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masterlink65 -> RE: The need (10/28/2009 10:05:21 PM)
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this is an interesting question, from both sides. would it come into conflict in your friendship, and also your relationship with a vanilla lover( if it applies). and how many people on here have two lifestyles going on? some dont understand the need a masochist can have to feel some pain. or as a sadist to give it.
my friend pays big money for his visit to the pro-dommes. i have been practicing with the bull ship and getting pretty good. i asked him if he wanted to help me and he refused. he is terminally straight and would rather pay pro-domme fees.
i would allow my slave bruno to get his pain from previous users(not owners), so as bruno could get what was needed when i was not available.
most sadistic people,,, i would think,,,, would likely give it out to anyone that would get a kick out of it, seeing how a pain session has nothing to do with sex. but there are also people(like myself) that may have difficulty going out of their type range.
how it would conflict with a friendship? i suppose it depends on the people. would it bother me? doubt it.
i never understand how come gender specifics always come into play, with s/m and M/s. neither are really about sex, but rather, a different need that sex doesnt fulfill for some.
as a tattoo artist i do actually have a couple friends who come to me and NEED a tattoo. they need to feel that burn.
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