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Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 10:46:49 AM   
DreamLord


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Status: offline 		I often hear of abuses by men on this site. And I do understand, but then, it goes both ways. I have had at least three situations where women mis-represented themselves - especially in their pics. For example, right now, there is a posting by a young brunette girl on here (girl?) saying she is from Illinois and looking only for women. Yet at the same time, the same (3) pictures appear for a girl with UK in her name saying she is looking for a Dom. The managers of this site need some way to let people out such frauds, as it hurts everyone - including the site owners.

I hope action is taken soon.
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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 11:05:22 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I guess the way I look at it is this--
It's a free site and we're all adults. There are a lot of precautions that can be taken to avoid harm. I figure that while misrepresentation is a hassle, its' also easily caught as soon as you meet in person.

If someone says they're a 20-something blonde female, and they're relaly a 48y/o male that becomes apparant the first time you see each other.

Too, pictures are easily stolen online. I've run into a couple people using my pictures as their own on other sites. Not nice, but not really fixable. Even right-click disablers don't work. Again, problem is solved as soon as you meet the person face to face.

I don't want to have to pay for this site, because if it went that way I'd have to leave, and I really like it here. I figure that the way it's run works pretty darn well. There's the option of reporting profiles, for those tat are flagrant violations, and the option of requiring webcams, or new photos, or phone calls, or fast meetings for those of you who are looking for primary partners.

~shrug~

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 11:22:36 AM   
yourMissTress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DreamLord

I often hear of abuses by men on this site. And I do understand, but then, it goes both ways. I have had at least three situations where women mis-represented themselves - especially in their pics. For example, right now, there is a posting by a young brunette girl on here (girl?) saying she is from Illinois and looking only for women. Yet at the same time, the same (3) pictures appear for a girl with UK in her name saying she is looking for a Dom. The managers of this site need some way to let people out such frauds, as it hurts everyone - including the site owners.

I hope action is taken soon.



Maybe it's not for you or anyone else to decide who is real and who is a cartoon. Maybe that's why you are free to browse profiles and hit the "next" button when you see one that isn't what you are looking for.

Maybe she's both. Maybe for part of the year she lives as a lesbian in IL, and another part of the year she lives in the UK as a hetero fem sub. Maybe she has MPD. Maybe not.

Why is it that these posts are always the first posts that the poster makes? I mean, it would really be easier to unload ALL my sarcastic remarks on someone that's not new. I really hate holding back like this, but I don't want to blast a newbie.






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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 11:39:48 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Brewing fresh coffee.... AGAIN.... settin gout the condiments... snacks....

Ok, now that... that is done... let me be the first to say....

I"M A FAKE!!!!!!

I came on this sight back in Nov.. screwed up my profile, fixed it 2 other times. Jotted in journal... the whole damn thing was ignored... and was still pegged as a Fake. Ok fine then. I'm a fake. I never claimed to be slave... i'm too out spoken... got a mind of my own... and can actualy think for myself. And because I have the qualities about myself.. i'm labeled a fake..

I have but one response to this........ GO SCREW YOURSELF! What makes me a fake to others... makes me the perfect one for Master Sinful.... and that's all that matters.

Coffee anyone?....

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 11:56:05 AM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Brewing fresh coffee.... AGAIN.... settin gout the condiments... snacks....

Ok, now that... that is done... let me be the first to say....

I"M A FAKE!!!!!!

I came on this sight back in Nov.. screwed up my profile, fixed it 2 other times. Jotted in journal... the whole damn thing was ignored... and was still pegged as a Fake. Ok fine then. I'm a fake. I never claimed to be slave... i'm too out spoken... got a mind of my own... and can actualy think for myself. And because I have the qualities about myself.. i'm labeled a fake..

I have but one response to this........ GO SCREW YOURSELF! What makes me a fake to others... makes me the perfect one for Master Sinful.... and that's all that matters.

Coffee anyone?....


Let's not forget that I was also branded a fake when I first arrived simply because "John Warren" wouldn't be spending his time on a site like this.

Kinda reminds me of the shock in my students' eyes when they encountered me off campus. Sorta "gee, you have to shop for food?"

What do they thing... the bursar comes by and turns me off after each lecture?

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 11:58:43 AM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

What do they thing... the bursar comes by and turns me off after each lecture?


Did they plug you in for battery to recharge as well?

< Message edited by truesub4u -- 3/7/2006 11:59:01 AM >

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 12:09:21 PM   
BitaTruble


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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 12:17:27 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		People lie and misrepresent themselves?

How did I miss that memo?

Never expect people online to act appropriately, or in a way that you find acceptable.

