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LafayetteLady -> RE: Knowing Fake from Real Online (12/22/2009 10:04:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: supportourtroops
Your incorrect there are SF Officiers. As for mine the pictures arent fake. I have several in active ACU's in the desert with other Soldiers in his unit. Name, rank, unit, clearly seen on uniform. A group of soldiers dont get together and wear fake uniforms in military airplanes, helicopters, etc. I also have 2 of his official military dress portrait, again rank clear. In acuatality I dont give a shit what his rank or unit is. I just want to know he the person sending the photos and is not married. The End.
The question is again, how do you know the person who is sending the information and photos is the same person???? How many military have you dated? Has been in your family? How many deployments have you been through? My ex DOM of 5 years was military and went through 2 deployments with him, the reason it wasnt a problem??? I knew him PRIOR to being deployed. This is the first time I've met someone online who wasnt in my city to meet face to face. I have zero experience with it or how to tell if they are real. I was under the impression you could come here and ask others for helpful advice. Crazy F*cking ME.
So you have picture proving this is a real person. Terrific. You don't need to have experience telling if someone is "real" or not and let's face it that isn't what you are asking or getting pissy about. You can't tell even face to face if someone is married just upon meeting them.
So what do you do? The answer should be very simple for "Crazy F*cking YOU." Don't submit on line! Keep talking, get to know him and be his friend. Keep all the kinky stuff off the table, no sex talk, just get to know one another. Explain that until you can meet face to face, that's as good as it will get. I'm sure there are times that he can web cam or Skype, but of course not in his "personal quarters" so the complaint here isn't that you can't have the conversation, it is that the two of you can't get naked and cyber sex because others would see. Is that all you want from a guy? Is THAT how you support our troops, by getting them off? Or are you looking to develop a serious relationship with someone?
I will give the guy the benefit of the doubt that he is the guy in the pictures and not some horny kid. But really, if you can't keep all the kink off the table until you can meet face to face, if he isn't willing to go "live" with webcam or Skype just to say hi so the two of you can look at each other, he isn't looking for anything more than you to be his kinky penpal and has little interest in you outside of how you can get him off.
If you are ok with that, then continue to help him jerk off in quarters. If you want more than that, then put your damn clothes on and have a conversation that doesn't involve sex.
It really is THAT simple. You wanted advice, Lady Pact and others who have EXTENSIVE knowledge and experience on relationships with military personnel have given it to you. I don't give a dung beetle's droppings whether he is military or not, or how long it may or may not be before a face to face can happen. You are a 41 year old woman, if you can't talk to the guy about anything but sex then you both are getting what you put into it and ten months from now if you do meet him face to face the only interest he will have is getting in your pants. It's that f*cking simple.
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