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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 5:04:26 PM

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It's where you live mentally, not physically, that counts.

That phrase and what it implies could apply to just about every thread posted on these forums...says it all...game over!

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 6:21:51 PM

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I don't see how strap on play with a guy can count as servicing a dom in any way. It should be a reward, or punishment, depending on how it's implimented. It can either be something very fun, or something quite painful.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 7:44:03 PM

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It can either be something very fun, or something quite painful.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 8:16:39 PM

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And here I am thinkin I'm the bad guy

So this is the first time I actually looked to see Mal's location and I'm gonna love doing this:

5 years ago a ProDomme in Michigan was arrested and charged on felony counts of running a house of ill repute just for mentioning strap-on stuff in a yahoo IM. Mal is located in Novi, Michigan. It's only a matter of time. I don't wish ill on anyone, but I'm just putting the warning out...stop announcing that you pay for sex in Michigan...they will get you and they will nail you to a cross for it as the trophy prize on this issue.

If the Pro who sees you, bothers to read this thread, take heed because you'll be the primary target, lady, and that means registering with the national sex offenders list if you're located in any school district and at the very least registering with the Michigan sex offenders list. If you don't understand the consequences of such a conviction, because they will convict you...Mal has made sure of it...then I suggest reading up on how closely they will monitor you. Also, if you go with a private lawyer, your fees will amount to the 100's of thousands of dollars.

Trust me on this...

If you don't believe me (I know, a gay paper is one of my references and Mal may not take it seriously because of it but who cares?) here's the facts:

http://www.pridesource.com/article.html?article=20204

http://theburnlab.blogspot.com/2006_09_01_archive.html

Because I realized it would take a minute to shift through the secondary link...

Saturday, September 16
Free Domme 2006 afterparty
Masonic Temple: 500 Temple, Detroit - Shriners Tower (right side)
11pm | $8 suggested donation
featuring DJ's
BMG of Ectomorph [Interdimensional Transmissions]
and Dethlab [Toybreaker and yours truly]
+ fetish burlesque show at 12:30

FreeDomme 2006 is the largest fetish event of the year, and a benefit for Mistress Golden, who is fighting "lewdness" charges for running a legitimate, no-sex professional domme establishment in Oakland County.

"The court has ruled that alternative lifestyles can be considered lewd, and, therefore, illegal. Mistress Golden has unsuccessfully fought the court system on this issue for two years, depleting her savings. In the end, she was faced with a choice between putting herself and her family through a lengthy, sensationalized trial or pleading No Contest to a felony with extensive fines. This is a fundraiser to help offset that loss.

People who engage in any act that a judge, a jury or the court of public opinion considers lewd or obscene can be charged, prosecuted and convicted as felons. This fundraiser will promote tolerance, raising the awareness of alternative lifestyles, in the spirit of diversity and democracy on which our nation was founded. If you believe that the government has no place dictating what consenting adults do behind closed doors, then support this FUNdraising event!"

Whether pro-domme is your cup of tea or not, this is an important personal liberties cause, and it's going to be a total blast of a party. BMG + Dethlab = dark-ass electro all night! Dress code will be enforced, so find your inner-goth and be creative (and when in doubt, black is best.)

Just so ya know...

boi
Who was intimately involved in the fundraiser that followed because of MissGolden's contributions to the local Leather Community

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 8:22:10 PM

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Yes. For those who charge, please do continue to do so. It keeps clients out of our lives, associations, and organizations. Please take their money in exchange for putting up with them, because nobody else is willing to do so in an actual relationship. When they stop paying you, thankfully, you will have the good fortune of never having to see them again, unless they come up with more cash.

One day, when you have changed professions or retired, I hope that you enjoy the things that the money bought. That you have a comfortable home, with many pretty things in it, and have somebody very special to share them with. I sincerely hope that you find that person that you want to grow old with and you live out your days with them happy, content, and fulfilled.

At some point, the clients will be just a memory.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 9:11:39 PM

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Thanks for that super scary memory, Boijen! I remind folks of it often...

