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Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/23/2009 7:46:05 PM

HisBestGirl

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Hello all,

Daddy recently decided on a particular form of punishment for me due to some brattish behaviour of late and it got me thinking...

I'm simply curious as to what kinds of punishment are regularly in rotation in your lives? Details given would be appreciated but not entirely necessary, I'm just trying to open up a dialogue.

Thankyou! :)

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/23/2009 7:52:43 PM

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I don't get punished. I do everything in my power to do what he says and to do things to make his life better and to make him as happy as I can. He knows that the only other people that ever come before him are my daughters because I also do everything in my power to make their lives better and as happy as I can and he never would interfere with that.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/23/2009 8:07:47 PM

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I don't get punished. I do as I'm told, when I'm told. That's not to say I don't make mistakes...because I do. My Owner, however, only reserves punishment for flagrant disobedience. The worst I've -ever- gotten was a stern verbal reprimand when I made a mistake quite a long while ago.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/23/2009 8:11:10 PM

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I would think a better question to ask would be "why was I bratty, and how can I fix that?"

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 8:40:08 AM

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Master usually used corner time. He knows it is the one thing i hate with a passion, and He also says that it gives Him time to think if i need to be punished more. While i try not to make mistakes, there are times when i do. Mostly, i've been having trouble giving up texting while driving...there are 4 emails on my blackberry as well as text and yahoo. i certainly learned after being in the corner for what felt like an eternity!

However, i am curious as to the bratty behavior that you say you displayed. i think there is the fun "brat" and a pain in the ass brat. Usually Master will simply laugh i've i'm being a silly brat, but gives adequate warning when He thinks i am being a brat brat.

Do you know where the bratty behavior came from? Some times it is a way of getting attention that one craves. It can also serve as a not-so-good way to vent resentment/anger that has built up. i agree that any time you find yourself being punished it is best to figure out why and fix it before the punishment gets worse!

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 8:43:39 AM

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The worst punishment i can get is for my Sir to tell me that he is upset with me, and disappointed. I seldom cry, but that will bring me to tears in a heartbeat.

As for sort of play punishments - he put me against the wall, and told me not to move. I had to stay there for half an hour, and half an hour literally not moving is torture. Your muscles cramp, you lose the feeling in your hands, and your calves hurt like hell. Of course, he may not have meant for me to be that still, but that is what he said so i did my damnest to obey. That has been a few years ago, and i haven't had to do that again - thank goddess.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 8:57:03 AM

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No punishment here either.. much like above posters. Carol does what she's told, when she's told. At least within our dynamic, anything else would simply be playing games.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 9:08:40 AM

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the worst punishment for me is when my Mistress is upset and wont speak to me and ignores me. so far Ive only gotten that 2 time and i do not want a third. i do have adhd so i work very hard at not forgetting something.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 9:15:00 AM

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My owner uses correction when needed to change my thought process or behavior but has never had to punish me. Punishment to us means there was a break down in our dynamics and that their is a bigger issue at hand than the actual act. I know for me that I strive to be pleasing to him, to be obediant, and when I fall short in those things I tend to be very hard on myself.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 12:06:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisBestGirl

I'm simply curious as to what kinds of punishment are regularly in rotation in your lives? Details given would be appreciated but not entirely necessary, I'm just trying to open up a dialogue.

Thankyou! :)

I wouldn't say it's *regular* as it's not very often but if it takes place it's almost always a cold caning.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 12:53:17 PM

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It wasn't regularly by any means, as I did my very best to be a good girl, but Sir would give me a red arse with His slapper. It only happened a couple times though, when I would "tease" Him too much. He'd give me fair warning, but I just couldn't resist.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 1:08:05 PM

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I've had one very severe punishment: A weekend of coldness, zero intimacy, no talking; Isolation without being actually alone. It was excruciating. For fuckups such as, forgetting to do something I was instructed to do, it's usually : Kneeling confession and admission of wrong doing, followed by him administering a hard, brutal spanking, followed by a hug and then a blowjob, to show that all is forgiven and we move forward. (penance and absolution) It may not work for others; it works for us.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 1:15:45 PM

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We do not engage in a punishment dynamic if something is wrong or I've made him unhappy we talk about it and then consider it resolved.

quote:

ORIGINAL: HisBestGirl

Hello all,

Daddy recently decided on a particular form of punishment for me due to some brattish behaviour of late and it got me thinking...

I'm simply curious as to what kinds of punishment are regularly in rotation in your lives? Details given would be appreciated but not entirely necessary, I'm just trying to open up a dialogue.

Thankyou! :)

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 1:53:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisBestGirl

Hello all,

Daddy recently decided on a particular form of punishment for me due to some brattish behaviour of late and it got me thinking...

