Aanakaris
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Here is why I find this offensive and not funny, probably not for the reasons most others are upset. 1. It's specific. This woman is named in the news article and then made fun of. She's targeted out specifically. We're not talking a dead baby joke, (Q: Which is easier to unload, a truck full of bowling balls or a truck full of dead babies. A: You can't use a pitchfork on bowling balls) it's going to your friend who lost his child and telling him dead baby jokes using the kids name. She's being singled out for humiliation. 2. Consent. I find forced sex fantasy stimulating. I find rape abhorrent. The issue is consent. I doubt this woman gave anyone the right to make this humiliating video about her. In fact I think only the anonymity if the internet allow the creator to make this without worrying about her brother/father/whomever coming over and pounding his face in. It's taking advantage of someone who cannot defend themselves and then calling it freedom of speech. freedom of expression does not make it right. If you would stand in the same room with this woman and while watching her cross the room crank up this song, point and laugh, then you are a bad person. If you would not do this then laughing about it when she's not there is just about as bad. I have more than my share of racist, sexist, pedophiliac, necrophelia, and so on jokes. I share many of them with my friends who appreciate that style of humor. I try to steer them clear of public forums (except for the above example) so as to avoid offending those who do not share this sense of humor. The poster probably wanted to see this all blow up to read the arguments that most certainly would follow (and did). If it made you chuckle that does not make you a bad person, just as donating to charity does not make you good, but the chuckle is a mark against. If this movie was made by the girl in question I would applaud her strength in adversity and probably get a laugh with her. But I REFUSE to laugh AT her and do think anyone who does is a bad person. So there it is.
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I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, It's a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope. Which is what I do, And that enables you to laugh at life's realities. -- Dr. Seuss
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