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 9:25:02 PM

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LadyH, you and I both know how important that whole thing was. We also know that the consequences of that issue are still around. Mal on the other hand wants to ignore the reality over his need for ass fucking...which only proves my point.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 9:33:03 PM

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It's not just a need for an ass fucking. It is a need to talk about it, push it on others.. pant in public and make it into something not so appealing.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 9:58:53 PM

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Which is exactly why I quit reading what he had to say ages ago, Lockit. I decided that if he had nothing to say that wasn't innane and completely devoid of meaning, then I wasn't going to waste my time on him.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 3:10:14 AM

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I mean how real is it.. Ive always just assumed he was having a really rich and lathered fantasy life...and thusly do not get my panties in a knot ...

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 3:24:11 AM

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Nothing in a knot here - but who needs more pointless blather in their life? I work in a prison - I get enough of that from the offenders.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:05:09 AM

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Mallove don't be absurd. Disagreeing with someone, strongly, is quite fair enough particuarly when you feel passionately about something but using sexuality as an insult on a site which is dedicated to finding partners for sexual deviants is at best ill advised and at worst terminally inept.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:31:47 AM

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Mal,

Actually just becouse something which is against the law takes place behind closed doors, does not protect it from legal ramifications...... otherwise people commiting murder would simply shut the door. Paying for sex, is against the law in Michigan, pro-dom's have been arrested in Michigan, it is a topic often discussed in the Michigan community, perhaps if you involved yourself in the community instead of simply paying a hooker and calling it any version of BDSM, you would know more about the community in which you live in. I have nothing against you, I do pity you, that you have no realationship, and have to pay a hooker to have sex with you. I pity you, becouse you think nothing of having unprotected sex with a woman who clearly doesn't care about who she has unprotected sex with... it frightens me that in todays day and age anyone would risk having unprotected sex with a hooker who if you pay enough will go bareback.

As for the Original Post, no, this is not male bashing on my part, but I will say any email I get that starts with I want to serve you, will you do me in the ass with your big strap on, it gets delated......... in my life strap on play is a reward for the submissive, and fun for me, but only if it is under my control, as in I choose when, where, and how, not him/her. I love my male slave, enough that I eventually even allowed him to join me in marriage, certianly no male bashing here, but he is one of those rare A+ men.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:44:14 AM

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Nothing in a knot here - but who needs more pointless blather in their life? I work in a prison - I get enough of that from the offenders.

May I recommend the "hide" feature at the lower left-hand side of someone's post? I've had on "hide" for over a year now a certain poster whose tedious repetition of his anal exploits bored me to tears, and thus I am no longer exposed to his silliness unless he kicks up a shitstorm and I read of it through others' quotations. Now, if only you had that feature at work . . . .

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:45:53 AM

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damnit

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:46:59 AM

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Mal,

Check you local laws....just because it's behind closed doors doesn't make it legal. For an example a little less extreme than murder, smoking pot recreationally is still illegal in Michigan even if it's behind closed doors. Yes, what's behind closed doors between two adults is legal in Michigan with two major exceptions: when there's money involved and when someone gets hurt.

As for my identity...I know who I am and don't have to pay anyone to validate that...not a hooker or a head shrink.

boi

PS ...if you are barebacking, go see a Dr and get an STD screening...you need it when syphilis is on the rise in most major areas and has been for the last 8 years. (former sexual education outreach participant)

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:52:17 AM

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Unless i've misunderstood the situation to quite some extent [I concede that's not entirely impossible], despite Mallove posting some deeply offensive posts he makes it clear that he uses the services of a professional dominatrix. THat's not a hooker she is in the sex industry certainly but so is a stripper or a porn star and they are all wildly different things. I doubt that most glamour models would be thrilled at being described as hookers.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:56:26 AM

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@Starbuck......... he has posted that his "prodom" has full contact unprotected sex with him, both intercourse, as well as oral sex... that makes her a hooker, not a pro dom. He has posted on other threads how he loved to "eat the cream" from her vagina after he cums in her.......... that makes her a hooker who endangers people. Apparently the only thing she does in the BDSM realm is to do him up the anus with strap ons and fisting, doesn't reall make her a prodom in my eyes.. makes her a hooker who does some anal specialty stuff.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:57:34 AM

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*adores BoiJen...
and mal....

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/30/2009 6:58:56 AM

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From having read mal's posts a long time ago, I am under the impression that he *does* have sex with his (paid) mistress, so I'm afraid it does make her a prostitute. In any case, as noted above, penetration = sex; if this is paid for, it's prostitution in just about every state of the union and a lot of foreign countries, as well.

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