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Public scene help! - 10/26/2009 5:09:09 PM

SickVioletSkies

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I give up! I don't know where to look anymore!

Does anyone have any ideas for a public scene with a male sub? I've come across some good ones with female subs but it's just not the same, obviously. Ha.

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RE: Public scene help! - 10/26/2009 5:24:10 PM

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What do you mean by "a public scene?" Are you talking about out among the general population or about at a BDSM club or event?

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RE: Public scene help! - 10/26/2009 5:28:17 PM

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General population.

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RE: Public scene help! - 10/26/2009 7:50:40 PM

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You won't find a lot of people here who are willing to help you and many (if not most) will rip you a new orifice for even asking. It's generally considered bad form to involve the unconsenting public in your kink. Especially where minors might be exposed to it. Depending on the laws in your area and the exact nature of your activities, public scenes may be considered public indecency and, therefore, illegal. You'll do better to skip the exposure and limit your public play to BDSM clubs.

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RE: Public scene help! - 10/26/2009 11:42:01 PM

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Thanks for the warning, I'll think about that.

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RE: Public scene help! - 10/27/2009 2:46:47 AM

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There are things to do were the public wouldn't realize the "play" was occuring.
make him wear a butt plug
make him wear panties(if he is into forced feminization)
make him wear some kind of make up like mascara (if he is into forced feminization)
make him wear a posture collar
make him wear a chastity belt
make him call you mistress when speaking to you publically

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RE: Public scene help! - 10/30/2009 10:33:27 PM

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Use a remote controlled vibe in his arse (or strap it to his cock/balls) and control him by blipping it. You can have no end of fun in public without the public being aware (thereby not involving non-consenting people in anything). For eg, go to a buffet restaurant, sit where you have full view of the buffet and have him fetch your meal for you by simply having him pause at each dish. Buzz him if you want it, no buzz if you don't. Or use it at a party, allow him to circulate freely then blip him when you want him by your side. He must excuse himself by saying "Excuse me, Mistress requires me" ... the worst it will do is leave the other person wondering how in hell he knew that LOL!

Other subtle forms of public play include:
* have him walk 3 steps behind you only dashing forward to open any doors
* have him carry all your packages
* have him carry your purse for you
* take him shopping for female clothes for him and humiliate him by holding panties up to him to see if they might fit or asking him if he thinks this shade of stocking will go with his new high heeled shoes you bought yesterday etc. However don't do this if kids are nearby, have some sensibility to who is around
* if he is an habitual scratcher (you know, can't help scratching his balls), tie that wrist to yours and have him walk close to you/hold hands so it's not otherwise obvious. It will become moreso if he goes to scratch! Great way of breaking a bad habit
* do as I did to one of Mine, put in a hard butt plug then take him to a Greek restaurant (think about it!) and have him sit on a hard wooden chair for several hours and tell him off when he starts fidgeting and squirming
* order for him at a restaurant or cafe and resist all efforts by waiters to get him to speak for himself (I once did that with 2 boys and the waiter just about went crazy trying to get one or the other to speak up LOL!)

Whilst the last one does involve the waiter who didn't consent, it's hardly "dangerous" and is nothing more than being eccentric or awkward, and probably in a more noteworthy way than most awkward customers!

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RE: Public scene help! - 11/5/2009 11:36:26 PM

azjojoba

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Once at a brew pub I saw a couple heading out. The woman was tall and quite good looking, and was walking in the lead. He followed directly behind her and looked at the ground -- almost at her high heeled shoes.

There was no question in my mind that he was in trouble and was being taken somewhere for a severe punishment. In a way I thought it was erotic to imagine myself in that position of submission to a strong assertive woman, but I sensed that this guy was going to get far more than an erotic spanking. Her expression left no doubt who was in charge, and how serious his infraction was. Maybe she saw him flirting, or perhaps she thought he drank too much beer. I'll never know.

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RE: Public scene help! - 11/5/2009 11:43:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaamJay

Use a remote controlled vibe in his arse (or strap it to his cock/balls) and control him by blipping it. You can have no end of fun in public without the public being aware (thereby not involving non-consenting people in anything). For eg, go to a buffet restaurant, sit where you have full view of the buffet and have him fetch your meal for you by simply having him pause at each dish. Buzz him if you want it, no buzz if you don't. Or use it at a party, allow him to circulate freely then blip him when you want him by your side. He must excuse himself by saying "Excuse me, Mistress requires me" ... the worst it will do is leave the other person wondering how in hell he knew that LOL!

Other subtle forms of public play include:
* have him walk 3 steps behind you only dashing forward to open any doors
* have him carry all your packages
* have him carry your purse for you
* take him shopping for female clothes for him and humiliate him by holding panties up to him to see if they might fit or asking him if he thinks this shade of stocking will go with his new high heeled shoes you bought yesterday etc. However don't do this if kids are nearby, have some sensibility to who is around
* if he is an habitual scratcher (you know, can't help scratching his balls), tie that wrist to yours and have him walk close to you/hold hands so it's not otherwise obvious. It will become moreso if he goes to scratch! Great way of breaking a bad habit
* do as I did to one of Mine, put in a hard butt plug then take him to a Greek restaurant (think about it!) and have him sit on a hard wooden chair for several hours and tell him off when he starts fidgeting and squirming
* order for him at a restaurant or cafe and resist all efforts by waiters to get him to speak for himself (I once did that with 2 boys and the waiter just about went crazy trying to get one or the other to speak up LOL!)

Whilst the last one does involve the waiter who didn't consent, it's hardly "dangerous" and is nothing more than being eccentric or awkward, and probably in a more noteworthy way than most awkward customers!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

I've done a couple of those with my pet. The shopping especially, but that's a normal occurrence for us. The ordering for him sometimes is amusing. I didn't go with a plug per se though on that one... I have this radio controlled egg vibe. Works up to about 10m. Very quiet too. Can be very entertaining to see him standing in line, all I have to do is press a button in my pocket and see him almost go to his knees. Always good for putting a smile on my face. :)

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RE: Public scene help! - 11/6/2009 10:30:03 PM

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If you know how to do any rope bondage, a karada harness goes really well under clothing if your slave would love to wear rope in public. I make my slave wear his panties out in public as well as having worn a couple different wrist rope cuffs in public under a sweatshirt. (If he enjoys crossdressing, make him wear some completely skanky top and let him throw a male sweatshirt over it. It will be a complete mindfuck for him because he'll think people will know even if they can't.)

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