Be happily surprised when they do.

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 12:19:47 PM   
windchymes


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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 12:47:23 PM   
passionfirenmo


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Status: offline 		Loved your reply....... COFFEE? May I have mine with creamer please?
quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Brewing fresh coffee.... AGAIN.... settin gout the condiments... snacks....

Ok, now that... that is done... let me be the first to say....

I"M A FAKE!!!!!!

I came on this sight back in Nov.. screwed up my profile, fixed it 2 other times. Jotted in journal... the whole damn thing was ignored... and was still pegged as a Fake. Ok fine then. I'm a fake. I never claimed to be slave... i'm too out spoken... got a mind of my own... and can actualy think for myself. And because I have the qualities about myself.. i'm labeled a fake..

I have but one response to this........ GO SCREW YOURSELF! What makes me a fake to others... makes me the perfect one for Master Sinful.... and that's all that matters.

Coffee anyone?....


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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 12:49:24 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		I agree with what everyone has said so far. I kinda stood on my head and looked at the OPS concerns from a different angle as well, which bought up the question "What is the responsibility of a dating service?" After all, one of the objects of this site is to bring people together, find matches etc. I've never used a dating service, nor do I use this site for such, but many people do. Does a dating service have any responsibility toward the people they are bringing together? What checks are made to ensure someone is who they say they are, if any? If someone joined a dating service and one day said they were one thing and another day they said were another, would the dating service carry two profiles of the person? How would that be managed? Just thoughts....

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 12:53:36 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Alas, I've learned to accept fakes for exactly what they are.
I look at it this way....if she's faking the orgasm, atleast she's doing it for me!

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 1:32:19 PM   
IronBear


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From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DreamLord

I often hear of abuses by men on this site. And I do understand, but then, it goes both ways. I have had at least three situations where women mis-represented themselves - especially in their pics. For example, right now, there is a posting by a young brunette girl on here (girl?) saying she is from Illinois and looking only for women. Yet at the same time, the same (3) pictures appear for a girl with UK in her name saying she is looking for a Dom. The managers of this site need some way to let people out such frauds, as it hurts everyone - including the site owners.

I hope action is taken soon.



Let's see. Are you a newby still suffering from cultural shock and social inexperience in the lifetyle? Hardly. In your own words, and I quote from the opening paragraph of your profile (damn it I'll quote the whole paragraph"

quote:

I have been in this life for 12 years and done much. I have taught and owned, I have been Master and Mentor, had experience with subs and slaves and almost all I have known are still good friends. This is important to me, and should be to you. In other words, I have references that can be checked - so I will not and cannot lie to you. I am 1/2 English and 1/2 Texan, I am a published author and speaker, and in my field am known as a fighter.


So are you going to seriously ask meto believe that you, who have been in the lifestyle for 12 years, had all this experience, and are a published author and speaker are so naive that someone dollying up a profile pic is such a shock that you haveto make the "Grand Entre'" to CM and demand with such Grand Passion" that the managers of this site need some way to let people out such frauds, as it hurts everyone - including the site owners. (your words, not mine)? Welcome to the real world son. This is the cyber world where smoke and mirrors are a dime a dozen. We get opening threads like this with manotonous regularity, so you can stop blowing smoke up our arses and see what you've done.. make a bloody great ass of yourself and become the latest entrant for Male Drama Queen (Take a left and the gir;s(boys) at the Follies will help you get into drag after shaving your face, legs and arse.... Seriously, a piece of advise, go take a cold shower and spend a few days reading and watching before you make a second post....


The Lipsmackin’, Thirstquenchin’, Acetastin’, Motivatin’, Goodbuzzin’, Coldtalkin’, Highwalkin’, Fastlivin’, Coolfizzin’, Grizzly Old Fart.


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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 1:47:29 PM   
angelic


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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 2:31:12 PM   
Cloudz


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Status: offline 		true, I must admit I always enjoy what you bring to the table...coffee, snacks, the occasional popcorn...I understand the need to occasionally stand on the bar and shout "PISS OFF" it really only encourages the fools, but I am always one to stand up for a good rant...so well done...and yes, a cup over here please.
quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Brewing fresh coffee.... AGAIN.... settin gout the condiments... snacks....

Ok, now that... that is done... let me be the first to say....

I"M A FAKE!!!!!!

I came on this sight back in Nov.. screwed up my profile, fixed it 2 other times. Jotted in journal... the whole damn thing was ignored... and was still pegged as a Fake. Ok fine then. I'm a fake. I never claimed to be slave... i'm too out spoken... got a mind of my own... and can actualy think for myself. And because I have the qualities about myself.. i'm labeled a fake..

