the only way, but it is my personal story. Perhaps it will help you.
Good luck in Your search for a Mistress.
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