I'm simply curious as to what kinds of punishment are regularly in rotation in your lives? Details given would be appreciated but not entirely necessary, I'm just trying to open up a dialogue.

Thankyou! :)

There are many different kinds I have used. She is required to write a paper on what the situation was, what she did, why it was incooect and what she should have. I will then "speak" to her about it. if the offense requires more there is extra chores, loss of privilages, corner time, in very rare, more extreme cases one could use OTK spanking. I do believe whatever the situation, the punishment if required, should fit the crime so to speak. In even in more rarest of circumstances, not allowing the submissive to serve

< Message edited by Acer49 -- 10/24/2009 1:56:12 PM >

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 2:00:18 PM

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i HATE being ignored and/or not being allowed to speak...so this is pretty much a good punishment for me, or so my Sir seems to think

but

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OTK spanking

this always works on me...and can turn to quite a bit of fun when the punishment part is done

eta... and as everyone knows, i'm ALWAYS in trouble!

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 2:09:46 PM

maat

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By no means usual in our relationship but the times it happend it was a cold caning. Hated every blow but also needed it. When its over its over, i cant dwell, i cant beat myself up anymore (cuz he already took care of that) and i can be forgiven and cuddle. i usualy get compleatly panicy when i think i did something wrong and the correction is simply a way to put a stop to that.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 2:24:45 PM

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I have been punished once when our relationship was new. He said I couldn't read books for 4 days. It was a very very long 4 days.

Our relationship is not based upon punishment. Our relationship is mainly based on the fact that we sincerely like being together. We share many of the same interests. We're best friends as well as Dominant/submissive.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 2:34:52 PM

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My Master has made me lie across the bed with no panties and whipped me with his belt until my ass was bright red and streaked with welts.Twice he has held me down and forcefully taken me in my ass with only his spit as lubricant. He slapped me in the mouth once to remind me who i was talking to (tone of voice was too assertive)..later that same night he dropped me off at a park at around midnight,gave me his leather jacket, told me to sit on the bench, and said i was outside for the night, that he would return at 9am and that i was not to move from the bench and needed to be exactly where he left me when he picked me up; that i needed to think about why he'd slapped me in the mouth earlier (he'd left me waiting at a casino w no money for him to pick me up for 14hrs,when he finally answered my call I was frantic as he was the only person i knew in Vegas, i was starving and frantic and my voice tone was too frantic so after he slapped me in the mouth startling me i started to cry, i cried all the way to the park he made me spend the night at and wait 9 more hours right after the 14 hrs with no food. I was pissed and outraged. i was texting some pretty angry things to him, that he was a monster and not the daddy i fell in love with, i cried when i had to pee and had to get off the bench he told me to "stay",then it got cold and dark and quiet..i curled into myself inside his big jacket and got very quiet as i was scared.my txts were more subdued..like that women were not supposed to be outside all night alone and that even in the arab country id spent my first 7 yrs in men ownd their women but would never leave their possessions outside all night unsupervised to risk being damaged or taken..by sunrise, my texts to him were begging him to forgive me for forgetting my place and my voice tone and thanking him for allowing me to atone for my insolence. When he picked me up at 9am i thought he was going to punish me for my angry texts id sent earlier in the night.I was delirious and babbling softly that i loved him and that i was sorry n id obey, id be his good girl i promised...he said very gently, "you are my good girl, the best girl i've ever had. you get to have mcdonalds and ride with me to run errands".i was so happy as i fell into a deep sleep in his vehicle next to him..til i woke up starving and realized id slept through the errands time and mcdonalds..i started whining i was so hungry and im such a good girl n try so hard to plz him n serve him but it ddnt matter i still got punished n i wantd my daddy, the good daddy i fell in love with that protected me n...i stopped in mid sentence as he put a mcmuffin in my hand..it was silent except for me eating the rest of the ride home. As we pulled in i thanked him softly for being my daddy..i wrote a poem about how scared id been n that i ddnt understand until morning when it ddnt matter to me that it wasnt fair and a very harsh punishment..it worked because i have never ever raised my voice or talked back to my master again..n he has never left me outside overnight again

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/24/2009 9:05:32 PM

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Mistress uses anything from spanking to physical exercise to get her point across. They are both equally effective. It is quite humiliating to do 100 squats in the nude while she sits on the bed and watches and corrects posture.

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RE: Curious as to forms of punishment... - 10/25/2009 1:02:29 AM

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OMG, blackdaddy4me. That sounds so abusive, but then, it's NONE of my business. But I would be scared spitless being left in a park alone all night. Anything, horrible things, could happen to a woman in that situation.....

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