I have but one response to this........ GO SCREW YOURSELF! What makes me a fake to others... makes me the perfect one for Master Sinful.... and that's all that matters.

Coffee anyone?....



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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 2:35:57 PM   
Cloudz


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Status: offline 		Oh John,

Thank you...you made me choke on my popcorn which brought tears to my eyes...and I realize this is not the normal way you choke women and bring tears to their eyes, but I can completely relate to the feeling -
quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren


quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Brewing fresh coffee.... AGAIN.... settin gout the condiments... snacks....

Ok, now that... that is done... let me be the first to say....

I"M A FAKE!!!!!!

I came on this sight back in Nov.. screwed up my profile, fixed it 2 other times. Jotted in journal... the whole damn thing was ignored... and was still pegged as a Fake. Ok fine then. I'm a fake. I never claimed to be slave... i'm too out spoken... got a mind of my own... and can actualy think for myself. And because I have the qualities about myself.. i'm labeled a fake..

I have but one response to this........ GO SCREW YOURSELF! What makes me a fake to others... makes me the perfect one for Master Sinful.... and that's all that matters.

Coffee anyone?....


Let's not forget that I was also branded a fake when I first arrived simply because "John Warren" wouldn't be spending his time on a site like this.

Kinda reminds me of the shock in my students' eyes when they encountered me off campus. Sorta "gee, you have to shop for food?"

What do they thing... the bursar comes by and turns me off after each lecture?



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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 3:14:02 PM   
Driver1961


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Status: offline 		He enters, dips His lid,smiles to all...............adjusts His ample cleavage to squeeze into His undersized 48DD Berlei Bra, looks for His size 12 G string................

Yes, it is sad and frustrating Dreamlord. Yet, truly (I believe) indicative of the skills a D has to exhibit to example their ability to provide Domly traits to a sub. No need to rant, nor wail like an uncontrolled screaming banshee (a sub who needs a strong, empathic D)

It's all good, the internet has the elements of a community, (free or not) people will always misrepresent themselves for numerous reasons and highlight our personal dislikes about other individuals.

Laugh it off Dreamlord, this girl and many others (men included) are just the girl 'at the bar' taking your free drink, flirting, sucking you in and spitting you out. Angry? Get over it and readjust your senses (as others say here) to make better choices.

Warm regards to all,

Paul, Sir to His Angel and Wild.

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 3:38:38 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

I"M A FAKE!!!!!!

I have but one response to this........ GO SCREW YOURSELF! What makes me a fake to others... makes me the perfect one for Master Sinful.... and that's all that matters.

Coffee anyone?....




<spews My martini across the desk>---damn truesub,I go out to get My nails done because I see the boy this weekend and I come back to you standing on the desk ranting, chest heaving screaming "go fuck yourself"--good gawd---ahhh yes another newbie with email issues--<tear>

ok hon, calm down--its another newb, who thinks he is alone the victim of abuse ( ooops did I say that?), rest honey and I will take care of this---

BABAGOI


Build a Bridge and get over it---dude




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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 4:22:13 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry.. didn't mean for it to mean to sound like I was ranting... i was just commenting on the OP's statement over picking out the fakes.
(quickly cleaning MHOO's martini off desk)
(Pours Cloudz a cup of java)
(pours passionfire a cup of java... adding creamer)

Sorry all... I didn't mean for it to sound like a rant.. it was more or less for the one looking for the fakes... instead of spending their time looking for one to connect with...

slavejali........no you did not go there... lol... Dating services are something you pay for. Something you go to and say hey.. Find me a date. CM is a place for folks to hang out.. talk.. have fun.. and perhaps every now and then.. two (or more depending on your cup of tea) will meet...and things happen. Hope CM doesn't tke this to heart and break out the charges... <grinz>

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RE: Fakes and More fakes - 3/7/2006 4:51:03 PM   
angelic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314


quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

I"M A FAKE!!!!!!

I have but one response to this........ GO SCREW YOURSELF! What makes me a fake to others... makes me the perfect one for Master Sinful.... and that's all that matters.

Coffee anyone?....




<spews My martini across the desk>---damn truesub,I go out to get My nails done because I see the boy this weekend and I come back to you standing on the desk ranting, chest heaving screaming "go fuck yourself"--good gawd---ahhh yes another newbie with email issues--<tear>

ok hon, calm down--its another newb, who thinks he is alone the victim of abuse ( ooops did I say that?), rest honey and I will take care of this---
BABAGOI
Build a Bridge and get over it---dude


rofl... well at least You didn't say victim of a 'pig' Ma'am


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